Kudzidzidzimutsa pamaso pa anthu kawirikawiri kumawoneka ngati kufotokoza, koma pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa zochitika ziwirizi. Kudzidzimva ndi njira yowonongeka yowokha, yomwe ndi zofooka zokha zomwe zimalingaliridwa ndi kumvetsetsedwa, ndipo makhalidwe ndi umunthu zimatsutsidwa.
Kudzikonda kokha m'maganizo
Kuti mumvetsetse kuti mukudzipeza nokha, ndikwanira kumvetsera zizindikiro zotsatirazi:
- Muli malo osokoneza bongo ndipo mumayang'ana pa zinthu zoipa.
- Nthawi zonse mumangoganizira za zovuta komanso zolephera.
- Nthawi zambiri mumadandaula zomwe simunachite komanso zomwe simunachite monga momwe mumafunira.
- Inu mukuwopa chinachake kapena inu mukuwopa.
- Inu mumadzitsutsa nokha, ndiye inu mukulingalira, ndiye inu mukupepesa.
- Maganizo anu amakhala nthawi zonse (muyenera kuyang'ana njira zothetsera mavuto osati zomwe zimayambitsa).
- Kusanthula kwanu kulibe cholinga chowonekera kapena chabwino.
- Maganizo anu sali ndi cholinga chokonza zofooka - mukungodziwa kuti ali ndi inu.
Ngati mutapeza kuti kudzikonda nokha ndizomene mumazoloŵera kuchita, ndikofunika kuganizira momwe mungachotsere chidwi chanu. Nthawi zonse imalepheretsa moyo wachimwemwe, wamfulu.
Kodi mungasiye bwanji kukumba?
Choyamba, kupanga mapangidwe abwino kwambiri kukuthandizani kuthetsa kudziwononga. Tiyeni tione, chifukwa chaichi n'zotheka kupanga:
- kukhala ndi tsogolo komanso tsogolo, koma osati kale;
- khalani ozoloŵera kupeza zabwino muzochitika zirizonse;
- Musadzidzudzule pachabe, koma khalani ndi zolinga zomwe zingakuthandizeni kusintha khalidwe losakondweretsa;
- kukhazikitsa zofunika kwambiri pamoyo ndi zolinga;
- ganizirani mozama, podziwa mbali zanu zabwino, ndikuwunika bwino ndi zonse,
chimene chimakondweretsa iwe; - khalani ndi umunthu wanu - phunzirani zatsopano, phunzirani luso latsopano;
- onetsetsani kuti mupeze nthawi yodziwonetsera nokha ndi zinthu zomwe mumakondwera ndi zomwe muli nazo;
- Musalowe muyeso la maloto - chitani choyamba, chachiwiri ndi zonse zomwe mukutsatira panjira yopita ku cholinga chanu.
Anthu omwe sali okonzeka kusintha amasanthula kufunafuna okha. Chifukwa chakuti mukungokhalira kukumana ndi zolephera zanu kapena kudzikuza nokha, palibe chomwe chidzachitike. Koma ngati mukudzikuza, zinthu zidzasintha nthawi yochepa kwambiri, chifukwa malingaliro anu adzalongosoledwa kokha.