Mlamu ndi apongozi ake ndi anthu awiri omwe ali ogwirizana ndi munthu yemwe ali mbadwa kwa onse awiri, koma izi ndizo zonse zomwe ali nazo. Mfundo yakuti anthuwa amavutika kuti azigwirizana ndi aliyense amadziwa zonse ndipo zimadziwika kwa zaka makumi angapo. M'dziko la kuseketsa, pali nthabwala zambiri za apongozi ake monga za ma blondes. Inde, pali anthu omwe ali ndi mwayi omwe amatha kupeza chinenero chofanana ndi amayi awo a amayi nthawi yoyamba, koma alipo omwe sangathe kukhazikitsa ubale ndi iye.
Banja laling'ono liri ndi malire ovuta kwambiri. Ndipo mafuta omwe amawonjezeredwa ndi moto kuchokera kwa anthu ochokera kumudzi wawo, okwatiranawo ali ndi mwayi wochepa wopulumuka ndi mavuto oyambirira a banja, kukhala amphamvu pa nthawi yomweyo. Kwa munthu aliyense, kaya ndi ubale wake ndi makolo ake, amathandiza kwambiri. Ziribe kanthu zaka zingati zomwe anawo ali, makolo nthawi zonse amayesa kubweretsa malingaliro awo pa moyo wawo, ngakhale kuti mwana wawo ali ndi mutu wake pamapewa ake, ndipo akudziwa kutenga zosankha zofunika.
Ubale pakati pa apongozi awo ndi apongozi awo
Amuna omwe amamverera kuti apongozi awo okondedwa amasangalala chifukwa cha kusankha kwa mwana wake wamkazi komanso omwe amatha kumakhala pamodzi ndi amayi ake aakazi nthawi yomweyo. Koma iwo omwe amamva tsiku ndi tsiku kuti nthawizonse amachita chinachake cholakwika, mochuluka kwambiri. Ganizirani zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano pakati pa apongozi awo ndi apongozi anu ndipo yesetsani kumvetsa chifukwa chake apongozi awo nthawi zambiri amatsutsana ndi apongozi awo.
- Nthaŵi zambiri, chifukwa chachikulu cha mikangano ndi mwana wamkazi wa apongozi wamkulu wa apongozi ake. Iye sangathe kuthetsa milandu iliyonse ya pulayimale popanda malangizo a amayi ake. Mlamu wake posakhalitsa ali ndi funso: Kodi ndi ndani yemwe anakwatira - mtsikana wamng'ono kapena mkazi wamkulu? Chifukwa chake, kusakhutira kwake ndi mkazi wake, amagwira ntchito kwa apongozi ake komanso mosiyana.
Zosankha: apongozi ake ayenera kutsimikizira kuti iye ndi amene ali ndi udindo komanso wodziimira yemwe angamukhulupirire ndi mwana wake wamkazi.
- Chifukwa chachiwiri chosemphana ndi apongozi ake akhoza kukhala akubisala maubwenzi ovuta, mikangano yosathetseratu, zokhumudwitsa zaunyamata komanso zokhumudwitsa za apongozi ake ndi amayi ake. Chotsatira chake, iye mosadziwa amachotsa mgwirizano wovutawu ndi ubale ndi apongozi ake. Zimakwiyitsa kanthu kalikonse pazochita za amayi a mkazi wake. Ngakhale kuti apongozi ake akhoza kukhala munthu wabwino kwambiri, koma muzochitika izi adzalipira ndi nkhani za anthu ena.
Chigamulo: apongozi ake muzochitika izi ndizofunikira kuthetsedwera osati kuti azikakamiza maganizo pa mavuto alionse a banja, koma kuti athe kuyankha pempho, osayamika kuyankha
. - Ndipo chifukwa chotsatira cha mikangano chimabisika mu chikhalidwe chokonda mphamvu ya apongozi ake, changu chake choletsa chirichonse. Iye ali wodekha ndipo amakhala wokhutira pokhapokha ngati aliyense akugwirizana naye ndipo amachita zomwe akunena. Ndipo ngati amayi anga sakonda mpongozi wake, amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake zonse kuti apambane polimbana ndi mpongozi wake kuyambira tsiku loyamba laukwati.
Yankho lake: Njira yokhayo yothandizira apongozi ake ndi kumulola kuti amve ngati mkazi wosafooka ndipo potsirizira pake, ngati chizindikiro choyamikira, adzasiya chisa cha banja lanu nokha.
- Ngati apongozi ake okha akalera mwana wamkazi, n'zotheka kuti amupangire moyo wake wamasiye kwa mwana wake. Ndipo pakadali pano, gawo lililonse la mpongozi wake lidzatsutsidwa. apongozi ake amafanizira ndi mwamuna wake.
Yankho: Ndikoyenera kupereka mkazi wosungulumwa kumverera, ngati kuti ali ndi wina woti adzidalire yekha, pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku komanso mu moyo wake.
- Ubale pakati pa apongozi apongozi ndi apongozi anu umachulukitsa malo onse okhala
ndi moyo. Choipa kwambiri ndizochitika ngati apongozi awo akudalira kwambiri amayi a mkwatibwi. Yankho: Njira yabwino ndi yosiyana ndi apongozi anu, kupeza malo anu okhala ndi mapindu.
- Ngati pakalipano, izi ndi maloto chabe, apongozi ake ndi ofunikira kuti akhale paubwenzi wabwino ndi apongozi ake:
- musaiwale kunena zakuyamika kwake;
- Ndikofunika kuitcha amayi. izi zimachepetsa mtunda wa maganizo ndikuthandizira maubwenzi
- nthawi zonse komanso zosayenera siziyenera kutsutsana ndi apongozi ake ngati palibe.