Yankho la funso ili mobwerezabwereza linazunza mtsikana aliyense. Pambuyo pa zonse, sikuti aliyense wa ife adzasankha mwachindunji kufunsa izi kuchokera kwa wosankhidwa wake. Kotero lero ife tikukulangiza kuti muyankhule za momwe mungapezere zomwe mwamuna amakonda.
Mukudziwa bwanji zomwe mnyamatayo amakonda?
Kuti mudziwe ngati malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu ali olondola, simukusowa kukhala katswiri wa maganizo kapena wamaganizo. Mukungoyang'ana munthu wanu, kenako mudzapeza ngati munthuyo amakonda. Munthu wachikondi samuchititsa manyazi mkazi wake, koma amamuchitira ulemu ndi ulemu.
Ngati munthu akonda inu, ndiye kuti sangakweze dzanja lanu mwanjira iliyonse ndipo sadzakukhumudwitsani ndi mwano. Munthu wachikondi weniweni adzakusamalirani ndi mtendere wanu wa mumtima. Chizindikiro chachikulu cha chikondi cha amuna ndi kuvomereza munthu kwa inu kuti amakuonani ngati mayi wa ana ake.
Kodi mumadziwa bwanji ngati mwamuna wanu amakukondani?
Pamene mutuluka pa siteji yotsatila ndikuyamba kukhala pansi pa denga lomwelo, mwamunayo ayenera kukhala wosamalira banja. Mwamuna wachikondi amayesa kutembenuza mapiri kuti mkazi asasowe ndipo ali ndi zonse zomwe akusowa.
Muziyamikira ngati mwamuna ali wokonzeka kuti muthe kutsutsana ndi mfundo zake ndikupita ku nsembe zina: iye amakana ku msonkhano wa usiku ndi abwenzi ake, ndipo amapanga nawe ku malo ogula. Ngati akusintha khalidwe lake kwa inu - izi ndizonso za chikondi chake. Chinthu chachikulu - musayambe khalidwe lodzikonda, kumbukirani kulemekeza.
Munthu wachikondi adzakukhululukirani zolakwa zanu, koma sizikutanthauza kuti mumatha kumasuka ndikusiya kugwira ntchito nokha. Ndiponsotu, pamene malingaliro onse ali ogwirizana, timayesetsa kudzikonza tokha kuti wosankhidwa akhale wonyada ndi ife.
Pamene nthawi yoyembekezeredwa ikubwera ndipo mwamunayo akukupatsani mwayi woti mukhale mkazi wake wovomerezeka, ndiye ndithudi palibe chifukwa chokhalira kuti mwamuna amakonda, chifukwa tsopano ali wokonzeka kupitiliza kuyenda ndi iwe mmoyo wake wonse.
Mukudziwa bwanji kuti wokondedwa wanu amanjenjemera?
Ngati mnzanuyo akufuna kuti azigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka pamodzi, nthawi zambiri amakuitanani, amatumiza ma SMS, amayesa kukuwonani nthawi zambiri, amakuganizirani kwambiri, amapanga zodabwitsa koma zosangalatsa - khalani chete, mwamunayo amakukondani komanso amakuphonyani, pamene simuli pafupi.
Ngati zonsezi zikugwirizana ndi khalidwe la munthu wanu, simukuyenera kukhala ndi dontho la kukaikira pamene mukudabwa kuti mungapeze bwanji ngati mukukondedwa. Koma musaiwale kuti musamangoganizira za khalidwe lake komanso kuyesa kumvetsa mmene akumvera, ndiye kuti chiyanjano chanu chidzawonongedwa.