Kugonana Panthawi ya Amishonale

Mishonare, kapena zolemba zamakono - izi mwina ndizovuta kwambiri pankhani yogonana. Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira moona mtima kuti kugonana pa ntchito yaumishonale ndi banal ndi kachitidwe kachikale, komabe, anthu ambiri nthawi zonse amachita kugonana mmalo mwa amishonale. Tiye tikambirane mwatsatanetsatane kuti dzina limeneli linachokera kuti, komanso momwe mungasinthire mizu ya tsankho lachikale.

Mbiri

Mbiri, ndithudi, ndi yodabwitsa, koma, monga akunena, palibe utsi wopanda moto. Zimanenedwa kuti amishonale achikatolika kuzilumba za Pacific adasankha kuunikira amitundu pa nkhaniyi. Akatolika anafalitsa chikhalidwe chotsatira cha amishonale, monga "okhawo opanda tchimo". Mwinamwake, chipembedzo chimavomereza izi chifukwa chakuti thupi loipitsidwa la mkazi liribisika pansi pa mwamuna, ndipo osati kusokonezeka ndi kupindika kwake, monga mwa ziwalo zina zogonana zimawoneka

Aborigines sapitiriza kuchita zachiwerewere (m'madera omwe amawakonda kwambiri), koma sadali aulesi kwambiri kuti afotokoze nkhani ya Akatolika kukhala ojambula zithunzi za Bronislav Malinovsky, akuyitcha yekha nzeru.

Njira

Mu njira ya umishonale, palibe chovuta, ndiye chifukwa chake maanja amachikonda, pamene onse awiri ali amwali. Kugonana m'malo mwa mmishonale ndi pamene onse awiri akukumana, ndipo munthuyo "ali pamwamba".

Zikuwoneka kuti kuwonjezerapo apa - ndizo, ndipo, ndithudi, ndiko ntchito ya mkazi kubodza ngati chipika ndi kusangalala. Komabe, zotsirizazo zikhoza kuchulukitsidwa mwa kuphunzira pang'ono za momwe angasamukire mmalo mwaumishonale.

Ife timasiyana

Pamene mwamuna alowa mu mbolo mukazi, mkaziyo ali ndi njira zingapo zoti asagone pansi pake:

• Bwerani mawondo anu, muweramire pamabondo ndikuyika mnzanu pamapewa anu;
• Pang'onopang'ono ndi mowoloka miyendo yanu kumbuyo kwa mnzanuyo;
• kuwonjezera miyendo ndi kuonjezera mavuto mu chikazi kapena mosiyana, kuwatambasula monga momwe zingathere, kuguguda pamadzulo;
• Ikani phazi limodzi pa phewa la mnzake, kukoketsani linalo pabedi, pakapita kanthawi musinthe miyendo yanu;
• khalani pa chifuwa chazitali, muzigwirizane, ndipo musanafike pachimake, lolani kuti lifike pafupi kwambiri (izi zidzakupangitsani kuti mumveke kuti mukulamuliridwa pabedi).

Kugonana kwachikale ku malo amishonale kumapangitsa abwenzi kuti ayang'ane wina ndi mzake, kumpsompsona, kumveketsa mawu okondana kumakutu, kumumvera wokondedwa kwambiri. Ndichifukwa chake akazi, mwachikondi, amakonda mpangidwe wa mmishonale - ndi wachikondi.

Koma pali zifukwa zingapo zoperekera kudzipereka.

Nchifukwa chiyani amai amakonda udindo wa mmishonale?

Choyamba, mkhalidwe waumishonale umakulolani kuti muiwale za zovutazo. Akazi amakana kugonana poyera, pamtendere wa wokwerapo, ndi onse chifukwa amaona kuti thupi lawo ndi lopanda ungwiro. Zotsatira zake, ngakhale atavomereza "Wokwerapo", adzatha kuganizira zolakwa zake zokha ndipo adzakambirana zovuta izi.

Chachiwiri, chifukwa cha kukula kwa mbolo, amayi ena amamva ululu panthawi ya kugonana. Mu ntchito yaumishonale, akazi akhoza Sungani zosangalatsa zosakanizika podziphatikiza ndi kutambasula miyendo yanu. Kotero, kuya kwa kulowa mkati kudzakhala kochepa.

Ndipo, chachitatu, chikhalidwe cha amishonale chimaonedwa kuti ndi chovomerezeka kwambiri pa kutenga pakati. Mwinamwake izi ndi tsankho zomwe zimafesedwa ndi amishonale omwewo pazilumba za Pacific, ndipo mwinamwake pali choonadi china m'mawu awa.

Chowonadi ndi chakuti m'mimba ya munthu, nyemba ndi yosavuta kuti ifike pachiberekero, ndipo, panthawi yomweyi, musatulukemo. Izi zimachokera ku chizoloŵezi chokhalitsa cha pansi pano, ndiko kuti, kutenga pakati pa amayi ayenera kugona pansi kotero kuti "imatuluka" bwino ndipo "sichitha". Koma, ndithudi, unyinji wa amayi umatenga pakati kunja kwa amishonale.