Lero mukhoza kuona maulendo ambiri opatsa malonda odzipereka paokha. Ndipo, ziyenera kudziwika, zochitika izi ndi zotchuka. Wina anganene kuti anthu amangochoka ku nthawi yopanda nthawi yophunzitsa, koma izi sizingatheke. Nthaŵi zambiri, anthu amangofuna kukwaniritsa zosowa zawo zachitukuko, zomwe ziripo mwa ife tonse. Mwa njira, kumverera chokhumba chatsopano, sikofunika kupita ku phunziro lina, ndizotheka kuti muzichita nokha panyumba.
Psychology of self-development of personality
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuwongolera nthawi zonse, makamaka ngati pa gawo ili la moyo zonse zimayenera? Yankho lake ndi losavuta - palibe chokhazikika, ngati chitukuko sichingapezeke, njira yowonongeka imayamba, ndiko kuti, kuwonongeka. Psychology imatipatsa ife pang'onopang'ono, kunena kuti kudzikuza ndizofunikira zachilengedwe za munthu, zomwe zimafuna kukhutira kwake. Chinthu china ndi chakuti si aliyense amene amapeza njira yodziwira zofuna zawo. Anthu ambiri, akudziŵa kuti kudzikuza ndi kudzidzimva ndizophatikizana, zimakhala ndi nthawi yofuna njira zogwirira ntchito zamalonda ndi njira zowonjezereka muzofukufuku. Njira imeneyi imapindulitsa, ntchito imayambitsa kaduka pakati pa anzako, koma pang'onopang'ono lingaliro la zopanda ntchito zawo liyamba kubwera, monga kupambana sikubweretsanso chimwemwe, ndipo anthu ena sakudziwa momwe angadzisangalatse.
Palinso njira ina - kudzipatulira kuuzimu. Poyamba, palibe cholakwika ndi izo, koma dziko lapansi lingathe kumangidwira kupatula ku nyumba ya amonke. Ndipo mu moyo wamba, changu chochulukitsa sichikhoza kutsogolera pa zabwino zilizonse, monga momwe munthu amalephera kuthera mdziko lino ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala muumphawi, zomwe zimatha kuwononga maganizo owala kwambiri.
Choncho, njira yabwino kwambiri ndiyo njira yodzikuza yaumwini, zomwe zimapangitsa kukula kwauzimu ndi katswiri. Kuchita izi si kophweka, chifukwa mmodzi wa maphwando amayesetsa nthawi zonse "kukokera bulangeti" paokha. Koma kuthekera kosachita zinthu mopitirira malire ndipo ndilo gawo loyamba pa njira yovuta ya kudzikonza.
Kudzikonda kudzikonda
Kulankhulana ndi munthu woulenga, mungathe kuzindikira zinthu zinazake zapadera, zomwe sizowona. Kupeza kuyang'ana dziko lapansi mofanana ndi kovuta, koma bwanji kupondaponda? Kuti athe kuona chinachake chatsopano muzinthu zowoneka, munthu ayenera kusintha kusintha kwa dziko, ndipo izi sizingatheke popanda kudzikuza, zomwe, monga tawonera, ziyenera kukhala zovuta. Ndipo pofuna kuti zinthu ziyende bwino, tsatirani malamulo awa.
- Choyamba, dziwani kuchuluka kwa ntchito zanu ndi zofuna zambiri zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi maudindo anu enieni. Ndikofunika kuti ntchito yodalirika ikhale yoyenera, sikutheka kukhala ndi chidziwitso chonse cha dziko lapansi, choncho ziyenera kuika pa zomwe mukufunikiradi.
- Osangoganizira zofuna zaumisiri, kusiya malo ochita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi, zidzakuthandizani kupeŵa chizoloŵezi ndi kupitirira.
- Musadzipangitse nokha kuti musadziwe zambiri zomwe simukufunikira kuchokera kuntchito yanu ndipo sizomwe mumakonda kuchita , mudziwe momwe mungachitire.
- Sinkhasinkha. Mukhoza kuwerenga mabuku ambirimbiri,
koma musapite patsogolo. Phunzirani kukonza chidziwitso chilichonse chomwe chikubwera ndikugwirizanitsa. - Ngakhale mutakhala wotsutsa mwatsatanetsatane wa chiphunzitso cha chisinthiko, tenga nthawi kuti mudziwe zofunikira za ziphunzitso zachipembedzo. Musaganize kuti mwawadziŵa kale - mawonetseredwe akunja samagwirizana nthawi zonse.
Yambani ntchito payekha musachedwe, khalani okonzekera kugwira ntchito mwakhama, komanso zizoloŵezi zoyamba ndizovuta kusintha.