Nthawiyi siinatheke pamene banja lidaonedwa kuti linangokhalapo pambuyo polembetsa kalata muofesi yoyang'anira zolembera komanso ukwati mu mpingo. Pang'onopang'ono, mwambo wa ukwatiwo unayamba kutha pa moyo wathu wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo lero lero kale kale ndi kulembetsa kalata sikumveka bwino. Mabanja ambiri, osati achinyamata okha, amaona kuti ndikwanira kukhala pamodzi ndikutsogolera banja limodzi kuti azitchedwa banja.
Ukwati Wachibadwidwe - chifukwa ndi kutsutsana
Chizoloŵezi cha chikwati cha boma chomwe tinachokera kwa anthu achi Dutch. Pamaso pa Mulungu, anthu a zikhulupiriro zosiyana sangathe kudzimangira okha pa zifukwa zina. Mabanja amenewa adalengedwa ndi chivomerezo ndi akuluakulu a boma. Lero, mwakwatibwi, timatanthauza maukwati, popanda chikhalidwe. Maganizo okwatirana ndi anthu apachiweniweni ndi amodzi, pakati pa akatswiri a maganizo ndi anthu wamba. Pofuna kuti banja likhale lokwatirana, amuna amakonda kukhala okonda. Ufulu wake, ngakhale atchulidwa, mwamunayo akuyesera kukhala womaliza. Azimayi amatha kukhala okhazikika komanso odalirika. Ndipo anthu ambiri amavomereza kuti azitha kuyanjana kuti azisunga wokondedwa wawo. Ngakhale kuti paliponse paliponse. Ndipo mu zaka zamakono za amayi azandale ndi akazi a bizinesi, zosiyana zoterezi zikukumana nazo kwambiri.
Zochita ndi Zopweteka za Chikwati Chokwatirana
Monga akunena, ndi anthu angati, malingaliro ambiri. Choncho, nkhani yothandizana ndi minuses ingapangidwe kosatha. Ufulu wa maubwenzi popanda udindo uliwonse ndipo mwayi wakuyesa malingaliro anu ndi kuvomereza pasadakhale ndibwino kwambiri. Koma mayeso akhoza kuchedwa. Panthawiyi pali katundu wothandizira, ana wamba. Anthu omwe ali pachikwati cha boma sakuona kuti ali ndi udindo waukulu kwa wina ndi mzake, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti asamakhulupirire komanso kusagwirizana kumeneku. Makamaka kwa achinyamata.
Ubwino wa ukwati waumwini ndi woonekera kwa anthu okhwima omwe apulumuka kale m'banja lalamulo, ndi kupsinjika kwa chisudzulo. Anthu oterewa, kuyamba chiyanjano chatsopano, amawopa mantha obwereza mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo kwa iwo, ukwati wa chigwirizano umaimira mwayi wachiwiri m'moyo (ndipo nthawizina wachitatu ndi wachinai ...). Pa nthawi yomweyi, kamodzi kamva kupweteka kwa kukhumudwitsidwa ndi kutayika, ndizofunikira kwambiri kulumikizana ndi ubale watsopano. Amaziyamikira iwo ndipo safuna zolimbikitsa zina mwa mawonekedwe a pasitampu. Kwa achinyamata, ukwati waumwini ndi njira yodziwirana bwino. Zambiri za maubwenzi achinyamata a nthawi yathu akuyamba, chifukwa cha chilakolako ndi chiyanjano. Chikwati chaboma chimapereka mpata wochitapo kanthu mozama kuti mudziwe ngati izi ziri chabe kukopa kwa kugonana kapena zina zambiri.
Mavuto a chikwati cha boma ndi amtundu wambiri kusiyana ndi maganizo. Ngati anthu amavomereza kuvomereza ukwati wawo kuti azidziyesa okha, ndiye kuti izi ndi zachilendo. Mabanja oterewa amachedwa kukhala ndi ana ndikupeza malo ogulitsa nyumba. Koma zonse zimachitika. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika, banja lachikhalidwe likasokonezeka, ana amakhalabe akazi, komanso chuma chofunika kwambiri kwa mwamuna. Mwachidule, zonse zimakhala "mutu wa banja."
Ubwino ndi kuipa kwa chikwati chakukwatirana zingathe kulingaliridwa kwa nthawi yaitali ndi zosiyana. Mulimonsemo, chachikulu mu chiyanjano chidzakhala chiyanjano ndi chikhulupiliro patsogolo pa wina ndi mzache. Winawake amatha mwezi umodzi pambuyo pa kulembedwa kwa boma, ndipo wina amakhala mosangalala muukwati ndi kubweretsa ana angapo.