Tsiku liri lonse panjira palibe munthu mmodzi, ena amawoneka mawonekedwe okondweretsa ndikuyamikila zosalakwa zosiyanasiyana, koma izi zonse zimatha. Ndiye kodi mungatani kuti munthu akhale ndi chidwi ndi iye? Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti padzakhala chovala chokwanira chokwanira komanso mapepala akuluakulu kuti ayambe kuzindikira zizindikiro za munthu wachidwi. Koma iyi ndi njira yokhayo yomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kuyang'ana koyambirira, kuti mutenge chidwi chenicheni simukuyenera kupeza zovala zokongola zokha.
Kodi mungapambane bwanji munthu?
Musanapange dongosolo loipa, ndi bwino kuphunzira zambiri za chinthu chomwe mukufuna. Chifukwa njira zowakopera mnzanu kuntchito ndipo mwamuna wokwatirana sangathe kuthandiza koma kukhala wosiyana. Inde, sikoyenera kulembetsa chikwama chonse, koma kuti mulandire zina zokhudza chikhalidwe chake kapena zofuna zake, sizikupweteka. Chabwino, ndiye kuti mukufunika kusonyeza chidwi chanu, kuyesera kuti mukhale naye nthawi zambiri kapena kumayankhula pamutu. Ngati wina akugwira nawo ntchito, chakudya chamasana kapena msonkhano kumalo osuta akhoza kukhala woyenera. Ndipo malangizo otsatirawa adzakuthandizani kupeĊµa zolakwa zambiri.
- Kulankhulana mobwerezabwereza, ndithudi, ndibwino, koma kukhala wotsutsa sikofunika. Musiyeni iye ndi malo anu omasuka, musawaponyedwe ndi mauthenga, ndipo nthawizina amakana kukumana.
- Mukasankha kugawana naye zakukhosi kwanu, musakhale achangu kwambiri. Ngakhale munthu wapafupi angathe kutopa nthawi zonse.
- Musayese kutsata malangizo a magazini a mafashoni, kupanga mtsikana wa maloto: ndi malingaliro oyenera, koma okonzekera bwino ndi omvera kwathunthu. Mumafuna kuti iye azikondana nanu, osati mu chithunzi chachinyengo.
- Muzimulemekeza, musakayikire luso la wosankhidwa wanu, koma musamangoganizira kwambiri. Palibe wina wangwiro, kotero nonse awiri muyenera kuvomerezana ndi zofooka zonse.
- Ngati mukuganiza momwe munganyamulire munthu wokwatira, muyenera kumvetsa chifukwa chake mukufunikira. Kodi mukufuna kutenga malo a mkazi wake kapena kuyembekezera chinthu chosagwirizanitsa? Choyamba, muyenera kumvetsera kwambiri, chifukwa palibe amene angapatse munthu chitsimikizo kuti akakwatira sadzalandira kalata ya wokondedwayo kale. Njira yachiwiri
zosavuta kuti aphedwe, koma pa izi ndi zofunika nthawi imodzi kuti ayang'ane mkazi wake kuti amvetse zomwe moyo wa banja sungakwanitse, kupeza mfundo zofooka.
Mfundo yakuti zonse zomwe mukuchita sizothandiza chabe zidzanena zizindikiro za munthu wokondwa. Mwachitsanzo, kusintha msinkhu wa liwu kumalo otsekemera ndi velvet pamene mukuyankhula nanu, chilakolako chokopa chidwi chanu, kupeza zotsalira za misonkhano yatsopano ndi inu. Nthawi zina mukamalankhula ndi mtsikana wokondweretsa mwamuna amasonyeza zizindikiro za mantha, amatha kuthamanga ndi mawu kapena amaoneka ngati wamanyazi.