Mbali yeniyeni ya funsoli, momwe wina angataya umwali, kukaikira, ayenera kuganiza, sizimayambitsa aliyense, koma pali mantha ambiri ogwirizana ndi ndondomekoyi. Uku ndiko mantha a ululu, ndi mantha pazosauka kwake, ndi zina zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ambiri amachita manyazi chifukwa chakuti amalephera kukhala namwali, akuchedwa kuti ndichedwa kwambiri. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa tsankho lachinyengo kwambiri - pamene kuyamba moyo wawo wogonana ndi nkhani yachinsinsi kwa aliyense, ndipo maganizo a anthu alibe kanthu kochita nawo.
Ndibwino kuti mutayika umaliseche wanu?
Choyamba, tidziwa zomwe nthawi zambiri zimatanthauzidwa ndi funso la momwe tingathere kuti tipeze unamwali. Mwachiwonekere, ife sitikulankhula za kunja kwa nkhaniyi, chikhalidwe cha chikondi ndi zikhalidwe zina, monga maluwa okwera ndi makandulo. Mwinamwake, zimamveka momwe mungataya umaliseche mwamsanga ndipo popanda kupweteka ndi magazi. Ngakhale kuti liwiro silingathe kuneneratu, sikuti zonsezi zimachitika mutangoyamba kugonana. Koma kuchokera ku ululu, mwina, kuchokera kwa amphamvu, mukhoza kudzipulumutsa.
Choyamba, chinthu choyamba kuchita ndi kusiya kudzizunza nokha ndi kuganizira za kutha kwa namwali ndikusiya kuopa, chifukwa, poyamba, sikuti atsikana onse akumva ululu (mwa njira, mwazi, komanso osati aliyense) kapena vuto lililonse pa kugonana koyamba. Ndipo, kachiwiri, mantha okhudza izi, kuyembekezera kupweteka kumangowonjezera zinthu. Chifukwa cha mantha nthawi zonse, omwe amakhumudwitsidwa ndi kuyembekezera ululu wopweteka, minofu ya mgwirizano wa ma vagina, zomwe zimapangitsa ululu woyenera kuti ukhale weniweni. Choncho, kuti mupewe kupweteka, muyenera kudzipatula kuti musaganize za izo, ndipo yesani kumasuka monga momwe mungathere. Chabwino, izi ziyenera kumuthandiza mnzanuyo, ntchito yake ndikutonthoza ndi kukondweretsa mtsikanayo. Chifukwa mukakhala wokondwa muzimayi, mafuta amamasulidwa, omwe amathandizanso kuchepetsa kupweteka kapena kupewa kwathunthu. Koma nthawi zina, kachiwiri, chifukwa cha mantha osiyanasiyana, palibe mafuta okwanira, pakali pano akhoza kuthandizidwa ndi madzi apadera omwe angagulidwe pa pharmacy, malo ogulitsira pafupi kapena olamulidwa pa intaneti. Ngati, komabe, mwachibadwa minofu ya m'mimba imachepetsedwa, mukhoza kuwamasula, kuyesera kupuma, ndi mimba yanu yonse. Ngati ululu umachitika, ndi bwino kubwereranso kuchokera kwa mnzanuyo ndikukambirana naye zazomwezo, mwinamwake ali wofulumira kwambiri, ndipo mumasowa kwambiri ndipo muyenera kupita pang'onopang'ono. Ngakhale pali njira ina - wokondedwayo ayenera kulowa molimba kwambiri, kuti msungwanayo asakhale ndi nthawi yowopsya, ndipo afikitse minofu ya abambo. Mulimonsemo, ngati chinachake sichili bwino, ndiye bwino kusiya ndi kuyankhula. Ngati, mkati mwa mwezi wokhazikika, palibe chomwe chinachitika, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kutembenukira kwa mayi wazimayi, mwinamwake anthuwo ndi ochepa kwambiri, ndipo kuchotsedwa kwake kungafunike.
Kodi simungachite mantha kuti mutaya unamwali wanu?
Zomwe zinawoneka, kuti mutayika umaliseche wanu popanda kupweteka, simuyenera kuopa, koma muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti musamangodziwa? Choyamba, kumbukirani kuti chirichonse chidutsa mwa izi, kotero, ndizopusa kuti ziwope zomwezo. Ndipo ndithudi, muyenera kuganizira za chitetezo. Chabwino, mungatani kuti mukhale osangalala mukamaganizira za zinthu zakuthupi? Choncho, muyenera kuganizira momwe mungataya umaliseche mwanu kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino. Choyamba, chirichonse chiri chosavuta - musaiwale kudziteteza, ndipo kwa nthawi yoyamba bwino
Ndipo ndithudi, atatha kukhala namwali, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti zonse ziri bwino, choncho patapita kanthawi muyenera kupita kukaonana ndi amayi. Pambuyo pa kugonana koyamba, kumapeto kwa msambo nthawi zambiri kumasintha, kumakhala kochepa, ndipo kuchedwa kwa osapitirira mlungu ndi kotheka.