Ukwati wokha ndi chochitika chofunika, koma nthawi zambiri amafuna kupereka mwambo wochuluka kwambiri, kuti apange mfundo imodzi yofunika kwambiri. Ndipo mwa izi, malumbiro aukwati nthawi zambiri amachitidwa lero. Ndipotu, mawu omwe amati ndi okondana wina ndi mzake asanakhale onse amodzi - banja, nthawi zonse limakhudza kwambiri ndikumbukira moyo. Tsono, zenizeni zomwe munganene, muyenera kuganizira mofulumira.
Mmene mungalembe lumbiro laukwati?
Pali njira zitatu zazikulu:
- tengani malumbiro okwatirana okonzekera ndi kusankha chinthu choyenera pa nthawi inayake;
- lembani mawu "kuyambira pachiyambi" nokha;
- Lembani lumbiro lokongola lochokera kwa katswiri wolemba mawu kapena wolemba ndakatulo.
Ndondomeko ya mawu yokonzedwa bwino ndi yoyenera, ngati palibe nthawi yoti mulembe chinachake chanu kapena mulibe mphatso ya wolemba ndipo simukufuna kugunda dothi pamaso. Koma ndi bwino, kutenga maziko a chitsanzo china, kuyesa kulumbira malingaliro anu ndi kuwapanga kukhala apadera, opangidwa makamaka kwa munthu amene ali wokondedwa kwa inu. Mmenemo, palinso tanthauzo lapadera, limene kwenikweni, linali loyambirira pa chiyambi cha mwambo umenewu.
Zowonjezereka, zowonjezereka, ndizo zotsatirazi: "Ine (FI) ndikukutengerani (FI) kukhala mkazi ndikulumbira kuti mukhale ndi inu nthawi zonse, ziribe kanthu zomwe zikuchitika, ndikudwala, ndi thanzi labwino, ndi chisoni, ndi phindu, ndi mu mavuto, ndi chimwemwe mpaka mapeto. " Pachifukwa chake, mukhoza kupeza kusiyana kwakukulu, komwe kumadzetsa malingaliro , ndithudi, pakupanga kusintha ngati kudzakhala kulumbira kwa mkwati kapena mkwatibwi.
Ukwati maukwati a mkwatibwi
Ngakhale pali lamulo losavomerezeka kuti mawu oti mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kufanana ndi theka la lonse, kuthandizana wina ndi mzake, sikofunikira kuti mulitsatire. Ndipo mwamuna wam'tsogolo ali ndi ufulu wodzetsa chinthu china chake choyambirira. Njira yabwino kwambiri idachitidwa osati yolemera-yovuta, koma yosavuta yosavuta, yokongola komanso yogwira mtima, kuti isamafanane ndi chowonetserocho. Lolani kukhala mawu omveka bwino kwambiri, oyenerera ku chithunzi chokongola cha akwatibwi ndi diresi lake loyera.
Ukwati waukwati wa mkwati
Kuwona mtima kudzakhala kwa munthu komanso mwamuna wam'tsogolo. Mkwati ali woyenera kwambiri kwa chinachake chomwe sichiri chokwanira kwambiri komanso chalacik. Chitsanzo cha lumbiro laukwati kwa iye: "Ine ndikulonjeza pamaso pa onse omwe alipo kuti ndi mwamuna wanu wokhulupirika ndi wachikondi. Ndidzakuchitirani chifundo ndi ulemu, ndikugawana nanu mavuto onse. Ndipo ndikulumbira kuti sindidzakuperekani kapena kukukhumudwitsani. "
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