Tsopano kuti mukwaniritse khalidwe lotero mwa oimira zachiwerewere, monga nzeru ya mkazi pochita ndi mwamuna, simungathe kutero. Atsikana ambiri amasokoneza khalidweli ndi luso lochita zinthu, kunyenga ndi kukwaniritsa zomwe akufunira ndi zamatsenga ndi zonyansa. Komabe, sakhala osangalala.
Ziribe kanthu kukongola kwake, wokongola ndi wanzeru mkaziyo anali, ngati mwamuna samakhala bwino pafupi ndi iye, ndiye potsiriza ayamba kuyang'ana chofunikirako. Choncho, kuti mukhale ndi ubale wolimba ndi munthu wokondedwa ndikukhala wokondwa, wina ayenera kumvetsa zomwe nzeru za amayi zili nazo komanso chifukwa chake khalidweli limayamikiridwa pakati pa kugonana kolimba.
Kodi nzeru za mkazi ndizochita chiyani ndi mwamuna?
Mwa amayi, amuna, choyamba, muyamikire boma ndi malingaliro omwe akukumana nawo pokhala pafupi nawo. Kumvetsetsa, kusamalira komanso kuthandizira panthawi yovuta ndizo makhalidwe omwe ambiri akusowa.
Munthu aliyense ali ndi zofooka zake ndipo aliyense akulakwitsa. Mamembala aliyense wamwamuna adzamuyamikira wokondedwa wakeyo chifukwa cha zolakwa zake. Zoonadi, apa tikukamba za zolephera zomwe sizikutaya ulemu wake.
Nzeru za azimayi zimakhala ndi kuthekera kumanga ndi kukhazikitsa ubale wamphamvu, momwe mulibe malo achinyengo ndi chinyengo. Pokhala ndi mtendere wamtendere wapadera pafupi ndi wokondedwa, mkazi wa chirichonse adzakhalabe kwa iye wokondedwa ndi wofunidwa. Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti mumayenera kulola mnzanuyo kukhala wopanda nzeru komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mtima wabwino. Mwa kudzilemekeza ndi kudzilemekeza, nzeru zazimayi zikuwonetseredwa.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji nzeru zazimayi?
Koposa zonse, nzeru zazimayi zingadziwike pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Kusagwirizana ndi kutsutsana zimachitika mwamtundu uliwonse. Komabe, amakula kukhala chonyansa chachikulu kapena ayi, makamaka amadalira mkaziyo. Choncho, m'pofunika kuphunzira kulamulira maganizo , kulingalira mkhalidwe ndi khalidwe. Choncho, kuteteza kapena kuthetsa mikangano kuti asadzipusitse okha, kapena ulemu ndi kunyada kwa amuna awo.