Pambuyo pazaka zingapo zaukwati, moyo wokhazikika, kulankhulana ndi mabwenzi ndi maonekedwe a ana. Zikuwoneka kuti chirichonse chiri ngati wina aliyense, koma palibe mgwirizano mu mtima. Ntchito yodalirika ya conjugal pamapeto a sabata, kuyitana ndi SMS, zokhudzana ndi moyo wokha, komanso kulera ana monga ntchito. Mabanja ambiri amadziwa bwino izi ndipo ambiri apeza mphamvu kuti awongolere.
Bwanji ngati ndimakhala ndi mwamuna wanga ngati anansi athu?
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti mwamuna sanakhale mlendo usiku wonse. Kwa zaka zambiri za kukhala pamodzi, munthu aliyense amatengeka ndi zinthu zochepa, zodandaula ndi zosokoneza, zomwe, ngati njerwa, zimapanga khoma lomwe aliyense amagwiritsa ntchito pofuna kuteteza kusokoneza dziko lapansi. Zoonadi, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti muthe kuyamba kukonza ubale watsopano, koma izi n'zotheka ngati mumva kuti mwamuna wanu sakhala womasuka kukhalabe mudziko lino.
Yambani kupeza mgwirizano ndi "Peter 1" - osati njira yabwino. Ndi bwino kuiwala chirichonse, osati kukumbukira zakale ndi kuyamba, monga akunena, kuyambira pachiyambi. Ngati inu ndi mwamuna wanu mwakhala alendo kwa wina ndi mzake, ndipo mukulemedwa ndi izo, ndiye ndinu "makadi ali m'manja". Yesetsani kumudziwitsa kuti ali wokondweretsa kwa inu, wokongola ngati munthu, komanso wotsika mtengo, pamapeto pake. Khalani ndi chidwi pa zochitika zake, nthawizonse mumumudwe ndi chinachake, kumbukirani zomwe iye ankakondwera panthawi yomwe chirichonse chinali chabwino ndi inu. Kuphika keke yomwe amamukonda, kugula diski ndi filimu yomwe akufuna kuonana nayo, ndipo ngati simunagwiritse ntchito nthawi pamodzi, ndi nthawi yoti muchite. Ndipo kwa mchere, konzekerani kugonana koyenera mu malo omwe mwamuna wanu ankangoganizira.
Ngati mwamunayo adakhala mlendo, izi siziri chifukwa chokanira poyamba ndipo "kulimbikitsidwa." Ndipotu, n'zoonekeratu kuti mwamuna akhoza kukhala wamisala pampanikilo wotere ndikudabwa ndi zifukwa zomveka za khalidweli. Pang'ono pang'ono, koma mosalekeza pitirizani ku maphunzirowo. Yambani kumvetsera maganizo ake, ngati simunachitepo kale, muuzeni kuti mumamuona kuti ndiye mutu wa banja ndipo mwakonzeka kumvera. Pamene mkazi ndi mwamuna wake amakhala ngati alendo, ndi nthawi yosintha chinachake. Mwamuna sadzasiya konse mkazi yemwe ali wake
Kumbukirani, muyenera kuyesetsa kuchita zambiri mu ubale umenewu osati kuti padzakhala kubwerera. Koma mwayi wokhazikitsa zonse zomwe muli nazo, ngati mwamuna adakali ndi inu ndipo sadzachoka. Khalani mwa iye momwe mudakhalira pamsinkhu wa msonkhano - wachifundo, wokoma, wachikondi ndipo sangathe kuphonya. Pamapeto pake, idzasungunuka ndipo ubale wanu ufika pamtunda watsopano.