Ambiri mwa anthu ogonana mwachilungamo amadzifunsa ngati n'zotheka kupeza chilakolako cha kugonana kwa abambo, chifukwa malinga ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amadziwa, ndiye kuti amuna okhawo amasangalala ndi njirayi. Mwinamwake, malingalirowa anafalikira ndi amayi omwe amakana kuyesera koteroko.
Kukayikira ngati mkazi amalandira chilakolako chogonana, chitsimikizirani kuti pamtunda uko mulibe mapeto a mitsempha omwe ali ofunika kwambiri. Ndipotu, panthawi ya kugonana, theka la amayi laumunthu lingasangalatse, kusiyana ndi momwe ziririli, tsopano tidziwa.
Kodi mungapeze bwanji malonda a anal?
Amayi ambiri, mbali yovuta kwambiri ya vaginali ndi khoma lachimake, lomwe limakhala lolimbikitsidwa kwambiri kugonana , lomwe limapangitsa kuti munthu asamawonongeke. Chinthu chinanso chimene chimalola kuti theka lachikazi likhale losangalala ndi malo osokoneza bongo ozungulira anus. Kuphatikiza apo, munthu akhoza kupititsa patsogolo clitoris wa wokondedwa, zomwe zimakondweretsa chisangalalo.
Malangizo omwe angaphunzire momwe mungapezere chilakolako cha anal:
- Mu chisangalalo chofunika kwambiri ndi kukonzekera koyamba, komwe kumathandiza mkazi kuti azisangalala ndi kusintha kwake. Choyambirira chiyenera kukhala ngati kugonana kwachibadwa ndi kukakamiza zochitika zowonongeka. Mzimayi akamawombera, mnzakeyo ayenera kupita kumalo osungirako mankhwala. Pambuyo pa vutoli, mukhoza kupita ku gawo lotsatira.
- Ngati kachilombo ka abambo kachitidwe koyamba kamakhala koyamba, ndiye kuti woyambayo ayambe kuyikapo chala kapena dildo mu anus. Pambuyo pa masiku angapo akukonzekera mukhoza kupita molunjika ku ndondomekoyi.
- Musaiwale za kufunika kogwiritsira ntchito mafuta, chifukwa kachilombo kamene sikatulutsa mafuta okwanira.
- Kupeza momwe mungapezere chiwonongeko kuchokera ku kugonana kwa abambo, nkofunika kumvetsera ndi kuikapo, chifukwa ndi chiyanjano chilichonse, udindo wa anthu umakhala wofunikira. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, akazi nthawi zambiri amasangalala kugonana kwa abambo mmalo mwaumishonale. Komanso otchuka ndizolowera zamagulu ndi kumbali ndi miyendo yokhotakhota. Kuonjezerapo, mu izi zikuwoneka kuti ndi bwino kupititsa patsogolo khungu.
Pachifukwa ichi, mdani wamkulu ndi wothamanga, choncho chizoloŵezi chochepa ndi chikhumbo, ndipo cholinga chidzakwaniritsidwa.