Maloto ndi njira yachifumu yopita kuchidziwitso, monga momwe katswiri wa maganizo a ku Austria ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Z. Freud adanenera. Anthu akale ankakhulupirira kuti mu maloto moyo umayenda, umawuzana ndi miyoyo ya anthu ena, nyama. Chinthu chirichonse kapena chinthu chomwe chinawonedwa mu loto chiri ndi tanthauzo lopatulika. Kodi buku ili kapena buku lotolo likutanthauza chiyani, kamba mumaloto - kodi lotoli limatanthauza chiyani?
Nchifukwa chiyani kamba ikulota za mkazi?
Nkhumba ndi nyama yachilendo. Chizindikiro cha nzeru ndi kupanga pang'onopang'ono kupanga chisankho. Kodi turtle ingapereke chiyani m'maloto kwa amayi? Osati zizindikiro zonse ndi matanthauzo awo akugona pamwamba. Kuti mumvetse maloto, ndi bwino kuganizira mfundo izi:
- malingaliro onse ogona (nkhawa, chimwemwe, chisoni, kudabwa, mkwiyo);
- ndi chiwerengero chotani chomwe chinalipo mu malotowo.
Kotero, bukhu ili kapena buku lotolo likuti chiyani: kamba yomwe yalota za mkazi, chifukwa chiani:
- Kukhazikika, koma kukakamiza kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu;
- ngati mkazi ati akwatiwe ndipo kamba yamalota, ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino kunena kuti ali ndi tsogolo labwino ndi losangalatsa ndi osankhidwa ake;
- chochitika chosadabwitsa chomwe chidzakupatsani chisangalalo;
- mu bukhu la maloto kwa ntchentche, maloto okhudza kachulukidwe ka kamba kuntchito, kutuluka kwa malingaliro atsopano opanga, omwe mungayembekezere kuwonjezera;
- Buku la Chinese lotolo limalongosola kwa mayi yemwe adawona mu loto kamba - malo apamwamba.
Nchifukwa chiyani maloto aakulu a kamba?
Nkhumba yamoto, ndi zina zambiri pamtunda: moyo umadutsa. Chinachake chachikulu chimanyalanyazidwa, ndibwino kumvetsera. Maloto kutanthauzira - kamba wamkulu mukutanthauzira kosiyana:
- Nkhani yosangalatsa yomwe idzachitike posachedwa ndikulimbikitsanso chikhulupiriro chanu.
- mu bukhu la loto la Simon wa Cananite, chivomezi chachikulu chimakhala moyo wautali, wokondwa;
- Buku la Gypsy dream: lalikulu tortoise ndi chizindikiro cha kuchedwa ndi kuchedwa mu njira;
- kwa anthu a pabanja - kuphatikiza m'banjamo, nkhumba yaikulu ikufanana ndi maloto okhudza nsomba (kutenga pakati, kubadwa, kubereka);
- kwa bwana wamalonda, maloto okhudza chivomezi chachikulu, chomwe chonse mumatope chimayambitsa mavuto ena ndi ochita mpikisano.
Nchifukwa chiyani mazunzo ambiri amalota?
Maloto ndi nyama zonyansa zimadabwitsa, makamaka pamene munthu wamoyo sanagonepo ndi nyama zotere, kotero zimakhala zokondweretsa nthawi zonse kudziŵa chomwe chidziwitsochi chimafuna kunena kudzera mwa zizindikiro izi kwa wopota. Ngati mutayang'ana m'buku la malotowo, nkhumba zambiri zikadota - zikhoza kutanthauza:
- kugona pa ntchito, kumene kuli ntchito zambiri, ndipo munthuyo amawachita mopepuka ndi pang'onopang'ono;
- pakuti mtsikanayo malotowo, kumene nkhumba zambiri zimaganiziridwa, zikuyimira nthawi yofulumira yodzazidwa ndi zochitika zosangalatsa;
- Freud amatanthauzira malotowo, komwe kuli nkhanza zambiri, monga vuto, za zovuta za wolota ndi kusadziŵa kwake za kugonana kwake;
- Mavuto akale amachitidwa ndipo amachititsa kuti mkangano ukayambe ngati nkhumba zambiri zimalota zosambira m'madzi ovuta.
Nchifukwa chiyani nkhumba zing'onozing'ono zikulota?
Nkhuta zing'onozing'ono ndi zolengedwa zokongola, koma m'maloto, pamene pali zambiri, zimatha kukhala ndi nthawi yaitali yodikira, pamene palibe chimene chingathe kuchitika ndipo ndikofunikira kuleza mtima. Palinso matanthauzo ena:
- Monga momwe buku la lotolo limanenera, kamba kakang'ono ka Felomeni kamatanthauza kukula kwa ntchito , kusintha ndi mphatso zabwino;
- Dream Folk: kamba kakang'ono mu maloto amalonjeza mkazi kukhala ndi mimba yayitali.
Nchifukwa chiyani katoto imalota za madzi?
Nkhumba ndi nyama yomwe zinthu ziwiri zimagonjetsedwa: madzi ndi nthaka. Kodi chiphuphu chimalota chiyani mwa mkazi kapena mwamuna:
- kuwona mu loto kamba, kamene kamangoyenda bwino mumadzi - chizindikiro chokometsera, chomwe chimati nthawi ya kukwaniritsidwa kwa zikhumbo ndi zikhumbo zafika, zonse zomwe zakhala zikuloledwa kwa nthawi yaitali - zidzakwaniritsidwa;
- Ntchentche yoyandama m'madzi ozizira amasonyeza kuti mwamsanga kulipira phindu lalikulu:
- kamba ikulowetsa m'madzi a matope - ntchitoyo siidzabweretsa zotsatira zomwe zidzayembekezeke ndipo idzaphatikizapo ndalama zina;
- kamba yayikulu ikuyandama mu chitsime pafupi ndi nyumba ya wolota akulosera moyo wochuluka ndi malo apamwamba m'madera.
Nchifukwa chiyani thambo lakufa limalota?
Pamene malotowo akulota akufa, kaya anthu kapena nyama - nthawi zonse zimayambitsa nkhawa ndi zosasangalatsa pamene akuwuka. Mkhalidwe wa kuyembekezera kopanda pake ndi funso: chifukwa chiani chinachitika? Kodi akufa amatha bwanji m'maloto amatanthauza mkazi:
- kupha kamba - ku mavuto akuluakulu azaumoyo ku mavuto aakulu mu bizinesi, ntchito;
- mu bukhu la loto kuchokera ku A mpaka Z - thumba lakufa limalonjeza kupatukana ndi wokondedwa;
- Buku lodziwika bwino la loto la intaneti limalongosola maloto okhudza nkhumba yakufa monga kufunikira kuyang'ana zenizeni zomwe zikuchitika panopa, chinachake chakhala chosatha ndipo ndikofunika kubwereza zomwe zakhala zikuchitika;
- kamba yakufa - mwayi wosawonongeka ndi kukhumba kwakukulu kwa zakale, pamene chirichonse chikanakhoza kuchitika mwinamwake.
Bwanji ndikulota kudyetsa kamba?
Kudyetsa nyama nthawi zonse kumakhala kosangalatsa, ngakhale m'maloto, koma nthawi zina, kumawoneka ngati okongola poyamba, maloto amachitidwa ngati osakondweretsa. Kwa maloto otero kudyetsa kamba kumakhudzanso nkhawa. Kuti muwone m'maloto chiphuphu chomwe chimadya kuchokera m'manja kapena wolota chimapereka chakudya kwa iye - chimanena kuti kwenikweni munthu amathandiza anthu olakwika, ndipo amene akusowa thandizo, amanyalanyazidwa. Mu chikhalidwe cha wolota, pali munthu yemwe amangogwiritsa ntchito chithandizo, popanda kupereka chirichonse pobwezera.
Nchifukwa chiyani kamba popanda chipolopolo?
Kutetezeka ndi mawu ofunika kwambiri ogona, momwe chiphuphu chopanda zida chikuwonekera. Kodi malotowo amamasuliridwa motani m'mabuku osiyanasiyana a loto?
- nthawi yomwe wolota alibe chitetezo motsutsana ndi okondana, ochita mpikisano, otheka adani, ndipo apa pali malangizo amodzi - kukhalabe obisala kwa kanthawi ndipo osasonyeza kuti alibe thandizo;
- Ngati mutsegula bukhu la loto, chiphuphu chopanda chipolopolo chimasonyeza kuwonongeka kwa mphamvu ndi thupi, munthu amene walota maloto oterewa pambali pa kuwonongeka kwamanjenje akulimbikitsidwa kuti apumule ndi kupeza mphamvu;
- monga bukhu lotolo, loto lalikulu popanda chipolopolo limachenjeza za mavuto aakulu posachedwa komanso mosayembekezereka kuyembekezera zoopsa, zikhoza kuganiza kuti munthu ali pachiopsezo chifukwa cha moyo.
Bwanji ndikulota kuti mupeze kamba?
Kodi kamba mumaloto amene akuyesera kuthawa, koma munthu amapeza ndikugwira, chifukwa kwenikweni kamba sivuta kugwira chifukwa cha kuchepa kwake. Malotowa ali ndi maonekedwe ambiri ndipo ndi za mgwirizano pakati pa anthu:
- kamba yomwe inagwidwa m'maloto ndi munthu wamalonda, wogulitsa malonda, wochita masewera olimbitsa mabuku m'buku la Yu. Longo akunena kuti apambane polimbana ndi otsutsa ndi mpikisano, mphamvu ndi mwayi pambali ya wolota;
- ngati malotowo akulota okondedwa awo, ndiye kuti amadzutsa yemwe adalota kuthawa ndipo amayesetsa kuigwira sichilonjeza chirichonse mu chiyanjano chomwe chili chokomera, osamamatirana ndi mnzanuyo;
- Gwirani kamba - chizindikiro chochititsa mantha kuti munthu wapafupi akhoza kufa mwadzidzidzi.
N'chifukwa chiyani kamba ikuluma?
Kukwapula kwa nyama mu maloto nthawi zonse ndi chizindikiro cha ngozi kapena mavuto omwe munthu sakonda kuti asazindikire. Maloto oterewa amapangidwa kuti amve chidwi cha munthu ku vuto lomwe liripo kapena anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi omwe angayang'anire ngozi kapena chinyengo. Kodi maloto a kadzidzi akulota pa:
- Kodi kutanthauzira kotani kumapereka bukhu lotolo "lotowa" - pali abwenzi kapena okondedwa omwe akusangalala ndi chidaliro, koma pamapeto pake adzalowe m'malo mwake;
- zolinga za munthu siziloledwa kukwaniritsidwa, padzakhala zosokoneza;
- Nkhanza zaukali ndi ululu - malotowo amachenjeza za mayesero amphamvu, omwe angakhale ovuta kuwatsutsa, ndikofunikira kukhala ozizira kwambiri komanso osagonjetsedwa ndi mavuto.