Kuthamangitsidwa mu kuyankhulana

Pali lingaliro lakuti njira yolankhulirana, kaya yodzidzimutsa kapena mwangozi, imakhala ndi udindo wogwira ntchito. Munthu akhoza kunena kuti mwangozi ayambe kukambirana naye nkhani yomwe amamukonda kwambiri kuti amve kuchokera kwa wothandizana naye zomwe akufuna. Pakukambirana, mutha kutsogolera mdani wanu kuti atenge chisankho chimene mukufunikira.

Mitundu yosokoneza panthawi yomwe ingakhale yoletsedwa komanso yosamveka, ingakhale yosiyana kwambiri:

• kusokoneza chikondi;
• kusokoneza mantha;
• kusokoneza kudzidalira;
• kusokoneza maganizo;
• kusokoneza chisoni.

Mukulankhula kwawo, anthu ena amakhudza mwadala mitu yeniyeni kuti awononge zomwe ena akuchita, ichi ndicho chodabwitsa chachikulu cha kugwiritsidwa ntchito.

Njira ndi njira zowonongeka

Kuponderezedwa pakati pa anthu, mitundu yake ndi njira zomwe zimagwirizana nthawi zonse zimadalira cholinga chomwe anthu omwe akutsatirana amatsatira, zingakhale:

1. "Chisoni cha interlocutor" - chikuchitidwa mothandizidwa ndi kunyozedwa, kunyozedwa, pofuna kuchotsa munthu, kumamuchititsa mantha.
2. Kutchulidwa kwa "zofuna zapamwamba" nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi manipulator, yemwe amayesetsa kuti apindule yekha, ndipo m'mawu ake akutanthauza maganizo ofanana ndi anthu ovomerezeka ndi olemekezeka kwambiri.
3. "Wonyozetsa" - akuwonetseredwa pamene akuyankhula ndi munthu yemwe wazindikira kale kuti maganizo ake ndi olakwika, koma sakufuna kuvomereza poyera. Akazi amagwiritsa ntchito njirayi yolankhulana poyankhulana mobwerezabwereza kuposa amuna.
4. "Thandizo lojambula" - limagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti likhazikike ndikupangitsa wopondereza kukhala osamala. Kuchokera kunja kumawoneka ngati kunyengerera, kotero wolumikizanayo akumva kale kuti ali ndi ubwino wake, amatsitsimutsa ndipo amakhala woponderezedwa mwachinyengo.

Njira zogwiritsira ntchito ndi mphamvu ya zotsatira zake zimadalira kudziwa kwa munthu amene akufuna kukukhudzani. Pomwe tikukhala pafupi, nthawi zambiri timakumana ndi zofanana pazochita zathu. Nthaŵi zambiri, ndi zophweka kwambiri kumakhudza munthu. Njira yophweka ndiyo kuchita izi pamaganizo, chifukwa njira zowonongeka sizinayambike pamaganizo, komatu pamaganizo ena amodzi. Koma izi siziri chifukwa chokhulupilira kuti kusokoneza bizinesi sizingatheke.

Kodi abwana amatisokoneza bwanji?

Nthawi zambiri kasamalidwe kamakhudza anthu omwe ali pansi pazinthu monga kukakamiza kudzidalira kapena mantha a kutaya ntchito kapena ntchito. Taganizirani za kangati munamva kuchokera kwa bwana wanu za kuopsezedwa, ndithudi, kunayambitsa mkwiyo wanu, ngakhale izi, munakakamizidwa kuchita malamulo ake onse ndi malangizo ake. Ndi njira iyi yoperekera anthu omwe mbali zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi olemba ntchito.

Kuti musasokoneze mtundu woterewu pa umunthu wanu, mungagwiritse ntchito njira zotsatirazi:

• "Ndi makutu" - ntchito yayikulu ya phwando ili ndi mwayi wotenga nthawi. Ngati mukumva kuti mukugwiritsidwa ntchito, ndiye kuti musokonezeke ndi foni yofulumira kuyitana kapena njira ina, kusinthani, yesetsani kusintha mutu wa zokambirana, zidzakuthandizani kupewa kupepesa;
• "Zowonetsera momveka bwino" - ngati mukutsimikiza kuti muli ndi ufulu ku 100%, molimba mtima mufotokoze malingaliro anu, kusakhala ndi kukaikira kulikonse m'mawu anu sikupatsa wopereka mwayi wakukopa.

Tsopano mukudziwa, ndi njira ziti zogwiritsira ntchito poyerekeza ndi munthu wanu zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi njira zomwe siziwathandiza. Ganizirani za m'mene mungagwiritsire ntchito chidziwitso chomwe mwapeza ndikupindula nawo.