Mkazi wamphamvu wofooka

Poyamba, mutu wa nkhaniyo umveka wosamveka, koma ngati uyang'anitsitsa, ndiye kuti pali tanthauzo lina. Nchiyani chimabwera poyamba mukamva mawu akuti "mkazi"? Ambiri a ife tinalingalira za mawu akuti "kugonana kofooka". Pa chiyanjano ichi, mkazi amawoneka wofooka kuposa munthu ndipo kodi izi zikuchokera kuti?

Kuyambira nthawi yaitali, udindo wa munthuyo unali wofunika kwambiri, ndipo utsogoleri wa dziko unkalamulira padziko lapansi. Choyamba, mwamunayo anali mutu wa banja chifukwa anali wothandizira chakudya, ndiye kuti amuna adapatsidwa udindo wapadera m'mudzi, chifukwa anali ophunzira, ophunzitsidwa ntchito, kuwerenga ndi kulemba, pamene udindo wa amayi unali wachiwiri.

Tsopano oimira zachiwerewere amadziwa bwino ntchito zosiyanasiyana, zochitika zandale, masewera komanso ngakhale amadziwa kuyendetsa magalimoto. Dziko likusintha, ndipo akazi akumuthandiza pa izi.

Akazi amphamvu padziko lonse lapansi

Mabuku otchulidwa ndi dzina la dziko lapansi mobwerezabwereza anapanga azimayi amphamvu ndi amphamvu a dziko lapansi omwe sanawope kuponya vuto loyamba la dongosolo la nthawi imeneyo ndipo anakhala mafano kwa asungwana ambiri masiku ano.

1. Mfumukazi Diana. Dona Diana Spencer adadziwika atakwatirana ndi munthu wa m'banja lachifumu la Prince of Wales. Ankatchedwa "ufumu ndi nkhope ya umunthu," chifukwa moyo wake wonse unagwirizana ndi chikondi ndikuthandiza osowa.
2. Merlin Monroe. Dzina lake, ichi ndi chinthu choyamba chomwe chimabwera m'maganizo pankhani ya kugonana kwa zaka makumi angapo zapitazo. Monroe anakhala chizindikiro chodziwika bwino cha kugonana ndipo lero ndi chitsanzo cha cholowa cha amayi zikwizikwi.
3. Marlene Dietrich. Dona uyu anakhala chizindikiro cha cinema ya Germany ndi America kumayambiriro kwa zaka makumi awiri ndi makumi awiri, chifukwa ambiri adzakhala chitsanzo cha "zachiwawa zachikazi."
4. Coco Chanel. Anali woyamba kuitana amayi kuti azivala suti zamatundu, potero amapanga chithunzi chatsopano cha chikazi.

Mkazi wamphamvu ndi munthu wamphamvu

Kusintha kwakukulu kotereku pa udindo wa akazi mmudzi sizingatheke koma kumabweretsa mavuto mu ubale pakati pa amuna ndi akazi.

Amuna kwa amayi amphamvu amachiritsidwa mosiyana:

1. Kwa amuna ena, mkazi wamphamvu kwambiri, ichi ndi chitsanzo cha kukopa kwa kugonana, chifukwa amamva kufunika kogonjera munthu wosasangalatsa komanso mu ubale kuti akhale kapolo basi.
2. Amuna ena samangokhalira kulekerera udindo wa utsogoleri wa amayi, nthawi zina ngakhale kufika poti amawonekera atsogoleri a amayi, amayi omwe amatsatira gudumu kapena mwachidziwitso aluso amapanga amayi. Popeza molingana ndi zochitika zosaonekazi iwo sakufuna kumvera "kugonana kofooka," nthawi zambiri mothandizidwa posonyeza mphamvu zawo za thupi.

Izi zimatipatsa ufulu kunena kuti mkazi wofooka akhoza kukhala munthu wamphamvu. Ndipo pokhala choncho iye akupitirizabe kumva kufunikira kwa chitetezo cha amuna. Koma munthu wamphamvu pambali pake sangakhale, kotero kufalikira kwa maganizo omwe amai amawonekera ndi chikhalidwe chokhumba kwambiri, kukhala wopambana pantchito yazatswiri alibe chisangalalo m'miyoyo yawo.

Kuwonekera kwa mitundu yatsopano ya ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi waphunzira ndikukambidwa mu zolemba zosiyanasiyana za sayansi ndi zamakono zaka makumi angapo zapitazi, chitsanzo cha ichi chikhoza kukhala buku la Miranda Lee "Mkazi Wofooka Wamphamvu."

Nthawi imalamula malamulo ake, ndipo timakakamizidwa kuti tizimvera. Ngakhale izi, musaiwale za kufanana kwa amuna ndi akazi komanso kuti amayi, komanso amuna ali ndi ufulu wokwanira kuchita zomwe amakonda, kumanga ntchito zawo ndikudziwonetsera okha.