Kunja kwawindo ndi nthawi yomwe amai ali ndi ufulu wofanana ndi amuna, pamene pakufunafuna chuma ena akazi amaiwala za chikazi, chikhalidwe chawo chofatsa. Kukhala mzimayi weniweni wapatsidwa kwa aliyense, koma momwe izi zidzakhalire komanso ngati zonse zimadalira zochita za munthuyo mwiniyo. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira chinthu chachikulu: kutsutsana ndiwekha weniweni, munthu akhoza kuvulaza, angati osati kwa ena, koma kwa iweeni.
Momwe mungakhalire mayi weniweni: malamulo oyambirira
Mkazi aliyense wolemekezeka sangafotokoze maganizo ake achiwawa poyera, kutembenuza khalidwelo kukhala mchitidwe wa nkhanza ndi kuvulaza.
Ponena za nkhani zokambirana, m'pofunika kudutsa zochitika zokhudzana ndi moyo wa wina, miseche. Kuletsa kukambirana mosagwirizana sikumapeto kwa atsikana okongola. Zoonadi, ngati mukufuna kugawana ndi munthu wina wowawa, kambiranani za ubale wanu, chikondi, komanso nthawi, muyenera kuganizira nthawi 10 ngati mukufuna kundiuza ngati ndibwino kugawana ndi diary.
Malamulo a dona uyu akuti sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuti nthawi zonse mukhale ndi malingaliro anu enieni, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kutenga mmodzi wa interlocutor wanu. Kuti mukhale mnzanu wapatali, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungamvere.
Ngakhale atazungulira ndi achibale ake, sikuvomerezeka kuiwala za kulima ndi makhalidwe, kotero iwo amene akufuna tsiku lina kudzutsa kuchitidwa kwachikazi, chifundo, kukoma mtima, kukhala dona, ayenera kutsatira mawu awo. Kotero, "mmawa wabwino", "zikomo" ndi mawu ena adzalandiridwa bwino ndi malo alionse.
Munthu aliyense ali ndi zokonda zake, zizolowezi zake. Ngati pali chimodzi mu chipinda chomwe zochita zake zimatha kutuluka mwa iye mwini, palibe chifukwa choti apereke ndemanga. Muyenera kumudziwitsa za izi popanda kugwiritsa ntchito utoto wamalankhula.
Kodi madona enieni amadziwika bwanji malo amtundu?
Munthu ayenera kukhalabe munthu nthawi zonse. Ndikofunika kulemekeza mwaulemu osati kumalo anu okha, komanso kwa chirengedwe, choncho simungakhale ndi funso lofalitsa zinyalala m'malo omwe sizinayenere. Kusuta ? Chizoloŵezichi chiyenera kuiwalika kwathunthu. Zimatsutsana ndi kalembedwe, ndipo zimawononga thanzi la mayi weniweni.
Ngati kugonana kwabwino kumapita ndi mwamuna wake, amaloledwa kuthandizira kunyamula thumba lolemera ndi zinthu zina zamtengo wapatali, ngakhalenso thumba, ambulera, jekete liyenera kusokonezeka kuti lizinyamula.