Mwina, mutatha kuwerenga mutu wa nkhaniyi, ambiri adzadabwa - ndi chiyani chomwe chidzaphunzire? Maso oyambirira kutsegula, koma kutsekedwa kwa mpweya kukuimira. Kumbali imodzi, ndizoona, ngati zonse ziri bwino ndi malingaliro, ndiye kuti pasakhale mavuto ena apadera ndi maloto. Ndilo vuto basi - ndi zithunzi zambiri zotere zomwe zimakhala zenizeni? Chabwino, ngati chimodzi, ngakhale chophweka, chonga kugula chinthu chatsopano. Ndipo zimachitika chifukwa sitimalota bwino, kotero tiyeni tione m'mene tingachitire, kuti zokhumba zichitikedi.
Kuphunzira kulota bwino
- Maganizo abwino . Kumbukirani, mumaganiza chiyani za tsiku lomaliza? Ndi malingaliro anu angati omwe anali okondwa, kodi mumayembekezera mwayi kapena chimwemwe tsiku lililonse? Kaŵirikaŵiri timadzikonza tokha ndi zotsatira zoipa, ndipo timadabwa mozama chifukwa chake ndife osasamala kwambiri. Kumbukirani, malingaliro ndi zinthu zakuthupi, ziyenera kukwaniritsidwa, ndipo ngati mwakhala mukukumana ndi mavuto tsiku lonse, zidzakwaniritsidwa ndithu. Choncho, yambani kukhulupirira zinthu zabwino kwambiri, zomwe simungathe kuziwerenga, koma chiyembekezo kuti zonse zidzatha.
- Lota mosamala. Mwinamwake inu tsiku ndi tsiku mukuganiza za galimoto yatsopano kapena kuyembekezera kuwoneka kwa "kalonga pa kavalo woyera," koma maloto sadzakwaniritsidwa, bwanji? Mwachidziwikiratu, simungaganize za zotsatira za kukwaniritsa chilakolako chanu, kudziika pa "chosowa" chophweka. Pofuna kuti malotowo akwaniritsidwe, m'pofunika kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane, kuganizira momwe moyo wanu udzakutsogolererani kuti mukwaniritse maloto anu. Maganizo amafunikira kwenikweni, ngati muwawonetsa kanjira yolondola, mwinamwake palibe chomwe chidzabwere. Koma samalani ndi kuganiza kudzera mwa njira yokwaniritsira chilakolako, mwachitsanzo, kupereka ndondomeko yazing'ono kwambiri pamsonkhano ndi mwamuna wam'tsogolo. Kotero inu mumangodzipangira mu chimango, kutseka mwayi wina kuti mukwaniritse chokhumba chanu.
- Chidziwitso chimodzi cha momwe tingakwaniritsire maloto sikwanira. Kawirikawiri, timachita zambiri kuti tikwaniritse malingaliro athu, tikuwonetsa bwino, koma mtunda wa pakati pa maloto ndi kukwaniritsidwa kwake siwuchepetsedwa. Izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa chakuti maloto athu sali onse omwe tikusowa, nthawi yokha, osati zomwe timafuna kuti tikhale osangalala. Mwachitsanzo, mukufuna kukhala woimba wotchuka, pomwe nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi luso la sayansi, zingakhale bwino kuchita zomwe mumachitadi? Kodi mukufunadi mwamuna wolemera, osanyalanyaza munthu yemwe ali ndi chikondi chenicheni ndi inu, amene chuma chake chiri chocheperapo kusiyana ndi phindu la pachaka la oligarchs? Kodi mukufuna chuma? Ndipo bwanji, chifukwa chokhalira nacho, popanda zolinga zolengedwa? Koma izi ndizolakwika, kuphedwa kwake sikudzakubweretsani chimwemwe, kumangotayika chabe tanthauzo la kukhalapo kwina, chifukwa kuti mutalandira ndalama popanda kudziwa za momwe akugwiritsire ntchito, mudzatengedwa kuti muwonongeke, choncho ganizirani mosamala za njira ndi cholinga chake. Chitani ichi ndi maloto anu onse, yesani kuyankha funsolo, kodi mungatani mutatembenuka. Ngati muli otsimikiza,
kuti malingaliro awa ndi omwe angakupatseni inu chisangalalo, ndiye chitenge icho kuti chikwaniritsidwe.
Ndipo potsiriza, mungathe kulota njira iliyonse yomwe mukufunira, kukhala ndi malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri omwe amakuthandizani kuona malingaliro anu, koma simungapeze chilichonse mukakhala pansi. Kuti kukwaniritsidwa kwa chilakolako chilichonse, ziwonetsero zina sizongokwanira, kuchita chenicheni n'kofunika. Choncho, khalani pabedi ndikutsatira njira zofunikira kuti mukwaniritse malingaliro anu. Ndipo, ndithudi, musaiwale maloto, chitani izi molondola, yesetsani kukhala ndi kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano, ndipo zonse zidzakuyenderani.