Kalekale anthu amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ya zinthu pochita miyambo yosiyanasiyana . Ankaganiza kuti kupambana kwa njoka chifukwa cha mphamvuyi kwawonjezeka kwambiri. Mphamvu ya mvula ingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa chikondi, ndalama ndi miyambo ina.
Lembani mvula, kuti okondedwa anga akhoze kulota
Ngati mwamuna sali pafupi ndikufunanso kudzikumbutsa nokha, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuchita mwambo wosavuta kuti mum'lole. Mvula ikagwa mumayenera kupita kumsewu kapena kutulutsa manja anu pawindo kuti mugwetse madontho m'manja mwanu. Panthawi imeneyi, muyenera kuganizira za munthu amene mumawakonda ndikuyankhula za chiwembu:
"Mvula yowonongeka, khala wokoma (wokoma mtima). Tiyeni timutenge iye (mkazi), tiyeni timuwone. Aloleni ayang'ane pa ine - sakuwona mokwanira. Azindikonda - sadzakondana. Ndiwe wamphamvu, mvula, yamphamvu, choncho mawu anga ndi amphamvu. Amen. "
Mvula imakhala yamphamvu, mwamsanga komanso mwambo wabwino.
Gulu lolakalaka mvula
Mwambo wosavuta kumapangitsa wokondedwa kukhala wolakalaka ndi wolakalaka msonkhano. Adzathandiza pamene wokondedwayo salipo kapena pakakhala mkangano kapena kupatukana. Ndikofunika kukhala ndi chidaliro osati m'maganizo anu okha, komanso pogwiritsa ntchito matsenga. Poyamba, muyenera kutsegula zenera ndikuyang'ana mvula ndi mphezi kwa kanthawi. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuganizira zakumverera komanso za osankhidwawo. Funsani mphamvu za chirengedwe kuti zithandize pakukhazikitsa ndondomekoyi. Tengani chidutswa cha pepala, lembani nokha ndi dzina la wokonda, ndiyeno, ikani pawindo kuti madontho agwe. Werengani chiwembu ichi pa mvula:
"Lolani mvula ndi madontho anu omwe mutsuke kupatukana kwathu,
adzabweretsa kwa wokondedwa wanga (dzina) chisoni chachikulu ndi kulemedwa!
Kodi maina athu akuphatikizana bwanji pa tsamba limodzi,
kotero tiyeni miyoyo yathu ikhale yolumikizidwa mu imodzi!
Lolani wokondedwa wanga (dzina la wosankhidwa) asakhale ndi moyo popanda dzina langa,
ndipo mvula iyi idzagwirizanitsa ife kwamuyaya! Amen! "
Lembani mawu mpaka kubwereza tsamba. Kenaka yumitsani, ndipo mubisala m'malo obisika kwamuyaya.
Lembani mvula pa chikondi
Ngati mukufuna kumuluma munthu amene mumamukonda, yonjezerani mphamvu yakumverera kapena kubwezeretsani mwamuna m'banja, ndiye mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mwambo umenewu. Nkofunika kuti zenera zikhale mvula yambiri, koma popanda mvula. Tsegulani zenera, tambani manja anu kuti muwagwetse iwo ndi kuwawuza chikondi pa mvula:
"Monga mvula imabwera kuchokera kumwamba, momwemo (dzina) kudzakhala kwa ine kulira ndi kuzunzika. Monga dontholo limathamangira ku galasi pa galasi, kotero wokondedwa wanga samandiiwala, koma amangothamangira kwa ine, amathamangira kwa ine. Monga mvula siikidwe mu sieve ndipo siingakhoze kuimitsidwa, kotero inu simungakhoze kundilekanitsa ine ndi wokondedwa wanga. Hantaa ular. "
Bwerezani katatu. Ndikofunika kulankhula mokweza komanso momveka bwino. Kenaka sambani ndi madzi amvula ndi kutseka zenera. Nthawi zina yang'anani pa madontho akugwa ndikuganiza za wokondedwayo.