Mu moyo, zonsezi ndi zosiyana, ndipo nthawi zina mumayenera kupanga zosankha zovuta. Kawirikawiri, maubwenzi pakati pa anthu okwatirana amapita kumapeto, maloto a kutha kwa moyo wa banja, ndipo amayi ambiri omwe ali mu mkhalidwe umenewu amapanga chisankho cha kuthetsa banja . Komabe, si kosavuta kudziwitsa za chisankho kwa wokwatirana, makamaka pamene inu ndi ana omwe mumakhala nawo zaka zambiri. Tiyeni tiyesetse kupeza momwe tingayanjane ndi mwamuna wake, kuti zonse zikhale mwakachetechete, komanso mopanda zopweteka kwa inu ndi ana anu.
Ndi zopanda phindu bwanji kuti ukhale ndi mwamuna wake?
Ngati chilakolako chofuna kusudzulana ndizophatikizana, ndizosavuta, koma ngati mwamunayo ali ndi magawo otsutsana, ndiye kuti zonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Pachifukwa ichi, amai ali ndi nkhawa kuti achite bwino, kotero kuti zikhale zosavuta kusiya ndi mwamuna wake kuti asapezeke ndi zovuta ndi mikangano yosafunika.
Choyamba, muyenera kulankhula ndi mnzanuyo. Yesetsani kufotokozera chifukwa chake anasankha kusudzulana, koma musaganize kulumbirira, kumunyoza ndi kumuimba mlandu, mukulankhulana uku kuli bata lalikulu. Nthaŵi zambiri, kufotokoza mwamtendere kwa ubale kumapereka zotsatira zabwino.
Kupatukana kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse, makamaka pamene mukuyenera kugawana ndi mwamuna wanu amene mumamukonda, amayi ambiri akukumana nawo, monga momwe zilili, musati mukhale osasunthika ndikupitiriza kukhalabe. Pachifukwa ichi, inu ndithudi mukuyenera kudzipeza nokha phunziro lochititsa chidwi. Lembani maphunziro ena, mwachitsanzo, chinenero chachilendo, kapena chitani chinachake chimene simunakhale nacho nthawi. Yesetsani kuganizira mozama za zomwe zinachitika, kukumana ndi abwenzi kawirikawiri, ngati pali ana, ndiye kuti mukasonkhana ndikupita kukapuma. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kuti musokonezedwe ndikupatsani mphamvu.
Chabwino, koma za momwe mungakhalire ndi mwamuna wake, ngati muli