Mwachikhalidwe amakhulupirira kuti kugonana kwa abambo ndi lotola pafupifupi onse omwe ali okhwima mwauzimu omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana, koma amayi ambiri amavomereza kuti "Ndikufuna kugonana ndi abambo," koma zoona ndikuti amaletsedwa ndi mantha amtundu uliwonse. Ndipo udindo waukulu pakati pawo ndi mantha kuti zidzakhala zopweteka kukhala ndi chilakolako cha kugonana, ndipo ndithudi, nkhani ya chitetezo cha umoyo wa zokondweretsa zamtundu wa mtundu uwu ndifunikanso. Sitinganene kuti mantha onsewa anali opanda nzeru, koma mwa njira yolondola, chiopsezo chingachepetse. Momwe tingachitire izo, ife tsopano ndikumvetsa.
Kodi kugonana ndi abambo n'kovulaza?
Pali machenjezo ambiri okhudzana ndi chitonthozo cha mtundu umenewu, ena ofufuza amatha kunena kuti kugonana kwa abambo kumawonjezera chiopsezo cha khansa ya m'magazi. Zoonadi, mukakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chogonana choterechi muli chiopsezo china, koma zotsatira zovuta kwambiri zingapewe ngati mutatsatira malamulo otetezeka.
Ndi kangati mungakhale ndi kugonana koyamba?
Chikhulupiliro chakuti mungathe kugonana ndi abambo, momwe mukufunira, ndi cholakwika. Ndikumangokhalira kulimbikitsa malowa, sphincter amasiya pang'onopang'ono, kutaya mphamvu zogwira ntchito zake, ndiko kuti, kusunga zinyama ndi mpweya. Choncho, tsiku lililonse kuti mukondweretse nokha ndi mnzanu yemwe ali ndi mtundu uwu wa kugonana sikoyenera. Koma kugawa tsiku limodzi pamwezi kuti "kulowa mkati" kumakhala kusamala kwambiri.
Kodi mimba mungathe kugonana ndi abambo?
Nthawi zambiri, kugonana kwa abambo panthawi yoyembekezera sikuletsedwa, ndipo ndichifukwa chake:
- chiopsezo chotenga tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda,
- khungu lozungulira anus pa nthawiyi ndi lochepa kwambiri, lomwe limapangitsa chiopsezo cha kutaya kwa magazi;
- Pakati pa mimba, zimbudzi zimatha kuwoneka, ndipo kugonana kwa abambo kumadzetsa kutupa, kuchepetsa mwayi umenewu kuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta.
Chifukwa chokha cha kugonana kwa abambo pa nthawi ya mimba ndi kuchepa kwakumva kupweteka chifukwa cha kuphulika kwa matenda.
Kodi mtsikana ali ndi kugonana kwa agonana bwanji?
Kawirikawiri, amai amavomereza kuti kugonana kwa abambo kumalimbikitsa wokondedwa wawo, ndipo iwo eniwo sayembekezera chilichonse mwa njirayi. Pokhala ndi maganizo otere a "kudzimana" ndi mwachibadwa kukamba za zosangalatsa ndipo palibe funso. Choncho, ngati pazifukwa zina mtundu uwu wa kugonana sulandiridwa kwa inu, ndiye kuti simuyenera kuvomereza. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti choyamba chofunikira ndi chofunika kwambiri, ngati icho sichitha, ndiye kuti ndizovuta kwambiri (ndipo ngakhale zosatheka) kuti mkazi azisangalala ndi ndondomekoyi. Pofuna kupewa izi, mwamuna woyamba payekha ayenera kukhala womvetsera kwambiri komanso wochenjera kwambiri, mfundo izi siziyenera kuiwalika.
- Poyamba, funso loti mungachite bwanji kugonana koyamba, likuwoneka ngati zopusa, ndi nzeru yanji? Koma zonse sizili zophweka, kutsegulira kwa ana pofuna kukondweretsa zosangalatsa sikunakonzedwe, choncho popanda kukonzekera bwino mungathe kupeza zotsatira zovuta zambiri. Ndi funso loyamba caresses, pakadali pano kufunika kwawo sikungatheke. Popanda kunyalanyaza sipadzakhalanso zosangalatsa, ndipo popanda izo sipadzakhala kugonana.
- Ngati pali zosangalatsa zokwanira, kudula clitoris kapena kumwa mowa pang'ono kungathandize.
- Ngati mantha omwe akugonana nawo amayamba kupweteka, musalole kuti apite, ndiye mukhoza kuyesa kubzala pasadakhale. Pachifukwa ichi pali mapulasitiki apadera.
- Mukamagonana pogonana, kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta ndi kondomu n'koyenera. Komanso musasinthe kugonana ndi abambo popanda kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu kapena kusamba - microflora m'madera awiri sangathe kusakanikirana.
- Musanapite ku bizinesi, konzani ndi mnzanu yemwe, ngati akuvutika, adzaima.
- Zomwe zimapweteka zingagwirizane ndi kusandikira kwa msinkhu, choncho pa nthawiyi
ndi bwino kuti musakonzekere kuyesa. - Musanayambe kugonana ndi abambo muyenera kupita kuchimbudzi, ndithudi, mukhoza kuchita enema, koma izi ndi nthawi yoyamba. Kusangalatsa ndi njira zoyeretsera thupi sizothandiza konse.
- Simungayesere kugonana kwa abambo ngati pali ming'alu kapena kutupa mderali.
Kugonana kwachinyamata kungakhale chitsimikizo cha chikondi ndi chikhulupiliro cha abwenzi, kubweretsa zosiyana ndi zomveka ku moyo wapamtima. Koma mulimonsemo, yesetsani kapena ayi, mumasankha nokha, ndipo zosankha zanu zili zolondola.