Mu lingaliro la mbuye wabwino, anthu amakhala ndi makhalidwe ambiri. Kuti mukwaniritse mwamuna wanu ndi kumupatsa chisangalalo, muyenera kukhala wachikazi, wamakhalidwe, wofatsa, ndi zina zotero. Pali malingaliro angapo omwe angathandize kuti akwaniritse nkhaniyi.
Ndi mbuye wanji amene amaonedwa kuti ndi abwino?
Malingana ndi kafukufuku, abambo azimayi ali ndi mawonekedwe okongola kwambiri. Mwa njira, chikondi cha mnzanuyo ndi chofunikira kwambiri.
Malangizo othandiza momwe mungakhalire wokonda kwambiri:
- Msungwana ayenera kudziwa malo ake osadziwika kuti amve thupi lake. Izi zimamulola kuti apeze malo ofanana pa thupi la wokondedwa. Fufuzani thupi la munthu, pogwiritsa ntchito izi, mwachitsanzo, nthenga.
- Malingana ndi oimira za kugonana mwamphamvu, wokonda kwambiri pabedi ndi mkazi yemwe samangomva chisoni ndipo akhoza kudandaula, kufuula, ndi zina zotero. Ndikofunikira kuti izi zenizeni, popanda masewera ndi zofanana.
- Chinsinsi chofunika cha wokondedwa ndi kudzikonda nokha ndi thupi lanu. Ngati mayi ali ndi zovuta ndipo ali ndi manyazi, ndiye palibe chifukwa choyankhulira. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, musagone, ngati simukufuna, chifukwa zosangalatsa sizidzatenga onse awiri.
- Kugonana kuyenera kukhala kosiyana. Mukhoza kusintha malo, mwachitsanzo, perekani chilakolako mu kusamba, patebulo lakhitchini, ndi zina zotero. Wodabwa kuti munthu akhoza kukhala dansi lovuta kapena zovala zamkati. Musaiwale za masewero owonetsera.
- Mbali yofunika ya wokondedwa wabwino ndiyeso, yomwe iyenera kuwonetsedwa mu chipinda chogona. Musataye mtima wanu, koma musakhale okwiya . Ngati mukufuna kusintha chinachake kapena kupanga chinthu chatsopano mu kugonana, ndiyenera kutchula izi. Onse awiri ayenera kuchita izi. Kusagwirizana sikuyenera kukhala pabedi.