M'masiku akale, iwo anakwatira ndi kukwatiwa popanda kupempha chilolezo cha achinyamata, motsogoleredwa ndi mfundo yakuti: "Adzakhala woleza mtima - adzakondana," ndipo nthawi zambiri iwo amene amayenda pansi pa korona sanamve ngati ali ndi malingaliro awo kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo wam'tsogolo.
Nthawi zasintha, ndipo funso la chikondi cha awiri ndiloluntha. Koma momwe mungagwirizane ndi munthu amene simumamverera kwambiri, komanso ngati mukuyenera kukakamiza kuti mum'konda.
Iye amandikonda ine, ndipo ine?
Mmene munthu amamukonderadi, ndipo winayo amakumana ndi maubwenzi okondana, si atsopano, koma akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti sizingatheke.
Momwe mungagwirizane ndi mwamuna, ngati simukumukonda, koma amakondwera nanu ndipo ali pamtima? Kumverera kwa chikondi kwa iye kukhoza kubadwa ngati inu mukufunadi izo.
Si chinsinsi kuti chikondi cha "African passion" chikuwotcha kwambiri, ndipo chimatentha mofulumira. Ubale wamphamvu wa nthawi yaitali umabadwa chifukwa cha ubale ndi kulemekezana. Ngati munthu amene ali nanu chikondi, ndinu wokondedwa kwenikweni, zonse zidzatha.
Ndikufuna kukonda!
Kukonda munthu amene amakukondani, akatswiri a zamaganizo amati, sivuta konse:
- yesetsani kwambiri kuti mukhale pamodzi: zidzakuthandizani kumudziwa bwino munthu amene ali ndi inu, ndipo nkutheka kuti mutha kukhala ndi "mfundo zambiri" zowonjezera;
- musathamangire kupanga chisankho chodziwika pa woyamikira wanu: kuthamangira kuno kulibe ntchito, ndipo kulingalira ndi kuleza mtima kudzakuthandizira kuona ubwino ndi zovuta zake ngati kuchokera kunja;
- Musakayikire ngati mungathe kukonda munthu m'kupita kwanthawi: zochitika pamoyo zimasonyeza kuti izi ndizotheka, makamaka ngati misonkhano ndi iye imakupatsani chisangalalo, ndipo amakondwera nanu. Yesetsani kuona momwemo momwe zingathere zabwino, osapereka zofunikira kwambiri kuzing'onoting'ono ndi zolephera: pambuyo pa zonse, simungakhale mngelo kapena chitsanzo.
Komabe, posankha ngati mungathe kukonda munthu m'kupita kwanthawi, musamadzikakamize kukonda wina yemwe sakusangalatsani, kapena osayenera chikondi chanu. Chiwawa pawekha ndi omwe akuzunzidwa sichikupezeka pano: ngati palibe kutentha ndi kumverera bwino, sikulekerera ndipo sikudzakondana.