Bwanji ngati mwamuna akunama?

Powona kuti anthu ndi osowa nkhani, palibe chifukwa chothandizira aliyense, ichi ndi chokhazikitsidwa kale. Koma ndi chinthu chimodzi choti mulankhule nkhani kwa mwana musanagone kapena kupitirira kukula kwa nsomba, ndi zina - kuti muzinyenga okondedwa anu nthawi zonse. Zimakhala zovuta kukhala ndi munthu woteroyo, chifukwa banja limangidalira makamaka kukhulupilira. Koma bwanji ngati mwamuna akugona nthawi zonse, choti achite?

N'chifukwa chiyani mwamuna nthawi zonse amama?

Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ngati mwamuna wanu amakuuzani nthawi zonse ndikuyesera kumvetsa chifukwa cha khalidweli. Mwina (ndipo nthawi zambiri osati zomwe zimachitika), chifukwa cha khalidwe ili ndiwe wekha.

1. Mwamunayo amayamba kunyenga, kuti asatengeke m'mavuto. Mwachitsanzo, mkazi nthawi zonse "amamuwona" chifukwa cha kuchedwa kuntchito, kukomana ndi abwenzi komanso makhalidwe ena oipa.
2. Kawirikawiri amuna amanama chifukwa safuna kutikhumudwitsa. Izi ndi mayankho a mafunso okhudza mawonekedwe athu, kutha kuphika ndi kusunga nyumba.
3. Chinyengo choyambirira ndi "tiyeni tikambirane za mawa mawa." Zotsatira zoopa, abambo amasiya kukambirana "kwa nthawi ina", kuyembekezera milandu yofulumira yomwe silingalole kuti adziwe mgwirizanowo.
4. Chikhumbo chakunama chikuwoneka pa munthu yemwe wayamba kukula kuzizira kwa mayi wa mtima. Mwinamwake iye amangomuzunza iye ndi kuyitana nthawizonse ndi mafunso, komwe iye anali, ndi zomwe iye anachita.
5. Otsutsa odwala matendawa omwe amakonda kulemba nkhani za iwo okha ndipo sangakhale moyo mosiyana. Iyi ndiyo nkhani yokhayo pamene mkazi sakhudzidwa ndi khalidwe ili la mwamuna wake.

Kodi mungakhumudwitse bwanji mwamuna kuti aname?

Mwachibadwa, pozindikira mwa wokondedwa wathu chizoloŵezi chotere, timakonda kufunafuna njira zowonetsera mwamuna kuti aname. Koma, nthawi zambiri, sikoyenera kumenyana ndi wabodza, koma ndi maganizo anu kwa iye ndi zochita zake.

1. Kodi mukuganiza kuti mwamuna wake amachita chinachake cholakwika? Choncho lankhulani naye, fotokozani maganizo anu, mvetserani ndipo mupeze njira yothetsera vutoli. Kunena kuti: "Iwe ukulakwitsa, sindikufuna kumvetsera chilichonse," ndi zopusa komanso zopanda phindu.
2. Lekani kuyang'anitsitsa moyo wa wina. Chikondi ndi chabwino, koma aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi ufulu ku malo ake enieni.
3. Ena pafunsoli: "Chochita ngati mwamuna wabodza" - akufuna kulangiza miyambo "matsenga". Palinso chiwembu chomwe mwamuna wake samanama. Kuzigwiritsa ntchito muzochita sizothandiza - sizimagwira ntchito pokhapokha mutakhala ndi chikhulupiriro chanu chozizwitsa, ndipo mumakhala ndi nthawi yong'ung'uza zopanda phindu, mmalo mopulumutsidwa. Chabwino, ngati chiwembu chikugwira ntchito, zidzakhala zovuta kwa mwamuna wanu, mpaka matenda aakulu pamene iye ayesera kunama. Kodi mukufunadi munthu woteroyo?

Amayi ambiri amafunsa mafunso: "Mmene mungadziwire bodza la mwamuna, kumvetsa kuti akunama" - koma kodi mukufunikira luso limeneli? Kuwona mtima mu ubale ndikofunikira, koma kukhulupilika kwathunthu sikungatheke - kumverera kochititsa mantha kwambiri sikumaphatikizapo kudziwika kwa mkazi ndi mwamuna pamodzi, kukwatirana ndi ntchito yamba, osati kuphatikiza.