Kunena kuti mtsikana aliyense akufuna kudziwa momwe angakhalire wangwiro ndi cholakwika. Sikuti aliyense ali wokonzeka kunena, "Inde, ndikufuna kukhala wangwiro!", Kumenyana ndi zofooka zawo komanso kupyolera mu ntchito yolimba ndikuwapangitsa kukhala olemekezeka. Zimakhala zophweka kuti asiye pa iwo ndi dzanja lanu, ndi kubisa mwachinsinsi kwa ena, kapena kumatumikira nokha. Ndipotu, mukhoza kudziona kuti simukukonda, koma ndi ndalama, osati okhwima, koma owongoka, osati ouma khosi, koma osamvera, ndi zina zotero.
Kodi mukufuna kutsenga ndani mwanjira iyi? Zovuta? Ndiye, mosakayika, mukhoza kubisala kwanu enieni nthawi ndi nthawi, koma pamene chirichonse chidziwike, mudzayenera kukhazikitsanso ubale ndi anthu.
Inunso? Inetu sindingathe kunyenga. Choncho, musakhale aulesi kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire msungwana wabwino ndikudzipangira nokha. Ngakhale ngati simukukhala angwiro, ndiye kuti mumasintha zina mwa makhalidwe anu.
Malangizo oti akhale msungwana wabwino
- Lemekezani mwamuna wanu ndi zomwe mumamukonda. Musamasekerere zokondweretsa, zochita ndi mawu ake. Ndi bwino kutsindika mobwerezabwereza kuti mumvetsetsa kuti izi ndi zofunikira bwanji pamoyo wa munthu. Kawirikawiri kubwereza kuti iye ndi wokondedwa kwa inu, kuti iye akulondola, kuti simunayambe kuchita chinthu chofunikira popanda iye (kuchokera ku crane kukonzedwa kwa ana anu okongola). Makamaka ngati pali mabwenzi, anzanu, anzanu chabe.
- Pangani kumverera kwa mwamuna kuti palibe mkazi wina yemwe angamupatse chisamaliro chomwecho, chitonthozo ndi zina, monga inu. Koma nkofunika kuti izi si mawu opanda kanthu, koma zovuta zakuthupi zakuthupi. Tiyeni tifotokoze ndi chitsanzo. Ngati nthawi zonse mumakhala oyeretsa m'nyumba, mumaphika mokoma, mumakhala wokondwa kukumana ndi munthu wochokera kuntchito, musakhale aulesi kuwonetsa kuti zonsezi zachitika kwa iye, komanso kuti mukukondwera naye. Ndipo ngati munthu abwera kunyumba ndikuwona mbale yosasamba, firiji yopanda kanthu, ndipo ngakhale mkazi wake sali panyumba, ndiye posachedwa adzatayika kufuna kubwerera kunyumba.
- Mosiyana ndi mfundo yachiwiri, tiyeni titi tiyeneranso kudziyang'anira tokha. Pezani nthawi ya ntchito zomwe mumakonda, kucheza ndi anzanu kapena anthu ena omwe mumawakonda. Ngati mutadzipereka nokha kuti mutumikire munthu ndipo mutsogoleredwa m'moyo mwazofuna zake komanso zikhalidwe zake, posachedwa iwo adzatha kuchokera mndandanda wa zofuna za munthu. Kuti mukhale abwino kwa amuna, sikokwanira kukhala ndalama ndi kusamalira, mumayenera kudziyesa nokha, kukhala ndi lingaliro lodzikonda, ndiye m'maso mwa munthu mutanthauza chinachake.
Momwe mungakhale wokongola mwangwiro?
Zimakhala zovuta kukhazikitsa uphungu wapadziko lonse wokongola kunja. Mwamuna aliyense ali ndi zokonda zake zokha, ndipo mwanjira ina sizingakhale bwino kusintha maonekedwe ake kuti akondweretse mwamuna. Pambuyo pake, munthu ali yekha lero, ndipo mawa mwina mwinamwake, ndipo musamabwezere tsitsi lanu ndikuthamangira ku nkhope ya pulasitiki, molondola?
Koma panthawi yomweyi palinso maonekedwe aakazi omwe ndi okondweretsa kwa anthu onse mosasamala. Kukonzekera. Nchiyani chomwe chikuphatikizidwa mu lingaliro ili? Izi ndizovala zangwiro (osati zowonongeka, zoyera, zapamwamba, zomwe zimakhala pa iwe bwino), manicure ndi pedicure, tsitsi loyera, losungidwa mu tsitsi, osati kutaya tsitsi, kusowa tsitsi lopanda tsitsi, thupi lopangidwa moyenera, ngakhale tsitsi. Zigawo zonsezi zimapatsidwa mosavuta kukonza ndipo, chifukwa chake, aliyense akhoza kupanga maonekedwe ake pafupi ndi abwino.
Momwe mungakhalire angwiro pa kugonana?
Ndipo mu funso la momwe mungakhalire wabwino pabedi, zimakhalanso zovuta kupereka uphungu wokhawokha. Koma zimakhala kuti amai ambiri amapanga zolakwika zomwe amuna sakonda. Choncho, timapereka zothandiza kwambiri:
- Musaiwale za ukhondo. Mwachiwonekere ngati sizinali,
koma anthu ena amakayiwala za izo. - Zomera zambiri. Pali, ndithudi, okonda tsitsi pa chiberekero chachikazi, koma gawo lawo mu misala onse a amuna ndi osayenerera.
- Kuyimira zolaula. Kulakwitsa kwakukulu pakati pa akazi. Ngati muli ndi mwamuna, ndiye kuti ndizofunikira kukhala woona mtima ndi iye, osati kudziyesa.
- Sturdiness. Kutalika kale ndi masiku omwe mkazi amayenera kusonyeza kuti kugonana sikunali kokondweretsa kwa iye, komanso kuti amapanga chikondi chifukwa cha amuna. Musaope kuwoneka ngakhale kusungunuka, chifukwa kusintha kwa moyo wa kugonana maudindo onse ndi abwino.