Kwa mtsikana aliyense, kugonana koyamba ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri pamoyo. Ngati atasankha kuti adzalandire ubwenzi, ndiye kuti pali mwamuna woyenera kwambiri pomwe mkaziyo wadzipereka kuti apereke zina zonse, choncho ndi kofunika kwambiri kuti aphunzire bwino momwe angakonzekerere kugonana koyamba.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti moyo wonse wokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa mkazi udzadalira momwe zinthu zimachitikira nthawi yoyamba. Choncho, msungwana aliyense akunthunthumira ndi mantha akuyembekezera nthawi yoyamba. Osagwira ntchito yosafunika pa nkhani imeneyi imakhala ndi maganizo, kotero ndikofunika kwambiri kudziwa momwe mungakonzekera malingaliro kwa abambo oyamba.
Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji msungwana woyamba?
- Chinthu choyamba ndi chofunika kwambiri kuchita ndikutaya. Izi ndizofunikira osati kuthetsa nkhawa, koma kuti ndilowetsedwe mosavuta. Ngati msungwanayo akuwopa ndi kusokoneza, minofu yake imakhala yovuta, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti zidzakhala zovuta kuti alowe mkati mwa mbolo. Choncho, sizosangalatsa, zowawa. Asanayambe kugonana ndikumvetsera nyimbo zochepetsetsa, zokondweretsa, amagona m'madzi osambira omwe ali pafupi ndi makandulo onunkhira ndikuyesa kukondana. Iyi ndi nthawi yoyamba yomwe mtsikana amakumbukira moyo wake wonse.
- Uzani mowa - ayi! Pali lingaliro lakuti mowa umathandiza kupumula, kusinthira mwa njira yabwino ndipo ndi yofikira kwambiri ndi yabwino ya aphrodisiac , komabe, izi siziri choncho. Sizodabwitsa kunena kuti mowa umakhudza kugonana kwa amuna, chifukwa imachepetsa kutulutsa testosterone ya mahomoni yomwe imayambitsa zolimbikitsa. Choncho musamamwe mowa musanayambe kugonana. Kuti mudziwe kukonzekera bwino kugonana, muyenera kuleza mtima. Kwa nthawi yoyamba mnzanuyo ayenera kukhala woleza mtima, wochenjera, wachikondi komanso wofatsa. Musapange kayendedwe kadzidzidzi, chirichonse chiyenera kukhala chochedwa komanso chosavuta.
- Preludes - petting. Kwa nthawi yoyamba, simungakhoze kuthamanga. Musalole kuti mnzanu alowemo mpaka mutakonzekera. Kodi munayamba mwamvapo zowonongeka? Pali zambiri za thupi lanu, lolani mnzanuyo
Samalitsani ndi manja ndi milomo yanu. Kodi kupuma, kudzakulolani kuti muphunzire thupi la munthu komanso kukondwera kwambiri. Kumbukirani, mwamuna ayenera kukukondani ndi kukupangitsani "kukhala wouma." Ngati mafuta a chilengedwe samasulidwa, sikuti ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta opangira.
Mkazi aliyense, ngakhale ngati sakuvomereza, amakumbukira tsiku limene adatayika wopanda ungwiro. Winawake amakumbukira chochitika ichi ndi kumwetulira pang'ono pa nkhope yake, ndi wina wochita mantha. Choncho, ndikofunikira kuti mukhale mnzanu wokoma mtima komanso wokondana yemwe angapatse wokondedwa wanu zinthu zomwe simungaiwale komanso kukumbukira.