Zokambirana pa mutu wa ngati mungathe kukhala opanda chikondi, zidzatha ngati munthu akhala moyo. Inde, n'chifukwa chiyani munthu amakonda, ngati ali ndi malingaliro, manja, mapazi ndi madalitso onse a chitukuko amene adalenga ndi iye? Koma kodi zingatheke kukhala ndi chitukuko chomwecho popanda chikondi?
Nchifukwa chiyani munthu sangakhoze kukhala moyo wopanda chikondi?
Chifukwa popanda izo, sakanati abadwe. Chikondi ndi maziko a chibadwa cha kubalana, ndichinthu chosasinthika cha malingaliro a amayi kwa mwana wake, zomwe zimamupangitsa kumusamalira ndi kumuteteza ku magazi otsiriza. Chikondi ndi maziko, maziko a chirichonse. Pamene zilipo, munthu akufuna kukhala ndi moyo, kugwira ntchito, kupumira, komanso chofunika kwambiri - kupereka. Kulephera kukonda sungapereke chilichonse chobwezera, sangakhale abwino, abambo, ana. Mzinda wawo wokhala ndi mipanda yochokera kudziko lonse lapansi ndi wokhumudwitsa komanso wosauka.
Kukhala muukwati wopanda chikondi n'kotheka, koma ngati angakhale wosangalala - ndilo funso. Ambiri amasankha maanja awo potsata ndondomeko yosasinthasintha, udindo mmalo mwa anthu, ndi zina zotero. Ndikofunikira kuti iwo ayang'ane, kuti apange chidwi, osati kukhala. Iwo ali okonzeka kutaya chimwemwe chifukwa choganiza bwino, koma pakapita nthawi, ambiri amadziwa kuti izi ndizolakwika. Kudzifunsa nokha, kaya munthu akhoza kukhala wopanda chikondi, muyenera kuganizira za tanthauzo la moyo wake. Kodi alipodi? Pambuyo pake, kukhalapo kwake ndikumenyana kopanda pake ndi zopanda pake, kuyesetsa payekha, chifukwa membala woterewa saganizira kuti akuthandizira. Dziko lapansi pansi pake silikhala losasunthika, ngati mchenga, koma moyo uli wokha, ngati mphepo m'munda. Ngakhale Confucius ananena kuti chikondi ndi chimene chimapangitsa munthu kukhala munthu. Amene sakudziwa kutengeka kumeneku akuwononga dziko lathu lapansi, ayambane nkhondo ndi zovuta, ndi iwo omwe amapanga kulenga ndipo ali okonzeka kudzimana okha chifukwa cha chikondi cha anzako.