Msungwana aliyense, ngati sakufuna kudzimva okha, koma kukhaladi mayi wabwino kwambiri, ayenera kumvetsera bwino. Samalani kwa heroines a mafilimu akale kapena mafilimu amakono a nthawi zammbuyo - iwo amachita bwino, amatsatira ulemu, ulemu, kumwetulira. Kawirikawiri, zalyubueshsya, kukongola koteroko. Ndipo, ndithudi, pafupifupi mkazi aliyense amafuna kukhala ofanana ndi iwo, monga Melanie wa Gone ndi Wind, kapena ngati heroine wa Downtown Abbey mndandanda. Kodi izi zingatheke bwanji? Ndi zophweka - tiyeni tiwone malamulo ophweka a kukoma kwabwino, zomwe mayi weniweni ayenera kutsatira.
Malamulo abwino kwa atsikana
Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikumvetsetsa kuti sizingatheke kukhala kwinakwake mkazi, ndipo kwinakwake - kusokoneza mfundo. Liwu labwino liyenera kutsatiridwa kulikonse: kuntchito, kuyenda, kuyenda pagalimoto, komanso kunyumba, polumikizana ndi achibale. Kotero khalani okonzeka kuti muzidzigwira nokha, ndiye kuti mukhale ndi ufulu wodzitcha nokha mayi.
Kuti mumve bwino, malamulo a khalidwe labwino ndi tanthauzo labwino adzagawidwa m'magulu ang'onoang'ono. Choncho, mutha kuyenda mwamsanga mwa malamulo omwe mukufuna kuphunzitsa poyamba:
- Malamulo olankhulana bwino. Mwina, nthawi yathu ino - iyi ndi imodzi mwa mavuto aakulu. Anthu ambiri amangokhalira kuiwala momwe angalankhulire molondola, ndipo wina, mwinamwake, sadziwa malamulowa. Koma apa zonse ziri zophweka. Choyamba, musaiwale za "mawu amatsenga". Mwa njira izi sikuti "zikomo" komanso "chonde", komanso "hello", "tsitsirani" ndi mawu ena-zashalochki kukambirana kulikonse. Khalidwe nthawi zonse limakhala lolemekezeka komanso labwino, makamaka limakhudzana ndi kulankhulana ndi alendo kapena mkulu kuntchito, chifukwa pokambirana ndi abwenzi kumeneko pali zinsinsi ndi malamulo. Zikomo - izo zikonzekera anthu inu. Ngati mulipo pamsonkhano wa bizinesi, nthawizonse muziyankhula momveka bwino, mwachidule, komanso pa bizinesi. Pokambirana pa foni, musafuule foni, ndipo yesetsani kuti musalankhule poyendetsa galimoto ngati mutatha kubwerera.
- Malamulo abwino pa tebulo. Ndifunikanso kudziwa momwe mungakhalire pa tebulo. Ziribe kanthu kaya muli pa phwando, kuresitilanti tsiku kapena chakudya cham'nyumba - muyenera kuchita mogwirizana ndi luso. Mwinamwake malamulo ofunikira kwambiri: musamangokhalira kumangokhalira, musazengereze, musalankhulane ndi pakamwa panu, musalankhule mokweza, musayamike pa tebulo. Zonsezi zimadziwika kwa ambiri kuyambira ali ana, koma osati onse omwe amadziwa malamulo, kenako amawatsatira. Khalani pa tebulo, onetsetsani kuti mukutsatira ndondomeko yanu - simungathe kutsamira kutenga chidutswa pa mphanda, muyenera kubweretsa mphanda pakamwa panu. Musalole kuti muyankhule molakwika za zakudya zina chifukwa chakuti sakukukondani - izi ndi kutalika kwa zosayenera. Ngati mukufuna kuthandizira zokambirana pa tebulo, kambiranani pa nkhani zandale, popanda kukhudza ndale, matenda, zowonjezera za moyo wanu kapena wina.
- Malamulo a zovala zabwino. Chabwino, potsiriza, tiyeni tiyankhule za momwe tingamvere mkazi weniweni. Inde, ndipo m'zovala pamakhala chidziwitso chovomerezeka. Mwachitsanzo, simungabwere kudzagwira ntchito pajjamas ndi slippers, mofananamo mkazi sangathe kuvala chovala choyitana. Mwachitsanzo, masiketi achifupi ndi akabudula, kachiwiri ndi mitu yowonekera, T-malaya, madiresi. Kusankha zovala ziyenera kukhala zokoma, kuziganizira zinthu zoterozo,
monga kalembedwe ndi ulemu. Ndi bwino kuvala jeans yosavuta ndi shati, kusiyana ndi mini yopanda malire. Choyamba, zikugwirizana kwambiri ndi mayiyo, ndipo kachiwiri, mukhoza kungobisa zolakwika zanu, osati kuziyika poyera.
Momwemonso, izi zikhoza kutchedwa malamulo oyambirira a kukoma kwa amayi, omwe ayenera kutsatira. Inde, mndandandawu ukhoza kuwonjezeredwa kwa nthawi yayitali, monga malankhulidwe ayenera kuchitidwa molingana ndi gombe, ndi poyendetsa pagalimoto, kuntchito, ngakhalenso mu gulu. Koma, ngakhale kumamatira ku malamulo ochepa awa osavuta a kulawa bwino, mumamverera mayi wamng'ono, ndikuwonetsa izi kwa ena.