Kuyambira kale, kumpsompsona kumakhala mawu ambiri, mawu. Zingakhale zosiyana. Monga mukudziwa, thupi silinama. Kukondana wina ndi mzake, popeza palibe wina amadziwa kuti pali nthawi yamoyo, pamene muzindikira kuti kupsopsona kunganene mawu oposa. Koma, ngati mawu akuti "Sindikudzipsompsona" - ndizo za iwe, ndiye usakwiya. Ngakhale kuti ndinu wamsinkhu, kumbukirani kuti sikuchedwa kwambiri kuphunzira.
Dzikumbutseni mobwerezabwereza kuti anthu onse samaphunzira nthawi yomweyo chirichonse, chirichonse chikubwera ndi nthawi, ndi chidziwitso kuti nkofunikira kudziwa. Chirichonse chimachitika kwa nthawi yoyamba ndi kupsompsona sizomwezo. Musamalankhule za izi mochepa, koma mungodzipereka. Ngati mumadzudzula tsiku ndi tsiku kuti "Sindikudzipsompsona," ndiye ndikuwonetsani zomwe mungachite kuti musinthe.
Sikoyenera kupita tsiku lokonzekera, podziwa njira zonse zopsompsona. Koma, ndithudi, osakonzekera kupitanso sikofunikira. Tiyeni tione mwatsatanetsatane luso la kupsyopsyona.
Kodi ndizomveka bwanji kuti mupsompsone?
Kuti muphunzire kupsompsona kotero kuti kuyambira nthawi yoyamba kugonjetsa mnzanuyo pomwepo, muyenera kutsatira malamulo ena:
- Sankhani mphindi yoyenera, malo ndi maganizo.
- Yang'anani mwatcheru chilankhulo cha thupi lanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mnzanu wapanga manja ake pachifuwa pake, izi zikhoza kusonyeza kuti ndi wamanyazi. Ngati nthawi zambiri amatsuka tsitsi lake kapena kumutu kwake - amasonyeza kusatsimikizika, kukayikira. Pankhaniyi akakhala pampando wa mpando, izi zikhoza kusonyeza kuti, mwatsoka, samakhala womasuka m'dera lanu. Kawirikawiri amalira patsiku - chizindikiro chakuti akukuvutitsani. Amasonyeza kutsutsa pamene zala zaphambano.
- Kumbukirani kuti musanayambe kupsompsona, muyenera kukhazikitsa kugwirizana kwa osankhidwawo. Musamadzipangire nokha, ndipo mubwereze kuti "Sindikudziwa kuti ndikupsompsona."
- Ngati uku ndikumpsompsona kwanu koyamba, samalani kupuma kwanu. Sungani mano anu, tsukutsani tsaya. Mulimonsemo musamupemphe mnzake kuti alole. Izi zidzangokhala zochititsa manyazi zokha. Inu nokha mukumvetsa ngati mnzanuyo ali wokonzeka kapena ayi.
- Yang'anani pamaso pa mnzanuyo. Onetsetsani kuti milomo yanu imakhala yonyowa pang'ono. Musamanyoze iwo musanayambe naye.
- Khalani patsogolo pang'ono, mutseka maso anu. Kenaka muupangire pang'ono kumanja kapena kumanzere musanapsompsone. Chifukwa cha izi mudzapewa kulemba ndi mphuno yanu. Ngati msungwanayo sakudziwa kupsompsona, musati mukhale ndi vuto chifukwa cha izi. Yesani kupsyopsyona kumtunda, ndiye pamlomo wotsika kapena mosiyana, ndikupitirirabe. Musamakumbatire mnzanuyo mwamphamvu pogompsona.
- Musaiwale kuti muyenera kuyimilira kamodzi. Gwiritsani ntchito mphindi yomwe mukufunika kupuma, bweretsani maso. Pambuyo pa kumpsompsona koyamba, pitani ku yachiwiri. Koma, kumverera kuti kumpsompsona kumakhala kokwanira, kuchoka modekha kuchokera kwa wokondedwayo.
- Ngati mau oti "Sindikudzipsompsona podzudzula" amadziwika bwino ndi inu, musataye mtima,
Patapita nthawi, mudzaphunzira za njirayi. Chinthu chofunikira kukumbukira ndi chakuti muyenera kusamalira milomo yanu. Ndipotu, milomo yosweka sizimaoneka yokongola. - Pakupsopsona, mawanga ambiri sagwirizana. Kuseka ndi kosayenera. Ndipotu, zingayambitse chisokonezo kwa mnzanuyo. Musaike manja anu pa mbali zovuta za thupi la wokondedwa. Zingamuwopsyeze ndikumuopseza kutali ndi inu.
- Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito mowa fodya, musapsompsone mukangomaliza.
Kotero, mwinamwake, lamulo lofunikira kwambiri lidzakhala: kusunga mpweya watsopano, kusankha wokondedwa woyenera, kumwetulira, milomo yokongola.