Zizindikiro za kukhumudwa

Pa mau oti "kudziletsa" ambiri adzalingalira zoopsya zosawonetsera mafilimu omwe ansembe amapitikitsa satana kuchokera kwa atsikana aang'ono ovala tsitsi. Koma kudziletsa kosavuta kumakhala kofala ndipo nthawi zonse sikuwoneka koopsa. Zokakamiza zimatha kutchulidwa kuti munthu yemwe mutu wake umapita kuntchito, mwamakani amayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zake, maloto ake kapena chinachake.

Munthu sangatsutsane ndi mfundo yakuti palinso nthendayi yowonongeka, yomwe imadziwonekera m'maganizo okhudzana ndi chinthu chomwecho. Koma mndandanda wabwino wa kukhumudwa ukhoza kuganiziridwa ndi zomwe munthu ali wokonzeka kuchita kuti akwaniritse yekha, ndi nsembe zotani zomwe angapange. Ngati izi ziri zomveka, sizikuvulaza ena ndipo sizikusokoneza kwambiri moyo wa munthuyo, ndiye palibe chifukwa chodandaula. Apo ayi ndizofunika kwambiri kukaonana ndi dokotala, chifukwa zina zovuta zitha kukhala zoopsa kwambiri.

Kusamala ndi lingaliro

Kuchitika kawirikawiri. Ndani mwa ife sanapeze momwe lingaliro lina lokhazikitsidwa pamutu ndi kulichotsa liri lovuta kwambiri. M'mawu ophweka, angakhale nyimbo yokonda kwambiri kapena maloto a ayisikilimu panthawi ya matenda. Maganizo ovuta kwambiri angakhudze ntchito yatsopano kapena kuganizira momwe angakonzekerere munthu wotsika mtengo. Koma izi ndi zosiyana poyerekezera ndi momwe maganizo akugwiritsira ntchito opanga zinthu ndi opanga nzeru. Mwachitsanzo, Ford adatha zaka zambiri akukonza galimoto yoyamba, ndipo palibe amene adakhulupirira kuti kupambana kwake kudzapambana, kupatula mkazi wake.

Chikondi ndi chovuta ndi munthu wina

Pamene tigwera m'chikondi, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zobvuta kusokoneza ku chinthu chopembedzera, zimatengera malingaliro onse, malingaliro onse akugwirizana nawo. Kawirikawiri, vutoli limapitirira ndi nthawi, ndikupereka njira zowonjezera. Koma nthawi zina zimakhala mania weniweni ndipo zingabweretse mavuto ambiri kwa onse okonda ndi chikondi, makamaka ngati malingalirowo sakugwirizana.

Kukondana kapena kugonana kumasonyezedwa mu kufufuza kwanthawi zonse njira zokhutiritsa zosowa za kugonana. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimatengera njira zolakwika, chifukwa pofufuza zokhudzidwa zatsopano zimakhala zovuta kukhala m'malire a zomwe zimaloledwa.

Kusamala ndi imfa

Masiku ano, kulankhula moona mtima, kumawonongeka ndi mwayi wambiri kuti mupeze zatsopano. Wina ndi wochepa mokwanira, wina alibe nthawi yakuyesa chirichonse panthawi ya moyo, koma kwa wina aliyense zosiyanasiyana sikokwanira. Kenaka munthu amayamba kusewera ndi imfa kuti akondwere. M'kati mwa masewerawa ndi masewera oopsa, zosangalatsa zowopsya komanso zochita zamisala.

Kodi mungachotse bwanji vutoli?

Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwagwirapo lingaliro lanu ndipo izi zimasokoneza kwambiri moyo wanu, ntchito ndi maubwenzi, ndiye simungathe kuchita popanda kukonza maganizo. Ndibwino kuti mukumane ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, amasonyeza njira zoyenera zolimbirana kapena, ngati n'koyenera, adzakutumizirani kwa katswiri wina.

Kodi pemphero lingakhale lothandiza ngati chitetezo choletsa kukhumudwa? Momwemo, inde, ngati simugonjera mosakayikitsa ndikuika moyo wanu mmenemo.