Kodi muli ndi maloto omveka bwino omwe mukuchita manyazi kukumbukira? Dr. Sigmund Freud akanakonda kumvetsera nkhani yanu ndikukuuzani za umunthu wanu zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa. Komabe, ngati palibe mwayi woterewu, munthu akhoza kuphunzira malingaliro a malingaliro olakwika omwe akuloledwa mwa akatswiri a zamaganizo amakono ndi a psychoanalysts.
Kodi maloto osokoneza amatanthauzanji?
Ngati mwadzidzidzi munalota maloto, izi sizikutanthauza kuti simukukhala bwino, osakhutitsidwa, kapena muli ndi mavuto ena. Pambuyo pake, maloto ndi chisonyezero cha zithunzi ndi malingaliro omwe adakuchezerani kwa tsiku. Komabe, ngati mukuwona maloto amenewa nthawi zonse, angatanthauze kuti mukukumana ndi zosakhutira ndi dera lino m'moyo weniweni. Ngati maloto okhutira mukuwona mochepa kwambiri, ichi si chifukwa chodandaula.
Mu maloto, anthu nthawi zambiri amawona zinthu zomwe sakanazisintha pamoyo weniweni: kugonana ndi anthu angapo okondana, zolakwika zina, kapena nokha mwanjira yosavomerezeka.
Maloto okhudza atsikana sakhala osowa kwenikweni. Kawirikawiri amayi amakhala okondwa kwambiri ndi zomwe adawona ndipo m'mawa wotsatira iwo ali okonzeka kuthyola bwenzi lawo moyenera. Koma maloto osokonekera a amuna nthawi zambiri amathera ndi kuthamanga kwenikweni - koma izi ndi zachilendo kwa thupi lachimuna, ndipo palibe chowopsya mu nkhaniyi.
Ngati maloto osakondweretsa amakuchititsani mantha - mumawawonera chiwawa, zibwenzi, zachiwerewere - muyenera kupita kwa psychoanalyst amene angathe kudziwa chifukwa chake mumalota maloto okhudzana ndi malingaliro. Musaope kupita kwa katswiri - mwinamwake ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha mtundu wina wa zovuta zaunyamata zomwe zimadzipangitsa kudzimva.
Kodi mungawone bwanji maloto osokoneza bongo?
Nthawi zambiri, chinthu chokha chomwe chimatanthauza maloto osakondweretsa, ndikuti tsiku lomwe munagwira diso lachithunzi kuti malingaliro anu amadzimva ngati kugonana, kapena mumaganizira za kugonana.
Choncho, n'zotheka kukopa maloto okhudzidwa ndi chiwopsezo chokwanira, ngati muwona filimu yokhudzana ndi chikondi, kumbukirani mafano osiyanasiyana omwe mwa njira ina yophimbidwa kwa inu ndi malo apamtima. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kuyang'ana pa kabukhu kakang'ono ka sitolo kwa anthu akuluakulu kapena lingerie.
Komabe, ngati thupi lanu likulimbana nalo, palibe njira zomwe zingakuthandizeni. Osangomangirira pazimenezi - mutero mutha kukhala ndi mwayi wapamwamba wopambana. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti m'mabambo a malingaliro olakwitsa amapezeka mobwerezabwereza kuposa amuna - pogonana kwambiri ndi msinkhu, amakhala osachepera.