Ana amadziwika kuti amakula mofulumira. Pa zomwe sizinali chabe alendo, komanso zawo. Ndipo posakhalitsa padzabwera mphindi yomwe mwana wanu akupempha kuti asinthe chipinda chake kuchokera kuchipatala kupita ku munthu wamkulu. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi chidziwitso cha chipinda cha ana (komwe kuli clowns zambiri ndi zimbalangondo), chipinda chachikulu (nthawi zambiri minimalism), koma chipinda cha achinyamata, palibe chomwe chimabwera m'maganizo kupatula nyenyezi za nsanja zosiyanasiyana pamakoma ndi nyimbo zosatha. Koma sizingatheke kuti kholo lidzangokhala ndi zochitika zoterezi. Pambuyo pa zonse, muyenera kuyesa kutsitsa chisokonezo mu chipinda cha achinyamata kuti muwoneke bwino.
Kodi tikuchita chiyani ndi iwe?
Kupanga malo kwa mwana
Kodi ndi malo otani omwe angakhale a chipinda cha anyamata, ndibwino kuti adziwe kuchokera kwa iyeyekha, ndipo ndithudi, wina ayenera kumvetsera maganizo ake. Komabe, kowala kwambiri komanso kuyambitsa mitundu idzasokoneza dongosolo la mitsempha. Choncho, ngati akufuna, malinga kuti makoma omwe ali m'chipindamo ali ofiira, ndi bwino kukopa mwana kuti asakhale mitundu yosiyana. Ndipo wofiira amapanga zinthu zina zokongoletsera.
Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji chipinda cha mwana?
Zoonadi, chilengedwe cha chipinda cha achinyamata chimadalira kukula kwa chipinda chomwecho, komanso mphamvu za makolo. Koma ngakhale mu chipinda chaching'ono kwambiri kwa achinyamata, magawo otsatirawa ayenera kuperekedwa:
- malo oti apumule ndi kugona;
- chigawo cha maphunziro;
- Chigawo cha masewera ndi kulandira alendo.
Zingakhale zodabwitsa ngati magawowa adakhazikitsidwa m'lingaliro lenileni la mawuwo, koma ngati palibe zotheka, ndiye kuti wina ayesetse kuwapanga m'makona osiyanasiyana a chipindacho.
Tsopano tiyeni tiwone mawu ochepa okhudza momwe tingaperekere chipinda cha achinyamata ndi mipando:
- Choyamba, tiyeni tiyankhule za bedi. Si malo onse a achinyamata omwe angaike bedi, sizingagwirizane ndi apo. Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani amafunikira mwana? Ndiko kulondola, palibe chosowa! Choncho, ndi bwino kusankha sofa, izi zidzasunga malo ena omwe angasinthidwe masewera. Ndipo ngati kuli kotheka, sofa ikhoza kuwonjezeka nthawizonse.
- Kenaka, kambiranani ndi kabati. Kuphimba chipinda chachinyamata kumatsekedwa. Iye samatenga malo ochulukirapo, ndipo ponena za kusungulumwa, iye sali pansi poyerekeza ndi abambo wamba. Koma sitingakulimbikitseni mu chipinda cha achinyamata kuti mupange chipinda chapansi pa chipinda. Inde, ndizokongola kwambiri komanso maonekedwe okwera mtengo, koma pamene akusewera ndi anzanu mwana wanu akhoza kuthyola ndi kuvulala. Ndipo izi, muyenera kuvomereza, sikofunika kwa aliyense.
- Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule za tebulo. Kawirikawiri, mwana wachinyamata alibe PC kapena laputopu. Choncho, posankha tebulo, kumbukirani kuti kuwonjezera pa maphunziro, mwana wanuyo azisewera kapena kusewera pa kompyuta. Pamwamba pa desiki tikulangiza kuti tipange mabuku ochezera mabuku. Ndipo ngakhale mwana wanu sakonda kuwerenga, ndiye kuti adzalandira mabuku a sukulu. Ndipo amafunika kusungidwa kwinakwake. Masamu angathenso kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi wachinyamata kusungira katundu wawo (zamathoyi, mabuku achikopa, zipangizo zosiyanasiyana)
- Chipinda chokongoletsera m'chipinda cha anyamata. Kuwala mu chipinda chachinyamata chiyenera kukhala chochuluka kwambiri, kotero zinthu zakuthambo kuchokera pawindo zimachotsedwa bwino. Kupitirira
Titha kuphatikizapo chinthu ngati chotchinga. Ndibwino kwambiri kuchipinda, kapena ku holo, koma osati m'chipinda cha achinyamata.
Maganizo pa chipinda cha achinyamata
Samani yatsopano yosintha ndi yotchuka kwambiri, ndipo ikhoza kukhala yofunika kwambiri m'chipinda cha achinyamata. Mwachitsanzo, malo ogona akhoza kuikidwa pamwamba pa malo ogwira ntchito. Onetsetsani kuti mwana wanu adzakonda lingaliro limeneli. Kapena mukhoza kubisa desiki mu chipinda. Izi zidzamasula malo mu chipinda, ndipo zidzalongosola malo ogwira ntchito ndi malo ena. Koma zindikirani kuti pakali pano zidzakhala zofunikira kupereka nyali zokwanira pamwamba pa desiki.