Maloto athu akhoza kukhala osowa chimwemwe, ndikutipatsa ife zovuta ndi mayesero, kuti timvetsetse momwe utawaleza wokongola mumlengalenga ukulota, sizingakhale zodabwitsa, mwadzidzidzi zingakuthandizeni kuchita zoyenera ndikupewa mavuto.
N'chifukwa chiyani utawaleza wokongola?
Choyamba, ife timapita kumabuku a malotowo, iwo amafotokoza bwino chimene utawaleza akulota. Malingana ndi iwo, utawaleza ndi chizindikiro chaumulungu, ndipo ndi zabwino kwambiri.
- Mukamamuona m'maloto, mungathe kuyembekezera kuti posachedwapa m'moyo wanu padzakhala chimwemwe, mwinamwake padzakhala ndalama zambiri, kapena msonkhano ndi wokondedwa.
- Pali zotheka kwambiri kuti maloto anu okondedwa kwambiri akwaniritsidwe, chokhumba chidzakwaniritsidwa kapena mudzalandira malonda omwe akhala akudikira kwa nthawi yaitali.
- Chizindikiro chabwino kwambiri chimaganiziridwa ngati mu loto munthu amawona arc katatu kumwamba.
- Ngati mzimayi wosakwatiwa akuwona utawaleza, akhoza kutsimikiza kuti posachedwa adzapeza wokondedwa weniweni, yemwe adzamukonda, ndipo adzafuna kumanga naye chibwenzi cholimba chozikidwa pa chikhulupiliro ndi chikondi.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota utawaleza wamitundu itatu?
Masomphenyawa akulonjeza kupambana kosaneneka, ndipo nthawi zonse, mmoyo mutatha chiwonetsero choyambitsa gulu loyera.
Kodi utawaleza amawoneka bwanji ngati mwamuna?
Maloto a munthu nthawi zambiri amalonjeza kupambana , osati chikondi, mnyamata, mwinamwake, pali kukwezedwa, bonasi kapena bizinesi yomwe siingakanidwe, yokongola komanso yopindulitsa.
Maloto a utawaleza ndi Freyd
Tsopano tiyeni titembenuzire ku kutanthauzira kwa masomphenya otere molingana ndi Freud. Anakhulupirira kuti chiwembu choterechi chikunena za kusakhutitsidwa kwa kugonana, chilakolako chosiyana moyo wake wapamtima. Mwina munthu amene amaona maloto amenewa nthawi zambiri, amalepheretsa zilakolako zake, salola kuti azigona pabedi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo nthawi zambiri amalangiza anthu oterewa kuti akambirane ndi wokondedwa wawo za malingaliro awo pa moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana, kufotokozera malingaliro awo ndikuwamasulira. Freud, akukambirana za mvula yambiri ya maloto, analankhula zapafupi, anadandaula, mwinamwake akangoyamba zaka zachinyamata, adatsutsa kuti zinali zoopsa kwambiri, chifukwa munthu amene anakana gawo lake sangasangalale ndipo sangachite bwino mu mbali zina za moyo.
Zomwe mukhulupirire, mabuku a maloto kapena Freud, amadzifotokozera okha, koma okhulupirira nyenyezi ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti asanthule khalidwe lawo ndikusankha kugwiritsira ntchito kumasulira tulo komwe kumakukhudzani kwambiri.