Mawu awa anachokera ku liwu lachilatini actualis, limene mu Russian limatanthauza "weniweni, weniweni". Tidzakambirana za vuto lokhazikika pa umunthu ndi zizindikiro za anthu omwe adzipanga okhaokha.
Kudzipereka ndikudzikweza kwa umunthu
Ofufuza ena, omwe angathe kuthandizira Kurt Goldstein, amakhulupirira kuti ndi kudzidzimva bwino ndi kudzipindulitsa kwa munthu amene ali ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa munthu wamoyo yemwe angathe kupikisana ngakhale ndi zosowa za madzi, chakudya ndi kugona. Masiku ano, kudzimva nokha ndikukhala moyo umene umakhala wotchuka kwambiri komanso wopambana, omwe adagwiritsa ntchito zonse zomwe angathe.
Malingana ndi chiphunzitso cha K. Rogers, mu maganizo a munthu, njira ziwiri zikhoza kudziwika, kuperekedwa pa kubadwa. Choyamba, kudzikonda komweko ndiko kupanga, tsogolo la munthu; chachiwiri, "njira yowonongeka," imayang'anira kukula kwake. Zili pamaziko a zikhalidwe ziwirizi kuti umunthu wapadera umapangidwa, kuphatikizapo "weniweni weniweni" komanso "wokha." Pakati pao pakhoza kukhala ndi maganizo osiyana-kuchokera pa chiyanjano chokwanira kumapeto kwa zovuta.
Mu chidziwitso ichi kudzidzimva ndi kudzikhazikitsa umunthu kumagwirizana kwambiri. Kukhazikitsa nokha kumawoneka ngati njira yodziwululira zomwe mungathe, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala munthu wogwiritsa ntchito mwayi uliwonse. Pokwaniritsa zolinga, anthu amakhala ndi moyo wodabwitsa, wokhutiritsa, wodzaza ndi kufufuza, kudzigwira okha ndi zotsatira zodabwitsa. Munthu wotere amakhalapo nthawi zonse, akusangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse pano ndi pano.
Kukhazikitsa umunthu wa umunthu: zowoneka bwino
Munthu amene akudzipereka yekha ndipo wapindula kwambiri ndi izi:
- amachita zomwe amakonda;
- osagonjera mphamvu ya anthu ena;
- amakonda kuwerenga ndi kukula;
- ndi munthu wolenga;
- Chitani njira yabwino yoganizira ;
- kutseguka;
- kudzidalira;
- amadzikhululukira yekha nthawi yosakhumudwitsidwa mwa onse.
Anthu oterewa amavomerezana ndi iwo okha, zomwe zimapangitsa kunena motsimikiza kuti kukula kwanu kumapangitsa anthu kukhala osangalala.