Chiwonetsero

Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi m'malingaliro ndi lingaliro lomwe limatsimikizira kukongola kwa munthu mmodzi, kumalo komweko. Mwa mawu osavuta, ichi ndicho chifundo chomwe chimachitika pakati pa anthu. Ngakhale kuti zikuoneka kuti kumverera kumeneku kumawonekera mosiyana, pali malamulo ena a kukopa, omwe akhala akugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi akatswiri ochokera ku malonda, malonda, malingaliro a maganizo ndi ena ambiri. Lingaliro la kukopeka silikutchedwanso kuti ndi lopanda malire lingaliro - limagwiritsidwa ntchito kulikonse.

Njira zamaganizo zokongola

Kuti tipeze ubwino wa munthu, ndikwanira kuti tigwiritse ntchito njira zokopa. Amene amadziwa bwino buku la Dale Carnegie la momwe Mungapambulitsire Anzanu ndi Kukhudzidwa Anthu amatha kuona njira zambiri zomwe zimadziwika bwino. Taganizirani izi:

1. "Dzina lanu." Palibe mawu mu dziko amamveka ngati munthu wokondweretsa monga dzina lake, choncho nthawi zambiri amamutcha dzina lake. Kaya ndi wogula kapena wogwira ntchito pa kampani, kapena wina wa anansi anu - aliyense adzasangalala ngati mukanena hello ndikuwatchula mayina.
2. Kutalikirana. Pali mtunda umene tingalole kuti anthu - omwe ali pafupi - atha kuyima kumbuyo, koma ngati bwenzi latsopano likuchita mofananamo, lidzasungira chakukhosi. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa malire awa, kuti muwamvere komanso kuti musadutse chigawo cha malo oyandikana nawo.
3. "Malo okonzera malo". Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti ndi bwino kukhala pambali pa wina ndi mzake, ngati muli pamlingo womwewo - izi zidzachotsa nkhanza zosafunikira. Koma abwana ndi akuluakulu nthawi zambiri amatsutsana.
4. Mirror ya Moyo. Khalani ansangala, kumwetulira, kutseguka, yang'anani m'maso anu, koma popanda kukangana.
5. "Mawu okongola." Kodi kutamandidwa kwa mnzanuyo, kuthandizira kusankha kwake, kuvomereza ndi zosankha zake.
6. "Womvera woleza mtima." Ngati mnzanuyo akufunikira kulankhula, muloleni achite zimenezo, kungogwedeza ndi kumuyang'ana kuti amvetse kuti mumamvetsa bwino.
7. "Manja". Pali mabuku ambiri omwe amakuphunzitsani kuŵerenga manja ndi nkhope pamaso molondola, kugawaniza mawu onsewa osagwiritsa ntchito mawu ndi abwino, ndipo phunzitsani mmene mungasindikizire mwatsatanetsatane zizindikiro zabwino, potero mumapweteka. Pa msinkhu woyambirira, ndikwanira kungofanizira manjawo, koma osazindikira.
8. "Moyo waumwini". Khalani ndi chidwi pa moyo wa munthu, kumbukirani mawu aliwonse komanso pamisonkhano yotsatira, muzikhala ndi chidwi ndi momwe msuweni wa mwana wake aliri kapena ngati agalu ake adachira. Maganizo oterewa sangawathandize.

Njira zokopa zokongolazi zidzakuthandizani kuti muzitha kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino ndi timu, makasitomala, bwana, komanso anthu amene mumafuna kupeza anzanu.

Mitundu ya kukopa

Makhalidwe a zokopa ndi osiyana, kuyambira osaya kwambiri mpaka akuya. Tiyeni tione kaye poyamba:

1. Chifundo. Chikoka ichi chimachitika pachiyambi cha kulankhulana ndikupanga kukongola kwa thupi, chikhalidwe cha anthu, zizindikiro za chikhalidwe cha anthu, ndi zina. Izi zimakhudzidwa mtima ndi "chigoba" chomwe munthu amavala.
2. Chikondi. Maganizo amenewa ali ndi kugonana, akugwirizana ndi chisangalalo, koma amapita mofulumira (mpaka zaka ziwiri). Izi ndizolakwika chifukwa cha chikondi poyamba. Izi ndizochitapo kanthu ku khalidwe labwino, mwangozi wa umunthu ndi zina zabwino. Panthawi imeneyi munthu amawoneka bwino, pambuyo pake amamva zokhumudwa, mwachitsanzo, Chikondi ndikumverera chifukwa chabwino, osati munthu weniweni.
3. Chikondi. Zimayambira pamaziko a zokambirana, zomwe zimapangitsa kukondana wina ndi mzake.

Izi ndizomwe zimakhala zapamwamba kwambiri, koma pamagulu akuluakulu akhoza kuganiziranso malingaliro monga chikondi ndi kudalira munthu.