Buku lotchuka la William Atkinson lakuti Power of Thought, kapena Magnetism of Personality, limapatsa aliyense kuti adziwe maphunziro 15 omwe amathandiza anthu ena. N'zosadabwitsa kuti buku ili linapindula msanga: pafupifupi munthu aliyense akulota kuti ali ndi mphatso yokopa komanso amatha kupeza anthu ena ake. Komabe, mphamvu yaikulu ya malingaliro ingagwiritsidwe ntchito osati ndi malangizo a Atkinson.
Magnetism
Anthu ena mwa chilengedwe amakhala ndi magnetism a munthu - luso lapadera popanda khama lokopa chidwi cha ena, kuwonekera kwao munthu wovomerezeka, wodabwitsa, wonyenga, kukhala chinsinsi cha yemwe akufuna kukhudza. Ubongo wamtunduwu, monga lamulo, sudziwa komwe mphamvu izi zimachokera kwa anthu, koma mwamsanga amaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito ndi phindu.
Dziwani kuti munthu wotereyo akhoza kukhala wophweka: zimakopa, zimamulimbikitsa, zimamveka mphamvu yamkati. Simudzamuwona munthu wotere akukaikira mawu ake - kudalira kwake kumaso, kukambirana, manja. Monga lamulo, anthu amapita ku maginito, amalemekezedwa, amamvetsera maganizo awo.
Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mphamvu ya ganizo?
Ngakhale ngati simuli mmodzi mwa anthu omwe ali ndi mwayi wobadwa ndi magnetism, mungathe kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna. Mphamvu ya malingaliro idzakuthandizira pa chikondi, ntchito, kukula kwaumwini komanso mdima uliwonse wa ntchito. Ndikofunika kuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito molondola.
Mwachitsanzo, mukufuna kutchuka, mukufuna kuti anthu akufikireni, funsani malangizo anu. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kugwira ntchito pa zikhulupiriro ndi khalidwe lanu, ndipo mphamvu ya malingaliro idzakuthandizani kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna.
Ganizirani ngati muli ndi zikhulupiriro zolakwika. Mwachitsanzo: "Sindimakonda anthu", "Palibe amene amandikonda", "Sindikuwoneka 100". Chikhulupiliro chilichonse chomwe chakhala pamutu mwanu, ubongo umadziwika ngati gulu. Chotsatira chake, mumangoganizira zochitika zomwe zimathandiza lingaliro loperekedwa. Kuti musinthe umunthu wanu, muyenera kusintha zomwe mumakhulupirira kuti zikhale zabwino.
Mwachitsanzo, m'malo moti "Sindimakonda aliyense" muyenera kudziphunzitsa nokha kuganiza "Ndimakonda anthu, amafika kwa ine". Lankhulani lingaliro ili kangapo patsiku, ndipo lidzawonedwa ndi ubongo monga gulu. Zotsatira zake, mbali yanu ya masomphenya idzasintha, ndipo inu, m'malo mwake, mudzaika maganizo pazomwe anthu amakopeka ndi inu, kukulitsa chikhulupiriro ndi kulandira chitsimikiziro.
Mofananamo, munthu akhoza kugwira ntchito ndi zikhulupiriro m'munda uliwonse. Musati muyembekezere zotsatira zofulumira: mudzabwezeretsa malingaliro olakwika ndi zabwino mkati mwa masiku 15-20, musanayambe kukudziwitsani mutu wanu ndikuyamba kuchita.