Ambiri a agalu amakumana ndi vuto ngati limeneli kuti chiweto chawo chimaluma. Nthawi zina chinyama chimaluma manja ndi mapazi a wolandira panthawi ya masewerawo. Izi sizilandiridwa, kotero muyenera kudziwa momwe mungametezere mwanayo kuluma manja ndi mapazi. Njira yosavuta yochitira izi ndi pamene ziweto zili zochepa, ndiye zidzakhala zovuta kusintha chinachake. Choyamba, mvetserani zifukwa za khalidwe ili la nyama.
Nchifukwa chiyani anyamata akuluma manja awo?
- Amagwiritsidwa ntchito kusewera ndi agalu ena, akudana. Kugwirana manja kapena mapazi, chiweto chimakuitanani kuti mutenge;
- mwanayo akhoza kuluma, ngati simukuletsa, kulimbikitsa masewerawa ndi manja anu;
- zinyama zonse mpaka kulandira miyezi itatu, chifukwa mano awo akuwomba.
Ngati kulira kumachitika pazifukwa izi, ndiye palibe chodandaula. Pakuleredwa bwino ndi khalidwe, mwanayo amadziwika bwino kwambiri ndi izi. Koma zimachitika kuti agalu amaluma mwachiwawa. Izi zikhoza kuchitika pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana ndipo zimafuna kukonza mwamsanga.
N'chifukwa chiyani mwanayo akuluma mwiniwake?
Mwachiwonekere, kuyambira tsiku loyamba la kuonekera mnyumbamo iye ankachitidwa ngati wamkulu, ndipo adadziwona yekha kukhala mtsogoleri. Ndipo mwinamwake, mosiyana, anthu amachita ndi nyama movutikira, kuwamenya, ndi kuyesera kuluma - ndizochitetezo chabe. Ndipo mulimonsemo, khalidwe la eni ake ndi lolakwika ndipo n'kofunika kuphunzitsa galu .
Bwanji ngati mwanayo akuluma manja?
- pamene akadakali wamng'ono ndi kusewera, kungokwanira kunena mawu omveka "fu" kapena "ayi", kuti asiye masewerawa ndi kanthawi kuti asamvetsere;
- Nthawi iliyonse pamene mwanayo akusewera, amamupangira chidole pobwezera, chifukwa izi muyenera kukhala nazo zambiri, mu chipinda chilichonse chomwe chiwetocho chili;
- Mukhoza kumupangitsa mwana kuyamwa manja osasangalatsa, mwachitsanzo, amawatseni ndi chinachake chowawa kapena kumangiriza zala zanu kummero;
- galu wamkulu wamkulu akhoza kulangidwa. Koma sizingakonzedwe kumumenya mwamphamvu. Ndi bwino kukwapula nyuzipepala yodutsa pa rump kapena kumangirira pamphuno panthawi imodzimodziyo ponena kuti "kosatheka."
Ngati mwanayo akuluma mwiniyo ndi manja ndi mapazi, okwanira zovala, mwinamwake samangoyang'anitsitsa. Simungathe kulimbikitsa izi, kumasula manja anu, kufuula, chifukwa akhoza kuganiza kuti mukusewera. Ndibwino kuti mutseke, nenani "fu" mu mawu ochepa kwambiri ndikuchokapo. Musalole kuti chiweto chikhale chogonjetsa, khalani wofatsa naye, koma khalani okhwima. Ndi kulera koyenera, nyamayo siidzakhala yaukali.