Amayi ndi abambo amazitcha mosiyana, malinga ndi oyamba, akulera, pamene owonawo akuwona kuti akugwira ntchito, ubongo, ndi zina zotero. Malingana ndi oimira omwe amagonana ndi ofooka, zonse zomwe amachita ndizo zabwino za ubale, ndipo osati mwanjira ina amanyozetsa kapena kumunyoza wokondedwayo. Kuti mumvetsetse vutoli, nkofunikira kumvetsera maganizo a mbali zonse ziwiri.
Maganizo a amuna
Pafupifupi aliyense yemwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana, malemba onse amapanga mogwirizana ndi zomwezo. Poyambirira, chirichonse chikuwoneka ngati nthano. Chikondi , chikondi, umamve ngati wolimba mtima, koma ubale umapita kumtunda watsopano ndipo mwagawana kale gawo lachiwiri la malo okhalamo. Apa ndi pamene kusangalatsa kumayamba. Pa chifukwa china, munthu wokondedwa kwambiri amasandulika cholengedwa chopanda mphamvu, chomwe m'moyo uno sichitha chilichonse. Kawirikawiri, kuti munthu asamachite izi, adzalangidwabe, ndipo zimakhala zovuta kukhala ngati izi, ndipo sitingathe kupirira. Mwachitsanzo, pali chinthu chofala kwambiri: "Mzimayi akukonzekera chakudya ndipo amamufunsa kuti wokondedwa amugule zitsamba, ndipo nthawi zonse amaiwala. Chifukwa cha kusokonezeka, akubwezeretsanso mu supamente ndikubweretsa zida zambiri za parsley mu chiyembekezo chokumva mawu otamanda. Koma m'malo mwake, wokondedwa amene amachokera pakhomo akufunsa, ndipo sangathe kugula mkate, chifukwa adadziwa kuti watsala. " Nthawi zina, mwamuna aliyense amafuna kuphulika kuti aponyedwe masamba awa pamaso pa wokondedwa wake atembenuka ndikuchoka. Izi ndizo kwa iwo ndipo pakuwona ndi kuchotsa ubongo.
Chifukwa chiyani?
Zolakwa zonse ndi kusamvetsetsana kwachilendo. Pazifukwa zina, amai ambiri amaganiza kuti amuna amachita zonse mwachinyengo, mwachitsanzo, amaiwala kugula chinachake, akuyamikireni msuweni wanu pa tsiku lobadwa, akuyitanirani papepala, ndi zina zotero. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa zomwe ziri m'maganizo a munthu aliyense, ndipo mwamunayo sizodziwika, nthawi zambiri chidziwitso chochuluka ndi ubongo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kotero kuti simungakhoze kukumbukira dzina lanu. Choncho, kuti mupewe zidzudzulo zamtundu uliwonse ndi zokhumudwitsa, ingokukumbutsani wokondedwa wanu kachiwiri zomwe akuyenera kuchita, ndiye sipadzakhalanso kudula.
Mwinamwake, akazi ambiri ndi vuto lenileni, chifukwa amatha kunena kuti: "Simungathe kuchita chirichonse, anthu onse ali ngati anthu, ndipo inu mulibe mutu. Tsiku lililonse kwa inu ndimachita zonse zomwe ndingathe komanso zosatheka ... ", mmalo mowonjezera zonsezo ndi mawu akuti:" Chotsani zinyalala ". Ndikhulupirire, palibe munthu amene angamvetse pempholi, ngati mutanena zonse monga momwe zilili poyamba, kotero phunzirani momwe mungalankhulire malingaliro anu momveka bwino.
Kutaya kwathunthu
Munthu wachikondi nthawi zonse amakwaniritsa zofuna za mkazi wake, ndithudi, ngati ali ndi chifukwa. Koma pamene zokhumba zanu zisintha theka la ora, mwachitsanzo, chitani, ayi, musatero, chitani, ndi zina zotero. Mwamuna adzaonedwa ngati akuwona ndipo adzanena kuti simudziwa zomwe mukufuna. Choncho, musanapemphe kanthu, tanthawuzani momveka bwino zomwe mukufuna ndipo kenaka nenani lingaliro lanu.
Kuphunzira kukhala osiyana
Ngati mumaganizira zofuna zonsezi ndikuyamba kukhala ngati mkazi wanzeru , ndiye kuti palibe chomwe mungachidule. Kugonana mwamphamvu, ndithudi, kumatha zambiri, koma osangowerenga maganizo, kotero ngati mukufuna chinachake, musayembekezere kuti akuganiza, koma ingonena choncho. Kotero, simudzakhumudwitsidwa mwa iye, ndipo sadzayenera kugwedeza ubongo wake ndikuganiza kuti ndi chifukwa chotani cha "milomo yanu". Mayi amene ali ndi taluso yotere ndi yamtengo wapatali, mwamuna adzakhala wokonzeka kukunyamula m'manja mwake ndikukwaniritsa zofuna ndi zofuna zonse.