Ambiri amatsimikiza kuti atsikana amafuna kugonana kawirikawiri ndipo kuwasangalatsa n'kovuta. Komabe, maganizo awa ndi olakwika. Kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti amayi amafunikira kugonana kwambiri, ndipo ndizovuta kuposa amuna kuti azifunsa kuti: "Ndikufuna kugonana chochita?"
Ngakhale kugonana kumachokera ku chirengedwe cha chibadwidwe, kufikira lero zakhala zikudutsa kale kuposa izi. Masiku ano, kugonana ndi njira yabwino yotsitsimutsira, chifukwa sizinthu zopanda kanthu kuti makampani ambiri akumadzulo amachita zochitika zogonana kwa antchito awo kuti apititse patsogolo ogwira ntchito. Koma ndikuyenera kuchita chiyani kwa anthu omwe atopa kwambiri ndi kuvomereza kuti: "Ndikufuna kugonana"? Chinthu chachikulu sichikutaya mtima, makamaka pali njira zingapo zomwe tidzakambirane lero.
Wokhutira
Si chinsinsi chakuti kugonana kumatha kuthetsa vutoli, lomwe limatcha dzina - "Ndikufuna kugonana nthawi zonse." Bizinesi yamakono yamakono imapatsa makasitomala ake kuchuluka kwa "zisudzo" zamitundu zosiyanasiyana zomwe zingadzisangalatse. Zoonadi, mtundu uwu wokhutira ndi wosiyana ndi kugonana kwathunthu, koma kumakuthandizani kuti muchepetse ndikumbukira kanthawi vuto lanu.
Ubale Waulere
Maubwenzi aulere ndi abwino kwambiri kwa achinyamata omwe nthawi zonse amafuna kugonana. Ngati muli mfulu ndipo mukufunadi kugonana - mudzipeze nokha (wokondedwa) usiku umodzi. Kawirikawiri, khalidwe lotere limaonedwa kuti ndi loipa, koma palibe cholakwika ndi kugonana kotetezeka, ndithudi, ndi chitetezo choyenera, ayi. Gwiritsani ntchito makondomu, ndipo molimba mtima pitani ku ulendo.
Chibwenzi pachibwenzi
Chifukwa cha intaneti, mutha kuthetsa mavuto a kugonana pogwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera, omwe ndi aakulu kwambiri pa intaneti. Malo apadera awa adakonzedwa kuti afufuze wokondana naye usiku umodzi. Chotsatira chachikulu cha kufufuza kotero ndi mwayi wosankha munthu amene akufuna kukwaniritsa zofuna za kugonana.
Zochita masewera
Njira iyi ndi yabwino kwa maanja omwe ali ndi kupatulidwa kwautali kapena kwa osakwatira omwe nthawi zambiri amafuna kugonana. Si maseĊµera omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mukhale osangalala, komanso zosangalatsa zomwe zimakupatsani zokondweretsa - nyimbo, kusambira, kuvina, etc. Izi sizidzakuthandizani kuti muzitha kupumula, komanso mudzatulutsa maganizo oipa.
Apa, mwinamwake, njira zowonjezereka zothetsera chilakolako chofuna kugonana nthawi zonse. Ndikuyembekeza tsopano, simudzatayika mutu wanu. Ndipo potsiriza ine ndikufuna kuwonjezera_yang'anani moyo wanu wokondedwa. Ndiye mavuto a chiwerewere adzakhala ochepa kwambiri ndipo zosangalatsa za kugonana ndizokulu.