Kuti mugonjetse munthu amene mumamukonda, simukumbukira zokha zokhazokha, komanso gwiritsani ntchito zidule za akazi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka uphungu wonse pa momwe angakhalire ndi mnyamata amene akufuna kupambana mtima wake. Ndikofunika kuti musasewere ndikuchita mwachibadwa monga momwe mungathere, chifukwa nthawi zambiri kusayera kumamveka.
Msungwana ndi mnyamata ayenera kuchita chiyani?
Pali malingaliro othandiza omwe amagwira ntchito pachibwenzi komanso mu ubale wa nthawi yaitali. Nawa ena mwa iwo:
- Musaiwale za kukwatira. Chofunika kwambiri, kuthekera kunyenga anyamata ndi atsikana. Aliyense ali ndi zilakolako zawo, koma nthawi zambiri, atsikana amagwiritsa ntchito kuyang'ana, kukhudza milomo, kuwala kumakhudza thupi, ndi zina zotero.
- Malangizo ofunikira, momwe mungakhalire paubwenzi ndi mnyamata - mvetserani mwatcheru. Izi ndizofunikira, panthawi yoyamba yolumikizana, komanso ndi ubale wa nthawi yaitali. Anyamata amakonda kumvetsera, osasokonezeka, atachita nthawi, chifukwa, ichi ndi chizindikiro cha ulemu ndi chizindikiro cha chifundo.
- Musaiwale za kuseka. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti posankha pakati pa msungwana wachete ndi wokondwa, mnyamatayo adzasankha yekha. Ndikofunika kuseka ndi kuseka nthawi, kotero kuti kulankhulana sikusanduka chisangalalo.
- Malangizo odziwika bwino pakati pa akatswiri a maganizo a maganizo ndi momwe angakhalire kuti akondweretse mnyamata - am'thandizeni. Izi zokha ziyenera kukhala zowona komanso nthawi. Kwenikweni, anthu onse amakonda pamene amakuyamika ndikuwonetsa zabwino
- Kuyanjana kwa diso kumakhala kofunika kwambiri, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndibwino "kuzibowola" ndi mawonekedwe. Ndikofunika nthawi ndi nthawi kuti muponyedwe pamasewera achidwi, zomwe zidzakhala kwa iye chizindikiro chosonyeza kuti ndi nthawi yoti achite.
Kuyankhulana kwachinsinsi n'kofunikanso, mwachitsanzo, kukhudzidwa kosavuta, mitambo yopanda chilungamo, ndi zina zotero. Ngati mnyamata akufuna kutenga dzanja lake, simukuyenera kuchotsa, ndizowona kuti akudziwidwa ndi zizolowezi zonse.