Mwachidziwitso, atsikana ambiri amapanga zolakwitsa zambiri mu maubwenzi, omwe pakapita nthawi amachititsa zotsatira zowawa - kutha kwa mgwirizano. Monga lamulo, kusanthula zochita zawo ndi kupeza zolakwika zimachitika mutatha kugawa . Komabe, ngati mtsikana akonda chibwenzi chake, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuyesa kubwereranso. Kuti mukhale osangalala muyenera kulimbana.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji munthu amene mumamukonda?
Choyamba m'pofunika kunena kuti oimira maukwati amphamvu pazochitika zambiri samafuna kuti atsitsimutse kugonana. Choncho, mtsikanayo ayenera kuyesetsa kwambiri kubwezeretsa wokondedwayo.
Choyamba, muyenera kukhazikitsa ubale weniweni, kuti mubwererenso mnyamata amene mumamukonda mutangoyamba kulankhulana bwino. Ndikofunika kuyang'ana bwino pamisonkhano. Panthawiyi, muyenera kuyamba chidwi ndi chinachake chatsopano, kuti muyankhule ndi anthu. Mnyamatayo amayerekezera kuti mtsikana ali ndi chiyanjano chotani ndi zomwe zidatha. Bweretsani mnyamata yemwe mumamukonda komanso momwe mungathere ndi SMS, ndi makalata ndi manja. Mnyamata akhoza kuyamikira ndakatulo ndi kuvomereza mukumverera kudzera m'mauthenga ofanana. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mwayi udzawonjezeka ngati ali wachikondi. Mwina izi zingamuthandize kuti ayambe kumvanso.
Momwe mungabwezere munthu amene mumamukonda - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo
- Gwira pause. Nthawiyi ikufunika kuti zonse zikhale bata, sungani malingaliro anu ndikukhazika mtima pansi. Panthawiyi, simukusowa kufufuza misonkhano, kulemba mauthenga ndi kuyitana.
- Yambani ndi nokha. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti wokondedwa wanu sanakukondeni, zomwe zinakwiyitsani inu. Tiyenera kuyamba kumenyana ndi makhalidwe amenewa.
- Ndi nthawi yoti muzisamalira nokha - kusintha zonse mkati ndi kunja. Ndikofunika kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino.
- Khalani moyo wokhutira: fufuzani zosangalatsa zatsopano, yambani kuyenda, kusintha fano lanu. Mwamuna adzayamikira.
- Khalani ndi chipiriro chokwanira.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji munthu ngati amakonda wina?
Muzochitika izi, n'zachabechabe kupikisana ndi wokangana ndi mawonekedwe okha. Muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira zina:
- Dziwani zambiri za zomwe mumakonda: moyo wake, zokondweretsa. Phunzirani zokonda zake ndikudabwa ndi mnyamatayo ndi zofanana. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kukhala momasuka komanso mwachibadwa.
- Khalani bwenzi kwa iye. Ndikofunika kumuthandiza, kumvetsetsa, kumumvetsera.
- Khalani oleza mtima. Pambuyo pa ubale wapamtima, sitepe yotsatira iyenera kutengedwa. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kukhala pamodzi ndi munthuyu nthawi zambiri, kuti mukakhale nawo pazochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ngati mtsikanayo akhoza kuikidwa yekha, ndiye kuti kubwerera kwake kumakhala nthawi.