Aliyense wochita zachiwerewere yemwe adayankha kuti "Inde" pazomwe akufuna kukwatirana amayamba kuganiza za momwe angakhalire tsiku losangalatsa la ukwati. Chikhumbo chochita holide yomwe imapereka malingaliro abwino kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe mwa mtsikana aliyense. Choncho, kukonzekera ukwati, monga lamulo, kumayambira nthawi isanafike tsiku lofunika kwambiri.
Funso lakuti "Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe chimafunikira kuti bungwe likhale lokonzekera komanso lokwanira?" Ndi lofunika kwa okwatirana onse. Palibe yankho limodzi la funso ili. Malingana ndi kukula kwa chikondwerero ndi zokonda za mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, kukonzekera kuyenera kuyamba. Ukwati uliwonse uli ndi magawo ena, omwe ayenera kukonzekera pasadakhale. Kuchokera m'nkhani ino mudzaphunzira zomwe zikufunika pokonzekera ukwati ndipo popanda zomwe ziyenera kuchitika simungathe kupereka nawo pa chikondwererochi.
Choncho, zomwe mukufuna kukonzekera ukwatiwo:
- Malo okondwerera. Njira yotchuka kwambiri ndi yabwino ndi malo odyera kapena cafe. M'mabungwe awa, maukwati ambiri a miyambo amakondwerera. Musanasankhe malo ogulitsira, muyenera kusankha pa chiwerengero cha alendo paukwati, ndi angati a amuna, akazi ndi ana.
- Menyu ya ukwati. Zakudya pa tebulo la chikondwerero - iyi ndi imodzi mwa mfundo zofunika kwambiri pa nkhani ya zomwe zikufunika pa tsiku laukwati. Pogwiritsa ntchito mapu odyera, monga lamulo, woyang'anira amathandiza. Katswiriyo adzakuthandizani kusankha mbale yabwino kwambiri kuti tebulo likhale lokoma komanso losiyanasiyana. Ngati mukakondwerera ukwati panyumba, ndiye kuti menyu adzayenera kulembedwa mwaulere. Komanso, m'pofunika kusamalira wachibale ameneyu akuthandizira pokonza zokondweretsa.
- Zamtundu wa ukwati. Poganizira zoyenera kuchita paukwati, simungaphonye mphindi yofunikira monga bungwe la zoyendetsa alendo. Mosasamala kanthu za mwambo wa chikondwerero ndi malo omwe chikondwererochi chidzachitikire, alendo onse akukonzekera zoyendetsa kuchokera ku ofesi yolembera kupita ku lesitilanti kapena nyumba. Ngati mukufuna, mutha kukonza limousine kapena galimoto ina yokongola kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi.
- Kujambula zithunzi ndi kanema. Mpaka pano, palibe ukwati sungakhoze kuchita popanda wojambula zithunzi. Poganizira zoyenera kuchita musanakwatirane, onetsetsani kuti muli m'ndandanda wa kufufuza kofunikira kwa wojambula zithunzi ndi wothandizira.
- Chikhalidwe pulogalamu ya ukwati. Pokhala okhudzidwa ndi funso la zomwe zikufunika pokonzekera ukwatiwo, m'pofunika kuganizira mosamala za momwe alendo adzakondwera tsiku lowala. Kuyambira kuyambira m'mawa kwambiri, kupita ku ofesi yolembera, malo osaiŵalika mumzinda ndi malo odyera, ndi kumaliza ndi malo odyera, pulogalamu yokondweretsa alendo iyenera kukhala yokonzedwa.
Gawo lalikulu la kukonzekera ukwati, mwachibadwa, limagwera pamapewa a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Sikuti amangosamalira maonekedwe awo, komanso amakonza tsiku laukwati m'njira yoti alendo onse amasangalala.
Kodi mkwatibwi amafunikira ukwati? Choyamba, mwamuna wokondedwa monga mkwati. Ndiponso, kuthandizidwa ndi achibale komanso mboni zodalirika, omwe angathandize kusankha zovala ndi zinthu zina zofunika.
Kodi mkwati amafuna chiyani kuti akwatirane? Kuwonjezera pa kukondedwa monga mkwatibwi, mkwati amafuna bwenzi labwino ngati mboni, yemwe angakuthandizeni ndi gulu ndikukuuzani zomwe zikusoweka pa ukwati.
Zimadziwika kuti ntchito yofunika paukwati imasewera ndi mboni ndi mboni. Ngati muli ndi mwayi ndipo mwakuitanidwa ku ukwati ngati mboni, muyenera kudziwa chomwe mboni ndikuchitira umboni paukwati:
- Mukhale ndi zida zosawerengeka komanso zochititsa chidwi kuchokera ku moyo wa achinyamata omwe akuyamika;
- kuonetsetsa kuti nyumba ndi magalasi okwapula, mphatso za mpikisano, champagne ndi zinthu zina zazing'ono sizikuiwalika kunyumba;
- dziwani zomwe munganene paukwati, makamaka ngati mkwati ndi mkwatibwi sanamuuze wamkulu;
- Thandizani wochita masewerawa kuti azikhala ndi mpikisano ndikukonzekera zosangalatsa zosiyanasiyana.