Madzulo, ndimakhazikitsa patsogolo pa TV kuti ndizisangalale ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimachitika m'mafilimu a Hollywood. Mu manja a chikho cha tiyi, ndi pafupi ndi mphaka, khalani pansi pa mpando wanga wokondedwa! Koma kwa kotofey wosasamala machimo onse akhululukidwa chifukwa cha kumverera kwachisokonezo chomwe chimakhala mu chipinda mwamsanga atangoyamba kuyeretsa. Ndipo phokosoli likudziwa kuti sindingathe kumukwiyitsa, ndikuyang'ana phokoso lamtendere ndikumvetsera zomwe zimamveka. Ndizosangalatsa, koma n'chifukwa chiyani amphaka amatsitsi, kwenikweni kuti asonyeze kusangalala kwawo komanso mwakachetechete kwa mwiniwake?
Chifukwa chiyani amphaka amphaka?
Kodi simunaganizepo chifukwa chake amphaka amatentha? Koma alipo anthu omwe apatula nthawi yochuluka kuti aphunzire nkhaniyi, ndipo amadziwa bwino chifukwa chake ndi chifukwa chiyani, komanso momwe amphaka akuyeretsera.
Yoyamba, yongoganizira - mphaka imatsuka pamene iye akumva bwino ndipo amakhala wokondwa kwambiri ndi moyo. Ndipo zoona, nthawi zambiri timakonda nyama zathu zakutchire pofuna kukondana kapena pamene iwo akufuna kuti azitsatira. Ndipo eni ake oterewa akuyang'anitsitsa kuti aziwasamalira ndi omveka bwino komanso osangalatsa. Koma ngati katsamba ikungoyenda nthawi zonse, imatanthauzanji? Kodi ichi ndi chisonyezero cha chiyembekezo chosasangalatsa cha nyama kapena nyama yanu, motero, mukufuna kuti mudandaule za chinachake? Ndipotu, kamba silingakonde chifukwa cha zosangalatsa, pet wako akhoza kupempha kuti akope chidwi. Mwachitsanzo, iye anali wotopa, kapena anaona chidutswa chokoma pa tebulo. Ndipo komabe musamamwetulira, amphaka amadziwa ngati chida chodzipangitsa. Ngati chiweto chanu chikudwala, ndiye kuti akhoza kutsuka kuti adzikonzekeretse, atonthoze ndikupempha chifundo kuchokera kwa mwiniwake. Kuti mumvetse zomwe kwenikweni katsaka akufuna, n'zotheka ndikumveka kokweza. Kuthyola mwakachetechete khungu, mwachiwonekere, chinachake chimapempha kapena kudandaula za tsogolo. Ndipo mphaka, akulengeza kuti akugwedeza nyumba yonse, amangonena kuti "Zikomo kwambiri!" Kwa mwiniwakeyo.
Koma amphaka samatsata kokha pamene akufuna kudziwitsa anyamata awiri, ndi njira yolankhulirana ndi awo omwe. Mwachitsanzo, khate loyamwitsa, kampu, limauza ana ake kuti chirichonse ndi chabwino komanso sichidetsa nkhaŵa. Ndipo ngati tizilombo timayamwa mkaka, tibwereranso, iwo, motero, auzeni kholo kuti ali okoma komanso ofunda. Ndipo ndithudi, kansalu ya purring mwina ndi yathanzi komanso yamphamvu kwambiri pophunzira dziko lonse. Komanso, mukakumana ndi amphaka awiri, simungamve mame oopsa komanso osokonezeka, komanso amamvekanso. Potero, khungu lalikulu likunena kwa ofooka kuti lero ali ndi maganizo abwino ndipo sakukonzekera. Gulu lina lingawononge ngati kudzidziletsa. Kulimbitsa pamphuno ndikupanga maso akuluakulu, mphakayo imapempha kuti asaigwire, chifukwa ndi yaing'ono komanso yopanda phindu.
Kodi amphaka amatani?
Chifukwa chake amphaka akuyeretsa ife takhala tikuganizapo, koma momwe iwo amachitira izo sizimveka bwino. Inu mukuti, ndi chiyani chomwe sichimadziwa bwino zomwe anthu amanena, kotero, mwachiwonekere, amphaka akutsutsanso? Ndipo apa ayi! Amphaka amatha kutsuka pokhapokha poyerekeza ndi kutulutsa, pamene timatchula mawu pokhapokha. Kupanga foci zofanana ndi zomwe timakonda zimalola makina apadera opangidwa ndi mafupa owongoka - zolembera.
Kodi amphaka onse amphaka?
Ngati tikulankhula za oimira abambo a banja lino, ndiye kuti kukhoza kumveka ngati anthu onse, ndi nkhani ina yoti pali anthu otetezeka kwambiri omwe amayeretsa pa maholide aakulu kwambiri. Koma amphaka amtundu sangathe kuchapa, amakhala ndi mafupa olingana omwe amapezeka ndi katsamba kakang'ono. Choncho, mfumu ya zinyama ingangokhalira kubangula, ndipo oimira ang'onoang'ono a banja la katsamba amadandaula, akumva, akulira, ndipo ena amavomereza komanso amakopera.