Zakale, mphamvu yayikulu ya mkazi wofooka. Kukhazikitsidwa kwapadera kunapatsa oimira ufulu wogonana mwachilungamo ufulu wokhala olimba mtima ndi odziimira pawokha, kukhala ndi maudindo akuluakulu ndi amuna ndikulitsa maluso awo osati zomwe zimatchedwa "zochitika za amai". Koma bwanji, pokhala nazo zonsezi, muiwale momwe mungakopera ndi mwamuna, ndi kusiya zida zakale zoyesedwa ndi zoyesedwa? Ukazi, chikondi, kusewera - izi ndi makhalidwe ena ambiri amafotokozedwa ndi mawu a coquetry ndipo sichivulaza ngakhale amayi omwe amamasulidwa.
Kodi coquetry ndi chiyani?
Coquetry ndi njira yamoyo ndi zochita zambiri kuposa mwambo wokhazikitsidwa. Kawirikawiri, mawuwa amafotokoza khalidwe la munthu (nthawi zambiri mkazi), yemwe amayesetsa kusonyeza makhalidwe ake mwa njira yopindulitsa yekha, kukonda oyankhulana. Mzimayi yemwe ali coquette safuna kuchotsa anthu ku ntchito yawo yachikhalidwe, koma sakhala chilengedwe chosadziwika bwino komanso chosadziwika, osakhoza kuchita chilichonse muzochitika za amai.
Kulimbana ndi kujambula kusiyana kotani?
Pakati pa machitidwe achikazi omwe amachititsa kuti anthu azipusitsidwa kawirikawiri amatchedwa kukopana. Kodi kukopa ndi kosiyana ndi kotani? Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu ndikuti kukopa ndi lonjezo lokhazikika pa chinthu china, coquetry ndi njira ya moyo ndi khalidwe, palibe cholonjeza, kungodandaula ndi kukopa zomwe zingakhale. Kugwiritsa ntchito mophiphiritsira, coquetry ndi fungo lokoma la zonunkhira, lomwe limamuphimba mkaziyo nthawi zonse, kukopana ndi kukonzekera kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pa cholinga china.
Coquetry ndi zabwino kapena zoipa?
Mu nthawi yathu pali zipembedzo zambiri, machitidwe ndi mawonedwe a dziko kuti yankho losavomerezeka ku funso limeneli n'zosatheka kupereka. Ngati tiganiziranso zokopa kuchokera ku ziphunzitso zofalitsidwa kwambiri, zotsatirazi zidzapezeka:
- Zipembedzo zonse za makolo monga Islam ndi Chikhristu ndizoona kuti kukopa ndi tchimo. Mu chikhristu, malowa akugwirizanitsidwa ndi olakwika a Eva ndi lingaliro la kuyanjana kwa thupi, mu Islam - chophimba chikhoza kukhala cholungamitsidwa pokhapokha poyerekeza ndi mwamuna wake.
- Makhalidwe a umunthu ndi ziphunzitso zofanana sizikutsutsa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zokometsera, ngati izi sizikuphwanya ufulu ndi kumasuka kwa ena.
- M'maganizo amasiku ano otheka ndi maganizo, amaonedwa ngati chinthu chofunika komanso chofunikira chomwe chimakhudza moyo wa mkazi ndikuthandizira kulimbikitsa kudzidalira kwake.
Kodi mungakonde bwanji mwamuna wanu?
Anthu onse ndi osiyana kwambiri, ndipo pakadali pano palibe amene wapanga njira zamakono, sanafotokoze dongosolo la zochitika, zomwe ndi malangizo a momwe angayese kukangana ndi mnyamata, koma mfundo zingapo zikhoza kudziwika.
- Zizindikiro zofunikira zomwe zimapereka chidwi kwa ziwalo zotero za thupi ngati khosi ndi zida. Sichikhala ndi chikhalidwe chogonana chotere, monga chiwonetsero cha malo osasunthika monga chifuwa ndi matumbo ndikuwonetseranso zowonjezereka, chifundo ndi kutetezeka. Mungathe kukonza tsitsi lanu, kusewera ndi chibangili kapena kupenyetsa nsalu, kumangiriza mutu wanu panthawi yokambirana ... Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti ndi zachilengedwe komanso sizinapangidwe.
- Zosasuntha zokongola, zosowa zapadera.
- Kupezeka kwa kalembedwe ka zovala ndi kukwanitsa kupeza mgwirizano pakati pa zovala zodzichepetsa komanso zosasangalatsa, popanda kuwonongera nthawi yomweyo.
- Luso lothandizira kukambirana, kulankhula kokongola ndi kolondola , mawu okondweretsa.
- Kulemekeza ena, zikhale amuna kapena akazi.
- Kusatheka, kuthekera kusunga mtunda ndikusunga amuna osakayikira popanda kuwakankhira kutali nawo.
Kodi mungakonde bwanji mwamuna ndi makalata?
Kutchuka kwa chibwenzi kudzera pa intaneti, komwe pamsonkhano waumwini umachitika kokha ngati zakhala zikukondweretsa interlocutor kutali, zidalengedwa ndi mitundu yatsopano yachinyengo, tsopano funso la momwe mungathamangire molondola ndi makalata, ndi lofunika kwambiri. Zinaonekera kale ndipo zatsimikiziridwa njira.
- Khalani pachiyambi, koma mopanda malire. Palibe yemwe angayamikire interlocutor, wokhoza kufunsa mafunso ophweka okha, koma sikofunika ndikuyamba kuyamba kukambirana za zovuta zafilosofi.
- Modzipereka mukhale ndi chidwi ndi moyo wa interlocutor.
- Musati muthamangire, koma musapangitse kuti interlocutor akhale woyambitsa makalata.
- Lembani popanda zolakwika, yesetsani kusunga mawu ogwirizana mu mauthenga onse.
- Musakonze zolakwika za interlocutor.
- Musayesere kudzidalira nokha. Ndikulankhulana kwanu, choonadi chidzatseguka.
Kodi mungatani kuti musiye kucheza ndi aliyense?
Chilichonse chili chabwino moyenera, ndipo chokongoletsera chiyenera kuchotsedwa pambali ngati icho chikhala njira yopezera ulamuliro pa amuna oyandikana nawo kapena kupewa mkaziyo kuti asakhale moyo, kuwononga ubwenzi wake ndi munthu wamuyaya. Yankho lenileni la funso lakuti "momwe mungalekerere kukwatulidwa" silinapangidwe, koma izi sizikutanthauza khalidwe lolimba mtima molimbika komanso kukana zachikhalidwe zachikazi. Mwina muyenera kupeza nthawi yowonetserako, kusintha bwalo lolankhulana kapena funsani anzanu kuti atsatire njira yanu yolankhulirana .