Ndondomeko zokhudzana ndi kugonana zimatchuka ndi amayi omwe ali ofunitsitsa kuchita zambiri kuti akope munthu amene amamukonda. Cholinga chawo chachikulu ndikutentha chilakolako ndi chilakolako cha munthu wina. Zotsatira zamatsenga zotero zili ndi ubwino wina. Choyamba, pafupifupi miyambo yonse ndi yophweka ndipo aliyense angathe kuchita nawo. Chachiwiri, ziwembu zimagwira mwamsanga ndipo zimapereka zotsatira zabwino. Kuonjezerapo, tiyenera kutchula kuti palibe zotsatira zoopsa.
Chiwembu cha chikondi ndi kugonana pa zovala
Msonkhano umenewu ndi woyenera kuti pakhale pali mwayi wopembedzedwa ndi zinthu zake. Ndikofunika kutenga shati ndikusamba ndi manja anu. Panthawi imeneyi, munthu ayenera kuganizira nthawi zonse kukhala pafupi ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pamapeto pa ndondomekoyi, chinthucho chiyenera kuuma ndipo ndibwino kuchichita pamoto, mwachitsanzo, mungagwiritse ntchito chitofu kapena, ngati mwadzidzidzi, makandulo angapo. Mukamayanika, muyenera kunena kuti:
"Youma, yowuma, malaya, mpaka zonse zouma. Mbuye wanu (kutchula dzina lake) aphunzitseni kuuma ndi chilakolako ndi chikondi (tchulani dzina lake). "
Pambuyo pake, shati imayenera kuvala ndi kufanana ndi iyo kwa kanthawi. Ndiye bweretsani zovala kwa munthuyo.
Kukonzekera kugonana ndi mchere
Ichi ndi mwambo wamphamvu, womwe ungagwiritsidwe ntchito ngakhale pamene panalibe mgwirizano wapakati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Kwa iye, muyenera kukonzekera chithunzi chatsopano, mchere ndi madzi. Malangizo ofunikira - sankhani chithunzi chomwe munthuyo ali yekha ndipo chikuwonetsedwa pafupi. Tengani msuzi wamba ndikuwongolera madontho asanu ndi awiri a madzi, ndikuwatsanulira, mchere wa zhmenyu, kuti:
"Mcherewu umathiriridwa bwanji, momwe madzi amadzipezera kutali popanda tsatanetsatane,
Kotero wokondedwa wanga, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) la ine, wantchito wa Mulungu (dzina)
Inde, sadzapuma kufikira atanditenga. Amen! "
Mawu ayenera kubwerezedwa katatu. Pambuyo pake, mchere mu chithunzi ndikugawira molondola pa chithunzi. Chotsani chithunzicho limodzi ndi mchere mpaka zotsatira zomwe mukuzifuna zitheke.
Kukonzekera kugonana ndi mwamuna wake
Mwambo wosavuta udzabwezeretsa chilakolako choyamba pakati pa mabanja ndi chikondi chobwerera. Chikhalidwe chofunikira - kugwiritsa ntchito chiwembuchi ndi kotheka ngati awiriwo asasinthidwe, mwinamwake m'pofunika kuyembekezera mavuto omwe adzathetsa chisudzulo. Mchitidwewu umachitika mwezi wathunthu kapena mwezi ukukula panthawi yogonana. Wokondedwayo akafika pamalo okondwera kwambiri, nkofunika kumamatira mwamphamvu kwa wokondedwayo ndi kunena chiwembu chotere:
"Kodi chikondi chanu chimayenda bwanji mwa ine?
Kotero ine ndilowa mu mtima mwamuyaya
Ine ndikubwera ndikudzaza izo ku brim
Ndipo simungaganizire za wina aliyense! "
Choyenera, ngati onse okondedwa amasangalala ndi kugonana. Ndikoyenera kubwereza mwambo katatu. Akatswiri amakhulupirira kuti chiwembuchi chidzathandiza kuchepetsa chiopsezo cha matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso kulimbitsa mgwirizano.
Cholinga chachikulu chogonana kuti akope mkazi
Mwambo umenewu umathandiza kukopa munthu amene ali ndi mphamvu. Pitani kunja kwa nyengo yamphepo ndipo nenani mawu awa:
"Ambuye, thandizo, Ambuye, dalitsani. Ambuye, kwa mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) awaza madzi opatulika pa chilakolako chauchidakwa kuti awaza! Ana a Herode, taimirira, imani, gwedezani zokhotakhota, kuchokera kumagombe, kuchokera ku zala zazing'ono zolakalaka ndi zowonongeka, kukhumba kwambiri ndi chikondi chakuyaka. Gwedeza mtima wake, kugwedeza magazi ake, kuyendetsa chilakolako chake mu thupi lake ndi kukhumba molingana ndi thupi langa. Kuti agone, iye sanagone, tsiku lopweteka la tsiku linazunzidwa chifukwa cha ine, chifukwa cha mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina). Chinsinsi, lolo, lirime. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Bwerezani chiwembu katatu. Zotsatira za mwambo zikhoza kuzindikiridwa patapita kanthawi kochepa.
Chida champhamvu chogonana
Chikondi ichi chiyenera kuchitika pa Mwezi wochuluka. Pa mwambo, konzani kandulo yofiira, yanuyo ndi chithunzi cha wokondedwa, ndipo zithunzi ziyenera kukhala zatsopano komanso zodzaza.
Ikani kandulo pa tebulo, ikani kuwala ndikuyika chithunzi cha chinthu chopembedza pafupi ndi icho. Pambuyo pake, yambani kulingalira momwe munthu amamvera mumtima mwako. Kenaka tengani chithunzi chanu ndipo muyang'ane mwamsanga. Gawo lotsatila - ganizirani momwe mumamvera ndi okondedwa anu. Chinthu china ndi kuganizira kugonana komweko. Pambuyo pake, pindani zithunzizo maso ndi maso ndipo nenani chiwembu:
"Monga stallion ndi wachinyamata komanso wosasunthika kuchoka pamoto woyaka moto, kavalo amakhudza mmodzi ndi mmodzi, kotero iwe (dzina) umamva mphamvu ya munthu, tambasula kwa ine, usadziwe kupumula,
Ingopusitsidwa kwa ine, ndipatseni chimwemwe chogonana. Pamene zithunzi zogwirizana, mawu a chiwembu analankhula, kotero adatigwirizanitsa kwamuyaya.
Chotsani chikondi, chilakolako cha kugonana. Ndipo usana ndi usiku, tsiku lonse.
Choncho zikhale choncho. "
Tikulimbikitsanso kubwereza mau pamene mwezi ukukula, umene ungangowonjezera chiwembucho. Pa tsiku lotsiriza kandulo iyenera kuchotsedwa kwathunthu.
Kukonzekera panthawi yogonana
Kuti mumangirire munthu kwa iye ndikumupangitsa kumva bwino kwambiri, muyenera kulingalira za webusaiti ya siliva pa nthawi ya chibwenzi, chomwe chiyenera kukugwirizanitsani ndi mnzanu pamodzi. Kenaka nenani mawu awa:
"Ndikukukumbatirani ndikukomera mtima, mumapsompsona thupi langa ndikukumbukira za ine, timalandira zosangalatsa zakuthupi".
Mwambowu ukhoza kubwerezedwa kangapo.