Wotopa ndi mawu akuti "Ndikwatira wolemera wachilendo, wokondwa kwambiri," "Ndipita kunja kwa wokondedwa wanga" ndi nkhani zina za amayi omwe apeza chisangalalo chawo m'dziko lina? Komanso ayi, ayi, ndi lingaliro "Ndikufuna kukwatiwa ndi mlendo, ndikudziwabe momwe ndingathere. Ndiye ndi bwino kufufuza kuti ndi zovuta ziti zomwe zimadzitengera yekha ukwati ndi mlendo.
Kodi mungakwatire bwanji mlendo?
Poyambirira, nkofunikira kusankha amene timatanthauza tikati "Ndikufuna kukwatira mlendo." Anthu okhala ku Ukraine sangayembekezere kukwatiwa ndi mlendo wa ku Russia kapena wa ku Kazakhstan. Zili choncho, malo osungira malo a Soviet samatikonda. Ndipo ndani akufunika ndiye? Amayi ambiri amasangalatsidwa ndi amuna ochokera ku Ulaya, kupatulapo Turkey. Dziko lomaliza, ndithudi, limadziwika chifukwa cha maukwati awo a tchuthi, koma ukwati ndi wosawerengeka.
Kawirikawiri abwenzi athu amafuna amuna pakati pa Germany, English, French ndi Italy. Kufunafuna mwamuna kungachitidwe mwachindunji kudzera pa intaneti kapena kupatsa kufufuza kwa mabungwe okwatirana. Mulimonsemo, pakufunika kudziwa za mbali zina za chikhalidwe cha dziko. Mwachitsanzo, Ajeremani amayamikira nthawi ndi nthawi komanso amafuna chimodzimodzi kwa osankhidwawo.
Chingerezi sichikhoza kuima amai omwe amangokhalira kukambirana za mavuto awo - iyi ndi mawu oipa. Kotero iwe uyenera kukhala wanzeru, kumatha kumvetsera ndi kukamba za zabwino zokha.
Anthu a ku Italy ali ofanana kwambiri ndi khalidwe lachikhalidwe kwa anthu a ku Russia, koma ali pafupifupi "ana aamayi" onse. Ngati amayi akunena chinachake ku Italy, iye adzakwaniritsa chokhumba chake.
A French nthawi zambiri amadziwa luso, ndale, mbiri. Mudzafunikira kuthandizira zokambiranazo. Koma dziko la France limadziwika chifukwa cha khalidwe lachiwerewere pa kugonana, choncho Mfalansa amatha kukondana ndi mkazi wina kutsogolo kwa wosankhidwa wake ndipo sangalekerere nsanje.
Koma aliyense amene mumusankha, pali mfundo yofunika yomwe simungaiwale - ndi mgwirizano waukwati. Musamaphunzitse oweruza, kuwerenga mosamalitsa ndikukambirana mfundo zonse. Apo ayi, pali ngozi yotayika mwana mu chisudzulo, ndalama, ndi zina zotero.
Amayi ambiri, akubwera kunja, akupeza zatsopano, ayamba kupanga ntchito. Ndiyeno, patapita kanthawi, mkaziyo wapambana kale kuposa mwamuna wake, yemwe anamutenga kukhala woyang'anira nyumba, osati mkazi wamalonda. Ndipotu, akazi athu amawunika kumadzulo chifukwa cha kuchepa kwawo. Ngati nkhaniyo ikukuchitikirani, ndiye kuti muyenera kukhala okonzeka kapena kusunga banja, kuyesera kuti asamapweteke maganizo a mwamuna wachilendo, kapena kugawana - amuna samakonda kumva manyazi.
Asanasankhe kukwatiwa, fufuzani zambiri zokhudza wodzakwatirana naye. Malo ambiri amapezeka "mndandanda wakuda" wa suti. Awa ndiwo alendo omwe amalandira pazokhalitsa zaukwati kapena kudziwana ndi atsikana ochokera kunja alibe kukwanitsa kulembetsa ukwati. Ndibwino kupita kwa mkwati wamtsogolo kwa milungu ingapo kwa milungu ingapo kuti muthe kumvetsa zomwe zikukuchitikirani, kumvetsa zomwe zikukuyembekezerani, momwe chidziwitso chanu cha chilankhulo ndi chikhalidwe cha dziko losankhidwa ndi zoona.
Kodi ndi zolemba ziti zomwe mukufunikira kuti mukwatire mlendo?
Ngati mutasankha bungwe lakwati kuti mupeze mkazi, ndiye funso la momwe mungapezere zikalata zofunikira kuti mukwatire mlendo, simudzasamala - akatswiri amathandiza kusonkhanitsa ndikulemba zolemba zonse zofunika. Ngati mutachita zonse nokha, kumbukirani kuti sikofunika kuti muzitha kukonza mapepala ambiri ndi kuwasonkhanitsa kwa nthawi yaitali. Kuonjezerapo, dziko lirilonse liri ndi zofunikira pazndandanda ndi kukonza mapepala.
Mukufunikiradi pasipoti (mayiko ena akufuna kuwona kokha mlendo), kalata yonena kuti simunakwatirane ndi chikole chobadwira. Zikalata za zolemba zimaphatikizapo kulembetsa ndi popositila.
Mutatha kusonkhanitsa zonsezi, makopi amatumizidwa kwa mkwati kuti alolere kulembetsa ukwatiwo. Ngati chilolezo chikulandidwa, nthawi yobwera visa ikubwera.
Zonse zokhudza mndandanda wa zikalata ndi mapangidwe awo ziyenera kufotokozedwa ku ambassy ya dziko limene mukupita kapena ku ofesi yolembera kwanu. Monga zofunika kusintha, ndimasulira, apostille, notarial malonjezo amawononga ndalama.