Achibale ndi gawo lofunika pa moyo wa munthu aliyense. Zimakhudza mwachindunji moyo, kulera, chitukuko, kuzindikira, ndi zina. Nthawi zonse mukhoza kutembenukira kwa achibale kuti awathandize, koma nthawi zambiri amafuna nthawi ndi mphamvu pobwezera. Maloto okhudza achibale amatha kudziwa zambiri zosangalatsa za pakali pano komanso zam'tsogolo, chinthu chachikulu ndikufotokozera molondola zomwe adawona.
Kodi banja limalota chiyani?
Ngati mumalota mumawona achibale ochokera kumbali yoyipa akukhumudwitsa - ichi ndi chizindikiro chosasangalatsa, mwachitsanzo, mayi akulira akuwonetsa mkangano wa kunyumba kapena kusudzulana . Ngati munawona agogo kapena agogo aamuna m'maloto, ndizowakumbutsa kuti madalaka akale amakupachikidwa.
Kugona kumene mumakangana ndi achibale anu, mumachenjeza za kutheka kosalemekeza ena komanso mavuto awo omwe mukuyenera kuthana nawo popanda thandizo la achibale anu.
Nchifukwa chiyani wachibale wodwala ali ndi maloto?
Pankhaniyi, mukuyembekezerani chinthu chosayembekezereka, ndipo ngakhale kugona kungachenjeze zachinyengo. Maloto, omwe achibale akudwala amawonekera, amachititsa zinthu zosasangalatsa, zomwe zingasokoneze ubwino wa banja lanu. Maloto ena okhudza matendawa amachenjeza kuti posachedwa muyenera kuthetsa mavuto a achibale anu apamtima.
Kodi maloto a kubwera kwa achibale ndi otani?
Ngati mutayenderedwa ndi achibale omwe simukuyembekezera - chizindikiro cha kulandira nkhani, zabwino ndi zoipa. Kuti mumvetsetse bwino malotowo, ndi bwino kuyang'ana maonekedwe awo, ngati atavalidwa bwino komanso akusangalala, ndiye kuti uthenga wabwino udzakhala wabwino, ndipo ngati mutatopa, ndiye kuti muli oipa. Ngati kubwera kwa achibale sikukukondweretsa inu - chizindikiro chakuti mukuyembekeza kutaya pang'ono.
Kodi maliro a wachibale amawoneka bwanji?
Maloto omwe mumawona maliro ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chimalonjeza moyo wautali. Gala lakuda idzatha, ndipo mukhoza kuyamba gawo latsopano la moyo. Ngati mukumba m'manda m'maloto, ndiye kuti zovuta zomwe zakhala zikuchitika m'moyo zidzatha. Maloto okhudza maliro a achibale omwe adakali amoyo, amawawonetsa moyo wautali komanso wosangalatsa m'moyo weniweni.
N'chifukwa chiyani achibale ambiri akulota?
Pankhaniyi, malotowo akulosera chisoni chachikulu kuchokera ku miseche yomwe yamveka. Mpingo waukulu wa achibale ndiwo chizindikiro cha kusagwirizana kwa banja ndi kuwonongeka kwa maubwenzi m'banja. Ngati muwona achibale ambiri pamalo amodzi, mwinamwake mudzasakanikirana mukumenyana kwakukulu, komwe kumadzetsa kutsutsana kwakukulu.