Atsikana mwachilengedwe ndi amanyazi komanso zolengedwa zamanyazi. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti afike kwa mnyamata poyamba, kuyamba kukambirana, kumpsompsona poyamba ndi zina zotero. Koma m'moyo nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti choyamba chiyenera kutenga manja awo ndikupanga njira zoyamba zogonana, chifukwa anyamata angakhalenso amanyazi, kapena osakayikira za momwe msungwanayo amamvera. Koma vuto limatsimikizira kuti n'zovuta kuti anthu oterowo azikhalabe ndikulankhulana, ndipo pangakhale phokoso lachisokonezo. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikanayo sangadziwe kuti mungamufunse, kapena mungamufunse mafunso ati, kuti musamawoneke, komanso panthawi imodzimodziyo kuti mumuthandize.
Kodi ndifunse mafunso ati kwa mnyamatayu?
Choyamba, tiyeni tifotokoze ndi mafunso omwe ndi kofunika kumufunsa munthuyo kwenikweni. Gawoli likuphatikizapo zinthu zomwe zimakhudzana ndi zofuna, zokonda, zolinga za mnyamata. Tidzakhala ndi mndandanda wa nkhani zomwe zingathe kukambitsirana, ndipo mungathe kuzikulitsa kapena kuzikonza pazochitika zinazake.
- Nkhani zokhudza zofuna za mnyamata. Ngati simudziwa zomwe adakalipira, mum'funse za izo. Ndipo ngati mutadziwa kale izi, ndiye kuti mungathe kufunsa mafunso. Mwachitsanzo, chibwenzi chanu chimakonda mpira, ndiye mukhoza kumufunsa mafunso okhudza: gulu lanu lokonda, malamulo a masewera, opambana a Champions League, kuweruza zolakwa, khalidwe la mafani ndi zina zambiri.
- Funsani za malamulo ndi moyo wake. Mafunso ena ochokera m'dera lino akhoza kukhala ovuta, komanso oyenerera kwa anthu osadziwika. Izi ndi mafunso okhudza ubwenzi (abambo ndi abambo, abwenzi a amai), zinyama, ntchito, mapulani a pafupi komanso osati mtsogolo chabe, momwe amachitira kumapeto kwa sabata ndi maholide.
- Mafunsowa ndi otchuka kwambiri kwa anyamata, chifukwa amakonda kukhala pakati, ndipo chifukwa cha mafunso amenewa ndi osavuta kupeza malo ogwirizana, komanso kumanganso kukambirana.
- Komabe, musakhale nawo mbali mukufunsa mafunso, mwinamwake kukambirana kudzawoneka ngati kupatsira mayeso. Kuti muchite izi, ndikwanira kubwereza ziganizozo. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kufunsa kuti: "Kodi iwe umalowa chiyani?", Ndipo mukhoza kuchita izi: "Chonde tiuzeni za zomwe mumakonda kuchita."
Mafunso enanso omwe mungamufunse munthuyo
Mukhoza kumufunsa munthuyo za zomwe amakonda mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwachitsanzo, kuti amakonda kudya chakudya cham'mawa, amamvetserako nyimbo, ndi mtundu wanji wa mafilimu omwe amawakonda. Mukhoza kukhala ndi chidwi ndi magulu omwe amakonda, ochita masewera, ojambula.
Nkhani yotchuka kwambiri yolankhulirana ndi ubwana ndi unyamata. N'zachidziwikire kuti simukusowa kuti mupite mwatsatanetsatane, sizingakhale zofunikira nthawi yoyamba pambuyo podziwa mnzanuyo, koma za momwe banja lawo linkasonkhana mu Chaka chatsopano, komwe adakhala m'nyengo yachilimwe, kaya adapita kumisasa ya upainiya nthawi zonse izikhala zoyenera kuti mutenge chidwi.
Kodi ndi mafunso ati omwe sungamufunse munthuyo?
Pa masiku oyambirira, kukambirana za atsikana akale (akazi) ndizovuta. Mu miyezi ingapo, ngakhale zaka, mutha kumufunsa mnyamatayu ndi mafunso ngati amenewa, koma mu nthawi ya maluwa a nkhaniyi ayenera kupewa. Pali nthawi pamene munthu mwadzidzidzi amayamba kulankhula za ubale wake wakale. Muyenera kukhala osamala za izi, chifukwa khalidwe lotere limasonyeza kuti pakadalibe kanthu pazinthu zogonana
Nkhani yotsatirayi ndi malipiro (makamaka, kukula kwake). Sikuti anthu onse akufuna kukambirana za msinkhu wawo, makamaka ngati ali ndi mavuto ena azachuma.
Ndipo mutu wotsiriza wotseguka ndiwo mavuto a mnyamatayo. Ngati mukakambirana, zimakhala zomveka kuti mnyamata ali ndi mavuto ndi akuluakulu ake, ndiye sayenera kuyesa kuti adziwe zomwe ali. Amuna samakonda kusonyeza kufooka kwawo, ndipo ngati atagwidwa mmenemo, msungwanayo amamupangitsa kuti azisungidwa mwamsanga kusiyana ndi chifundo.