Ndipotu, ngati mnyamata yemwe ali ndi chilankhulo chosavuta kumakhala kosavuta kusiyana ndi weniweni. Ndipo sizinali choncho, popanda kuona interlocutor, tingakhale owona mtima, ndisavuta kubisa chisangalalo chathu, ndipo sichikhala chowonekera kwambiri. Ndipo ziribe kanthu komwe makalata anu amapita, kudzera m'makalata (ngati, ndithudi, alipo anthu omwe amawalembera), ngakhale pothandizidwa ndi Webusaiti Yadziko Lonse. Mulimonsemo, mfundo ndi malamulo okopa ndi kumangiriza mnyamata ndi makalata sizikhala zosasintha, zidzakambidwa lero.
Lamulo 1. Gwiritsani ntchito phindu lonse la makalata
Tiyeni tifotokoze mwatsatanetsatane. Pokambirana momveka bwino, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mungathe kuganizira mozama kudzera m'mawu anu komanso kubwezeretsanso (ngati simunapitilize "Lowani"). Ndipo ndicho chifukwa chake mungathe kulemba ndi kufalitsa uthenga wanu nthawi zambiri, mpaka mutakhala wangwiro m'malingaliro anu. Komabe, ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti ngati mukulankhulana pa intaneti ndipo onse awiri ali pa nthawiyi kumbuyo kwa makompyuta, ndiye kuti simungaganize nthawi yaitali, mumakhala wovuta kuwonetsa kuti mukuganiza molakwika komanso kuchepa pang'ono. Ndipo kodi mungakonde bwanji mnyamata ndi makalata? Inde, palibe. Choncho, zindikirani za golide.
Lamulo 2. Khalani mnzanu wokondweretsa
Iyi ndi njira ina yomwe mnyamata amakonda makalata pa intaneti. Muli ndi zambiri zambiri zomwe muli nazo. Ndipo kwa zonsezi, ndizosangalatsa kulankhula za nyengo, sichoncho? Pezani mutu womwe mukusangalatsidwa nawo, ganizirani, koma zingakhale zosangalatsa kwa iye komanso patsogolo! Pano pali ochepa omwe sanapambane, ndi nkhani zingapo zabwino zokambirana, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumudziwa munthuyo kudzera pa intaneti. Zosasangalatsa za mitu yake: nyengo, misonkho yatsopano (ngakhale zomwe zimabisala, anyamata amakhalanso ndi chidwi, koma sagonjera malingaliro omwe amawakonda), mafashoni ndi mitu yeniyeni yokhazikika. Pa nthawi yomweyi, anyamata amakopeka ndi kukambirana za zatsopano za IT (ngati muli ofooka pa mutu uwu - bwino kusankha wina), zithunzithunzi ndi nthano m'mbiri, masewera atsopano a makompyuta ndi zina zotero. Mungayambe kukambirana za zozizwitsa zake, koma choyamba muyenera kudziwa bwino mfundo zosiyana siyana kuchokera ku dera lino, mwinamwake mnyamatayo angaganize kuti mwamuyang'anitsitsa ndikumunyengerera.
Lamulo 3. Pewani zolakwika zagalama.
Mwachidziwikire, palibe chomwe chimapangitsa kuti mulembe makalata monga zolakwika pamalankhulidwe a interlocutor. Ngati mumadziwa "buck" wotero, musakhale aulesi kwambiri kuti muwone zinthu zanu musanatumize, tsopano ndi mautumiki angapo omwe amapereka chithandizo ichi. Samalani komanso makonzedwe oyenera a zilembo zamakalata. Kusakhazikika kwawo kapena kusakonzedwa kosayenera kungasinthe kwenikweni kufunika kwa uthenga wanu. Kumbukirani chojambula chojambula: "Simungathe kukhululukira kuphedwa." Ndipo kulemba kulemba ndikunyoza nokha ndi mnzako. Musapange zolakwitsa zoterozo.
Lamulo 4. Musakhale obtrusive, khalani bwenzi basi
Mwinamwake mungadabwe kuti, bwanji, kukondweretsa mnyamata mwa makalata, ngati ali bwenzi chabe? Tidzakulankhani motere. Intaneti ndi malo enieni omwe simungakhoze kukhala nawo chidwi mosavuta, koma ndi zosavuta kumuopseza munthu.
Kuphatikizapo, ngati munthuyo sakuyankha uthenga wanu, ndiye kuti simungamufune ngati mumamufunsa tsiku lililonse "Bwanji osayankha?" Kapena "Kodi mwalandira uthenga wanga? Nchifukwa chiyani iwe uli chete? ". Choncho, udindo wa mnzanu ndi makalata poyamba ndi wopindulitsa kwambiri. Inu munapanga sitepe yanu, tsopano mupatseni mnyamata mwayi woti akugonjetseni inu.