Zizindikiro za munthu wachikondi

Mkazi aliyense pa dziko lapansi (osadziŵa ngakhale kuyambira m'badwo wa sukulu) maloto kuti angakondedwa kwambiri ndi mwamuna weniweni. Ndipo pamene nthawi yakukwaniritsa chikhumbocho ibwera, akazi "akuganiza ndi daisy": okonda - sakonda, akhulupirira - samakhulupirira ...

Kwa zobisika ndikutanthawuza kumverera kwa anthu, chikondi ndi kwambiri kwambiri! Amayi okondeka, yesani kuyamikira. Koma komabe, ndi mbali ziti zapadera zomwe mungamuzindikire mwamuna wokondana, komabe osasokoneza ndi chikondi cha bannel?

Zizindikiro za chikondi chachimuna

Choyamba, onetsetsani kuti khalidwe lake kwa mkazi wokondedwa limasintha kwambiri, ndipo ambiri kunja angapeze (khalidwe) ngakhale zachilendo. Mu maphunzirowo ndizochinyengo zonse zachinyengo! Kuyambira ndi chidwi chowonjezeka ndi kutha ndi zochitika zoopsa. Paunyamata zonse ziri zophweka kwambiri - maganizo ndi "ndodo" kunja, kotero zizindikiro za chikondi cha mtsikana kwa mtsikana zikhoza kuoneka ndi maso. Kupsompsona ku paki pa benchi, mauthenga a foni opanda malire, masewera ofewa ngati mphatso tsiku ndi tsiku - zizindikiro zonsezi zimayankhula za chikondi cha mnyamata. Ngati mtsikana amakonda mtsikana, abwenzi ake onse adziŵa, adzalankhula momasuka za momwe aliri wodabwitsa komanso wodabwitsa. Achinyamata onse okondedwa ndi oproverts! Mwinamwake, ngati bwenzi lanu ali kale sabata yachiwiri popanda kusangalala komanso osagona usiku, mukudziwa - ichi ndi chizindikiro choyamba cha chikondi chosagonjetsedwa, ndiko kuti, mnyamatayo sanalandire maganizo.

Amuna okhwima maganizo pankhani za chikondi ali odziwa zambiri komanso osamala. Kufuula pa ngodya iliyonse za chikondi chawo, sichidzatero, koma muvi wa Amurchik mu mtima mwinamwake umakhudza khalidwe la munthu.

Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu za chikondi cha mwamuna kwa mkazi ndi kukopa kwa chiwerewere. Osangosokoneza chikoka ichi ndi chizolowezi chosavuta. Mu chikhalidwe cha kugwa mu chikondi, mwamuna nthawi zambiri amaganiza momwe iye ali wokondedwa wake okondedwa, momwe izo zimamupatsira iye kukondwera. Izi ndi zachibadwa, chifukwa chilakolako cha kugonana ndi chinthu cholemekezeka ndicho chachikulu, komabe si chizindikiro choyamba cha chikondi. Chirichonse chimadalira pa munthu, mmalo mwa mtundu wake wa chikhalidwe, mlingo wokhala wodzidalira. Mwina pachiyambi, akufuna kungokhala pafupi, ndipo ngati n'koyenera, perekani chithandizo ndi chithandizo.

Tiyeni tisonyeze zizindikiro zazikulu khumi za mwamuna m'chikondi:

1. Kwa iye pakali pano pali mkazi mmodzi yekha padziko lapansi - wokondedwa.
2. Iye akufuna kuti azigwiritsa ntchito zambiri, kapena m'malo mwake nthawi yake yonse yaulere pafupi ndi mkazi wa maloto ake.
3. Afuna kumusangalatsa. Chifukwa cha ichi, mwamuna ali wokonzeka kusintha fano lake, amatsatira maonekedwe ake, makhalidwe ake, zizoloŵezi.
4. Mwamuna amasamalira nkhani ya chilakolako chake. Wokonda amachita khama kwambiri kuti apindule moyo wa wokondedwa wake, amayesetsa kuthetsa mavuto ake.
5. Amayamba kuganizira za tsogolo lofanana. Maganizo amenewa nthawi zambiri amakakamiza munthu kuti akule ntchito, kufunafuna ndalama zina.
6. Mkazi wokondeka amatenga pafupifupi malingaliro onse a amuna. Iye amaganiza za izo ndi mu chisokonezo cha ntchito ndi panyumba kukhala chete.
7. Kwa munthu zimakhala zovuta kuti abwenzi adziyamikila wosankhidwa wake. Nthawi zonse amawauza za momwe iye aliri, wokongola komanso waluso ...
8. Munthu wokondedwa amasangalala kumalo ake. Chikhumbo chokhala pakhomo pokha, kukhala pa "kompyuta" kumakhala kumbuyo. Komanso m'nyumba mwake amawoneka zina mwazinthu zake - dothi la mano, chowuma tsitsi (zomwe sizikuvomerezeka mosiyana).
9. Chifukwa cha mkazi, mwamuna akhoza kusiya zochita zodzikongoletsa, zosangalatsa, nthawi yocheza nthawi ndi abwenzi.
10. Mwamuna yemwe ali mu chikondi, nthawizonse mumzimu, "amayatsa" maso ake. Amadzimva yekha kukhala munthu wokondwa kwambiri!

Kusakhala kwa zizindikiro zina sikukutanthauza kuti palibe chikondi cha amuna, chifukwa munthu akhoza kukhala wodzichepetsa kapena kuganizira mfundo zofunika kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mwinamwake sapereka maluwa tsiku lililonse ndipo samakhala naye nthawi, koma Iye ndi wokonzeka kuthandizira pa nthawi iliyonse.

Zochita ndi zokongola kwambiri kusiyana ndi mawu zikwi ... Ngati mkazi ali ndi chidwi chenicheni cha momwe mwamuna amamukondera, poyamba choyenera kuyang'anitsitsa zinthu zazing'ono m'makhalidwe ake. Akatswiri a sayansi akhala atatsimikizira kuti thupi silingathe kunama, kotero zizindikiro zosalankhula zidzamveketsa momveka bwino za chikondi cha mwamuna kwa mkazi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwamuna amanyalanyaza mkazi pamaso pa anthu ena, koma nthawi zonse ali ndi mpata woti ayesetse kukhala pafupi naye, ndiye kuti amur amagwira ntchito pano. Ndipo komabe, mvetserani mtima wanu ndipo muzimvetsera ena - mwadzidzidzi munthu wina kwa miyezi yambiri akuyembekezera mosavuta kugwirizana kuti abwerere kumverera.