Kodi kudzikhutira ndi chiyani kwa mkazi, ndi momwe angakhalire mkazi wotere popanda kugwedeza ndodo? Zonsezi ndi mizere yowonongeka yokhutira akazi, yosiyana kwambiri ndi yamphongo. Tidzakambirana za momwe tingakhalire okhutira ndi kusunga mbali izi lero.
Ubwino wa moyo wokhutira
Choyamba, tidzamvetsa zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala wokhutira. Liwu limeneli limatanthauza kuthekera kuima mwamphamvu ndi kumverera pansi pansi pawo. Awa ndiwo maziko achitsulo mkati mwako. Izi ndizokwanira zomwe zidzatha kuyang'ana ndi ulemu muzochitika zilizonse. Zimamveka zokongola, koma chimayembekezera chiyani mutatha kukhala munthu wokhutira:
- Simukusowa kuchita zambiri ndi zolephera, iwo ayamba kukugwirani ntchito;
- simukusowa kugonjetsa anthu ambiri, iwo adzakondwera ndi mphamvu zanu zamkati zokwanira;
- mudzasunga mitsempha yambiri ndi mphamvu, chifukwa mumasiya kuchitira kaduka ndi kudana;
- nthawi zonse mukwaniritsa cholinga chanu.
Njira yodzikhutira
Chinthu choyamba chokhala wokhutira ndikutembenuzira pawekha. Muyenera kudzipezera nokha ndi kuthetsa mavuto anu onse , popanda izi, sipadzakhala zokwanira.
Dzikondeni nokha ndikuzisamalira nokha. Kuti mumve chuma chanu mkati, muyenera kukhutira ndi maonekedwe anu.
Pewani kuzungulirana kwa anthu "osafunikira". Muli ndi abwenzi, koma alibe. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kuphunzira kuchita zimenezi kuti zokambirana mu bwalo laubwenzi zichitike pazomwe mukufunikira komanso pa nthawi yoyenera.
Munthu wokhutira nthawizonse ali ndi cholinga - ndi mawa, ndi mwezi, ndi chaka. Ngati mulibe zolinga, mudzakhala ndi moyo kuti mukwaniritse zolinga za anthu ena komanso moyo wa wina. Zolinga zawekha zidzakupangitsani nthawi yanu kukhala yowona ndipo moyo wanu udzayenda m'njira yoyenera kwa inu.
Osasambira ndi kutuluka, koma osasambira motsutsa. Muyenera kusambira kokha kumene mukufunikiradi.